What is the most difficult thing for women to disclose?

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TheRealPepperPotts · Accepted Answer

None of these would be hard for me. I assume it's with someone we're dating?

If I ticked all the "worst" boxes, I think something like this:

If I was obese, I wouldn't have lied about that because it's kind of obvious?

If I was 40 years old, I wouldn't try and pretend I was 25?

If I had been a prostitute or had a very high body count, that's something that would be difficult to disclose up front. The reason is because a "good" guy would think less of me, and I would attract guys who just want sex. I would not put that information in a dating profile for that reason, because people too easily judge and I would want to explain it to someone I was actually dating, not whoever happened to read the profile. Maybe that's not the ideal way to handle it, but I don't think I'm totally off-base in my thinking here. But that's assuming I was seeking a LTR and wanting be monogamous.

So I vote body count, even though IRL these are all easy to disclose for me.

maddieisfineasf · Accepted Answer

Honestly for most Girls and Women it would be all of the above plus more one of the things most people don't understand is girls also struggle with talking about their mental health and what is going on in their head its hard for anybody to talk to and open up to someone about what you are struggling with because honestly you never know if someone is going to blackmail you or something based on something you have told them. Females and Males aren't all that different.

imtiaz45 · Accepted Answer

The most difficult thing for women to disclose can vary, but often it's related to experiences of trauma, such as sexual assault or abuse. These disclosures are challenging due to fear of not being believed, stigma, shame, and the potential emotional toll of revisiting painful memories. Additionally, women may struggle to disclose personal insecurities, mental health issues, or relationship problems due to societal pressures to appear strong and composed. Open communication in a supportive environment can help ease the difficulty of such disclosures.

RebelinSteel · Accepted Answer

Who on earth asks someone their weight, god they would be a complete fuckwit. ‘Excuse me you look great, would you like a drink , oh and how much do you weigh’. As for previous partners, never asked and never plan to. Age is likely the only question that is a common one as most people do not look their actual age, especially make up v no make up and dressed up or not.
The hardest ones for a woman to disclose, she can’t have kids, she has previous SA.

MisterWack · Answer

Instead of ‘body count’, I’d put  trauma  since that is something men & women don’t like discussing or opening up so easily….

ThaMaskedMarvel · Answer

Great question; had to think for a few seconds. I gotta go with weight.

I've seen women say their count before, & it wasn't even flattering numbers either. I guess it's popular in some subcultures to say it.

Now, about the age thing: you factor in that most young women will tell their age because it's a flattering age, but that many older women tend to lie. So, still you got some truth-tellers in that category. But, heck, even some 18 - 20 year old women will lie & say they're older.

So, it's gotta be the weight thing, yeah, it's super sensitive for women & some will only reveal it if it flatters them. Like, "Oh, you look good! You've lost some weight, haven't you?" "Yeah! I lost 33 pounds! I weigh 121 pounds now." (Which still holds the possibility of being an embellishment of some kind.) Again, great question. Wish I'd thought of it.

Anonymous · Answer

For me personally it’s my body count. I don’t really care about my age bcs people think I’m still in college even tho I’m 30, and I’m only 95 lbs so I don’t care about that either. I live in a really conservative country, people are sexually active but we don’t go around talking about body counts so it makes me uncomfortable having to disclose my number (it’s 4 if you’re wondering lol).

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Probably weight because it’s the hardest to hide.
Frankly, if a woman isn’t completely honest with you about all of those things, it’s a major red flag. If you can’t trust her to be honest about the little things, you’re a fool to trust her with anything.

meepmeeperton · Answer

I think women will always be tricky about their past. My girlfriend was a kissless virgin before me, but even she was deceptive about how many guys she had flirted with or dated. All while trying to interrogate me about girls who had crushes on me and stalking their social media! Yeah she’s a little crazy but I love her…

thatshydork · Answer

There are two things I have learned from listening/watching the people around me. One, you never ask a lady how much she weighs. Two, you never ask about a persons body count unless you’re friends.

CrabCakes11 · Answer

I don’t lie about any of those. I’m least likely to tell a stranger in person my body count since it’s a more personal question. For anybody curious I’m 19, 100lbs, and my body count is 1

ClaircognizantEmpath · Answer

none of the above, seriously, for me, to disclose my true raw naive self and not be burned yet again... seriously I've given up now...

Jessica405 · Answer

Body count, I guess. Guys can tell your rough weight and age just by looking. Body count could be anything.

handsomelad70 · Answer

It used to be age and weight (and always will be to some degree), but it seems lots of today's lads (it was always such, but in today's more openly s*exual society, it's become a norm) want to know a lady's BC.

AviatorTom · Answer

Most women lie about their age. And that comment is probably going to get a lot of negative pushback.

DrPepper12 · Answer

If there wasn't a poll I would have said a prior abortion. I can't see ANY man asking that tho. Ladies has any man ever had the balls to ask about something that is none of his fuckin business?

Kelley1 · Answer

Body count because it is the one thing a women can lie about.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

weight because i'm lazy and hardly ever weigh myself XD

Avicenna · Answer

I'm going to say mental health issues, where applicable

Nikki1989 · Answer

Why would anyone ask such invasive questions?

SotiCoto · Answer

Most people don't like it when they find out how many you've murdered. Personally if a girl let me know they were a serial killer, I'd be turned on.

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

I find none of these topics difficult to clear up.  Age:19 Weight:155 lbs. Body count: 0 Height:5'9

Anonymous · Answer

body count obviously. if it didn't matter, then it wouldn't be so difficult to disclose

Iron_Man · Answer

Age weight and they probably don’t want to talk about body counts

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Depends on the girl. I would suggest the order is body count, weight, then age.

dolemite58 · Answer

Body count, the vast majority of women have to lie about it.

msc545 · Answer

Mostly I think it's their weight

Anonymous · Answer

the man they love

DarkLegacy · Answer

The truth

Pohjolan · Answer

Being wrong.

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