OMG I can't stop laughing. Dude that is too funny.
Thank you nice tips we need all the help we can get well I do anyway
Thank you for the honesty! Is there anything bigger then what you mentioned that could change the course of history, the planet or the solar system that men should know? If so you are bound by the gods to let us know.
Yeah I'm sorry I don't quite understand what you mean about what I wrote perhaps you could just break it down for me what what what did I say
@coachTanthony I'm thinking! I wish this site had an edit button so I could just update my list later if need be instead of using the comment section. In a way... and ladies don't hate me for saying this, but maybe we SHOULD help some of these men out! Then they would know how to keep and make us happy, lol
Exactly! Now you're talking!
I'll remember that.
You are basically saying Men need to be more needy by sending more texts? What?
No lol im just saying i know a lot of guys who are nervous about double texting a girl cos they think it seems “desperate”, i just told the guy it’s not at all. I think it’s sweet.
I don't think that's what she said at all.. I understood it as her expressing a desire to be desired and that texting is a way that desire can be expressed. she said she "low key enjoys it" not "Men need to"
Got it! That makes sense!
Dear meI hate when this happens. I just think, just send one ling text. So much easier to read too. Better yet, call or just meet up.
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I’m getting thumbs down cause the secret is OUT 😎. We fight and complain to customer service in public. (Tell me you have never seen a woman get all dramatic fighting in public causing a scene)We don’t wipe when using the bathroom and don’t flush. (Now I know I have walked in bathroom stalls witnessing a girl poop and blood not flushing 🤢. Also guys who were/are janitors can back up this claim. That women’s bathroom is dirtier than a men’s bathroom )We gossip and are backstabbers even to our best friends. (We all talk about our friends behind their back cause we have “good intentions”. But that goes south real quick once they find out)Other girls are our competition. If we see a good looking girl, we get jealous. (This one is easy, tell me you have not been seeing girls here on G@G asking “how do I look?” For attention seeking just to feel good about themselves cause they felt insecure seeing another beautiful girl before them) And the other two, are still true
I'll take it!
Your girlfriends are partially to blame for this. Women abuse the crap out of guys for approaching the wrong way.
@winterfox10 You can't be abused unless you let them abuse you. Come on man.
That may be the silliest thing anyone has ever said. Of course you can be abused without "letting" them. After they start abusing you is when you decide whether or not to stick around.
@winterfox10 How long were you being abused for? I don't say silly things.. just for the record.
By women? Not very long, it has just happened with a higher number of women than one would reasonably expect. I don't stick around once I see that she's going to be hostile with me, but I do get tired of the crap after a while. I let the woman come to me now, and I've had way better results.
@winterfox10 LMAO how can women abuse the crap out of you if you aren't sticking around? "The crap out of you" is pretty extreme is what I am saying. If anything they may have hurt your ego a smidget but lets not get carried away is all i'm saying.
Men are not going to ask you. No man wants to be metoo'd.
You'll note how I used the word "women," to refer to females as a collective. I feel as though I haven't been clear enough in my point. Even if you don't stick around to be abused, if multiple women (that is, multiple human females) have treated you poorly in response to approaching them, you simply won't approach other women in the future. Besides, you can treat someone extremely poorly in a short period of time, and abuse the crap out of them. It's not just about the duration of an individual woman's (that is, one human female) treatment.
@Texaskid1 Well that is a good point. But do most men believe the metoo movement has penetrated society that they will never approach someone again? Highly doubtful in my opinion.
@coachTanthony It's not that you never approach women again, it's just that you get really cautious in doing it. I would rather be SURE that things aren't going to go badly.
I tell guys this - to be assertive... and it always falls in deaf ears.
@winterfox10 To each their own. I don't play it safe. I would rather be rejected harshly then be ambiguous in my intentions.
We are getting there. No body has the cojones to stand up to the metoo crowd. So they just keep growing and growing. Like a cancer. I think someday -at least in liberal strong holds like NYC and California- men will be hauled off to jail for even speaking to a woman. It seems far fetched but give it 15 -20 years. Maybe less.
@Texaskid1 Never say never! If it gets infected like a cancer... why not.
Hola pues..😂 Unfortunately there is some women out there that are pretty abusive.. one of my ex friends would treat her boyfriend like a dog and she would always boss him around, and the reason why he would let her is because he just never thought it was okay to hit or hurt a woman emotionally or physically. Honestly, I would rather make it legal to defend yourself from a female, then see all of these men suffer and have to take up hits and emotions.
