Is this a red or a green flag
So I posted a tiktok because she acts straight and she is π³οΈβπ. And she liked my post and replied to it on instant messages with a π this morning I sent her a flirty text 'I can't wait to see you π' and she replied.'Can't wait to see you tooβ€οΈ' but I've noticed when she mention a boy she likes, she never mentions it ever again. Could she been doing these just to make me jealous? WHAT DOES IT MEAN y'all I'M SO CONFUSED!! π
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Hmm that's a tricky situation for sure. A few things it could mean:
- Good sign: She's into you and likes your flirty messages/attention. The heart is definitely a flirty response. Liking your TikTok about her being gay is also a good sign she isn't denying it.
- Potential red flag: The fact that she never mentions guys she likes for long could mean she's casually talking to others just bored or something. Or gets bored easily.
- Make you jealous tactic: Yeah it's possible the guy mentions are just to see your reaction or make you want her more if you get jealous. Kinda playing games.
My advice would be - don't get too invested yet. Keep things light and see if she wants to actually hang out in person soon just the two of you. Pay attention to how much effort she puts in to see you vs responding to DMs/texts. If she's mainly just online and not following through with plans, she may not be that into you. But if she puts in effort to spend real time together one on one that's a good sign. Just don't let her play games with your feelings, you deserve better than that! Trust your gut and don't overthink, see how it plays out. Hope this helps!! Let me know if you need any other advice
We hang out just the two of us but she told me she is bisexual just now is there any thing I can do to confirm that she likes me?
But now she is ignoring my texts. She responded ' do you know me' confused I said 'yes and why' she said I'm bisexual then I said same and she responded with β€οΈβ€οΈ
Hmmm okay, this is definitely an ambiguous situation. A few things I would consider:
- Coming out as bi to you could potentially be a good sign that she's opening up and feels comfortable sharing that part of herself. But it's hard to say for sure if it means she likes you romantically.
- The ignoring texts and vague "do you know me" response are yellow/caution flags. That seems confusing and evasive rather than clear communication.
- The heart emojis after you both acknowledged being bi could go either way - it could be affectionate/flirty, or just a friendly acknowledgement. Alone it's not definitive.
- At this point, I don't think you'll get real clarity or be able to "confirm" anything without directly talking to her.
My advice would be to give her some space since she's ignoring you, but then politely ask if you guys can chat in person to clear the air. Something like "No pressure at all, but I'm feeling confused about what's going on between us. When you're ready, I'm here if you wanna clear things up."
See how she responds to trying to schedule a talk. Her reaction may provide some insight, as could the conversation itself if you're able to have an honest discussion about where the friendship/more stands. Proceed gently though since you don't want to push her away either. Hard to say fully, but talking is your best bet here in my opinion!
may be some trio game! LOL
What does that mean?
@fousfortnite4 Threesome!
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