@TengoSueño Hitting or abusing a woman is never okay. In this case of this dude who uses that as an excuse to be abused is insane. You don't have to hit or abuse a woman to not let a woman abuse you. There is obviously seriously something wrong with the dude's mental wiring.
The easier approach is just to kick that sort of woman to the curb. Or having women friends like mine that if they ever saw that happen I would have to peel them off said girlfriend so they wouldn't kill her. But since I avoid demonic women since getting involved with one from the 7th dimension of hell nearly a lifetime agp, it is safe to say I learned my lesson and how to spot such creatures of the damned.
@MannMitAntworten You had me at creatures of the damned LOL.
You know I used to agree, however I don’t anymore because it’s just unfair and we tend to take advantage of it, I have found myself guilty as well. After the 15th amendment in order to make it up to women for being treated like crap they were given slightly more rights, a stronger feminist crowd, and support from society which came about to raising kids to never hit a woman, don’t get me wrong it’s NOT okay to hit anybody, however In cases of public assault when a woman assaults you, you should be able to defend yourself and not just take it like a slave.
@TengoSueño Self defense laws are on the books for anyone who gets assaulted can defend themselves. Now will it go the guys way? Probably not that is why we don't do it. Guys who are in that situation need to have more self awareness of what is going on. Sorry but if a guy gets caught up in that kind of abuse where he is obviously more physically dominate but still takes a beating... then shame on him. You have two legs.. run and get the fuck out of there. Make better decisions.
@TengoSueño Well if it were up to coach tony, here, we wouldn't have to worry about being punched by women, because you can't get abused if you don't stick around for it. All you have to do is predict when she's going to punch you, and then build an inter-dimensional wormhole so that you can transport 100 yards away from her and avoid the fight.
Bummer that the practice of burning witches has become frowned upon.
@coachTanthonyWhat I mean is, men won’t defend themselves from being afraid of being hated by society and of lawsuits. No one has to simply run away from a problem, the person causing a problem should be held accountable REGARDLESS of their gender.
@TengoSueño I am not disagreeing with you but it doesn't make it right. No matter what the abuse they need to protect themselves first over what society thinks. It's just that black and white for me.
Hmm okay, well if I ever know who to have a boxing match with then it’ll be you Anthony 😂
I agree with @coachTanthony. Just don't let them abuse you and you will be fine
Also if I have in some instance to punch I women I will with zero problems. I am not a violent person, I really am not, but if she strikes first she is getting it
Well if that’s how you feel then you don’t really agree with the Coach, you agree with me lol.
@TengoSueño I know he thinks we shouldn't do it. But he also thinks that woman only abuse to where we let them abuse. I agree with him there.
I think the thing that bothers me about coach's perspective is that even if he doesn't actually think this, it is reflective of an attitude that many men his age have that the only thing a woman can do is turn you down. That may have been true at other times in history, and even in his lifetime, but the reality is that women have a much more far-reaching impact than they ever have before. you don't need to do anything to a woman to end up in some smear campaign that she creates against you. I have lived through this several times myself.
I also think violence shouldn’t be used, as I said 54 minutes ago.
@winterfox10 what are you indicating?
I was just piggybacking on what he had said about how men need to avoid conflict with women, or try to stand up for themselves in nonviolent ways. It presupposes that the woman would be upfront in her problems with you. In my experience women wait until your back is turned before they drag your name through the mud, or otherwise attack you. They usually find a way to make sure you can't link it back to them either
@winterfox10 The problem is you think I am now aware of this and if I were I would somehow think differently. I don't. Whether it's twitter, instagram, facebook anyone of us can be smeared and quite quickly. I have over 50k followers across all my platforms.. do you really think that I have not been attacked? The internet is just the beginning. You want to be careful and back down and play it safe then go ahead but to say I am old and don't know is CRACKERS SON.
So.. do you guys want a snickers?
@winterfox10 I am your age. I don't have a problem with talking to girls. If they talk shit either walk away when they are still talking while roling your eyes, they hate that! Or just talk shit back. About that smear campain, if you have a good reputation among your friends you will still have it no matter what she says. If others believe it screw them! If anything I will prove them right for fun
Actually @ThisIsMyOpinion, you’re my age dude, winterfox10 is one year younger. 😛
@TengoSueño Yes I would like one ^_^
@TengoSueño Are you going for another viral comment thread? LOL
@TengoSueño I am 27 for a little more than a month now. And I wanted to tell him I am his contemporary and I don't agree with the statement he made about coach not understanding him due to his age. Since I also can't
You know it Coach 😄.Omg we share the month of birth then @ThisMyOpinion!!
@TengoSueño *High five*
You’re still 27 by the way, don’t try to make yourself feel younger. 😂😂😂😆
No, I don't feel entitlement to some kind of special treatment from women. All I'm saying is that the danger of having my reputation smeared, especially because I am a small business owner, is too great for me to risk having some woman who doesn't know the first thing about me try to destroy my reputation. The only thing worse than a real scandal is a fake one.
It is a risk which I have found successful ways of avoiding, so that is exactly what I do.
I have had a woman's smear campaign cost my business literally tens of thousands of dollars. A woman's badmouthing almost put my company under.
@winterfox10 what happened?
It happened twice, but the more relevant example happened as a result of this girl that I had a little bit of a crush on back in high school. Even though we haven't spoken for the best part of a decade. I had tried to get in on a business arrangement with one of her friends who was a fellow photographer in my area. at first he was really excited about the prospect of working together, but then a week later he started getting really sketchy and weird. his other business partners are good friends of mine, and so I reached out to ask what happened. That's when they told me that this girl from high school and smeared my name and told him to avoid me. Apparently I couldn't be trusted. This being said by a girl whom I still don't know what I did to upset her.
@TengoSueño Again it was just to let the other guy know that I didn't agree with him. Even he used you don't get me because you are older card. By the way I am going to hit my prime at 35!
Dang winterfox10, that’s sounds awful.. I hope you confronted her about it, no one deserves that!
Mhm @ThisIsMyOpinion sure 😛
What's the use? Then I'm just a vengeful asshole who carries a grudge. Thank you for that cookie though! Lol I really do appreciate a good snack before bed. It was a pleasure talking with you all
It’s not about being vengeful, it’s about clearing stuff up and understanding why she did it and making a new for yourself! No problemo goodnight
Making a name for yourself*
In fairness to her, I'm pretty sure that my reputation in my hometown is shot anyway... I'm hoping to leave pretty soon. Too much bad magic in the air
CoachYou are really pathetic dude
@NFKRZ11 Get lost squidward!
@TengoSueño I could say "oh you will see". Since you probably are not going to see I can only leave here the example of many guys that had their prime past 30... Henry CavillJoe ManganielloChris HemsworthHugh JackmanEtc
Yes you are! :+)
Lol some hoe downvoted me
LOL I saw that!
The cookies are now what one seeks. It's the other stuff. Respect that it is time to share those secrets!
If you tell a secrets its not a secret anymore. Thus are not allowed to tell a secret. But if you ask specific questions thus are willing to share their own Minds.
Specifically what are the secrets you never tell men? Specifically! :+)
Well we need brave women to come forward. I know deep in my soul you are one of those women. So spill it sister!!!
haha, no some things are going to be kept private, but I can tell a few that I don't usually tell men but secretly think. when I ask him to do something that I can do myself like sharpen the knives or change the tire. I ask him because he likes to do that, but secretly I know I can do it myself just allow him to do the manly things. I don't let him know how much I need him, because he likes my independence. I don't tell him I wish he stayed in bed more often, because I know he has other things to do. If I reject a guy I sometimes don't tell the real reason why, because I feel like it would be hurtful. In the past the real reasons were I didn't like how he was with his ex girlfriend, or I find him very irresponsable, or I think he was a bit boring. I am a feminist and support equal rights, but secretly I will always choose the guy who enjoy the chivalry, when he opens a door or pays for a meal. I will never tell them because that would be hypocritical, but I still think some traditions are beautiful. I pretend I don't fart and only do it when he's not around. It's not actually a secret, but he hasn't caught me yet lol... hmm... there are so many little things like that, but these were the first that came to mind that I could tell... I think they should remain secrets
That is one of the best answers I have seen yet! You get it! Love it!
With honesty of course!
You said you wanted us to say what we can never say. If I gave you an answer then it clearly doesn’t answer your question.
That is correct !!! But today we break that mold. Shatter that secretive glass ceiling with some honesty. How about it?
Well if I broke the ceiling then I’m not telling you something I would never say. Ergo, I wouldn’t be answering the question you asked.
Enough with the word games. Tell us the secrets at once!
Are you a man?
I am a seeker of wisdom and truth. I have been sent here to seek out the secrets you have coveted. So what shall it be? Tell us the truth or fear regret in your heart and maybe your soul for the rest of your life. You don't want that regret on your conscious do you?
Alright.I sometimes play video games at work.I actually like some canned foods cold and will eat them right out of the can.I use my small size and appearance as a ploy to get what I want at work.I sometimes mix chocolate chips in with jif peanut butter and eat it with a spoon from a bowl.I'll sometimes go days and eat no more than a few bites of mozzarella cheese to keep my weight down.I hate exercising.Im addicted to Coca-Cola
That is quite interesting. What food do you like eating straight from the can? I can eat Chef Boyardee cheese ravioli all day out of a can. They should send it to our soldiers. LOL
CB Spaghetti and Meatballs is my go to. But there are some soups and stuff I like as well.
I knew it! That shit is just good cold. I guess it's like cold pizza. Thanks for the comments.
I think a lot of guys would agree with me on this: I would rather not express my emotions, than do so and be perceived as weak or less manly.I agree, many men do that.
Yeah I know, they tend to hide them instead and it’s not healthy to not vent! I encourage every man to express themselves the way they want to!
Society doesn't allow men to show their emotions. Women often claim they want their man to open up. But when they do, the men are no longer attractive to their woman.
That’s not true! Why would someone expressing themselves be unattractive?
Because of the primal subconcious. Women are attracted to strength and confidence. It's where the saying comes from "nice guys finish last".www.google.com/url
But I wish it wasn't true. I really do. But it is what it is.www.google.com/urlhttps://youtu.be/hwQ1YW0YPLw
Well, speak for yourself but I’m not just attracted to strength and confidence, not everyone has those qualities and to be fake isn’t attractive at all. Nice guys certainly don’t finish last, being genuine is crucial.
Hey hey, I'm not saying you do. I'm saying what mainstream women do. Not all women. And having conversed with you before, I have no trouble beleiving you whatsoever. You are a lovely person. But you also are very mature.I would suspect that you were never part of the "mean girls" club in school.
Well thanks lol, but the nice guys finish last is a pretty generalized stereotype, I have talked with friends about it, and there is nothing more unattractive than douche.
That's true. But then the terms Men and Women are inadvertent stereotypes. Particularly when we look at traits and psychology.
Yes we are on the same page! So whatcha got?
Got it ! LOL
LOL do you even have any money?
No.I have no girlfriend either.But I do hold a steady job. That's for sure.
Well that is a start!
But it pays pennies man! I live paycheck to paycheck with minimal leftovers.I do hate to think, that they want our money but at the same time who in all honesty wants to date a broke man?
Well nobody. I became a minimalist 10 years ago. Had a high paying job.. left it cold turkey. I live on nothing now. It's not the pay that keeps most down it's the spending. I run my coaching business now but back then I was working part time living the life.
So do you have a woman at this time? Were you rejected or dumped for having little to no money?
Rejected or dumped for not having money? No. Hell they paid most of the time because they knew I was just trying to follow my passion and get my business going. Being broke is a mindset and not a very good one. Need to break out of that dude.
Not a mindset but a lack of funds. The bank's empty.
Okay man, thanks for the comments!
My pleasure!Keep an eye for the bank account and monitor it closely!
Can you at least tell me the secrets to a woman's heart?
@ravagesavage Yes great question!!!
Throw us a bone ! LOL
Going for the worst comment I see. Impressive.
Humans hate the truth. They prefer pretty little lies that make them feel good instead of facing reality.
I agree 100%
just because it's your opinion, doesn't make it a fact.
That is so very true but in your case... Nahhhhhh
Sex always has a price to pay in the end. This is whether it's money handed directly/indirectly or time invested and energy/work. It has tremendous value and women know that so they commodifie it. Sex is only free for women...
Again, you love to dump all the cool guys who don't pay for sex , like me, in with yourself. Please leave us out of it.
of course sex has a price. it's just not always monetary. sometimes you have to buy it with love and affection.
Don't waste your time with these people full metal jacket. The only thing that's gonna come out of this is your notifications getting flooded. Let them think what they wanna think. Who gives a shit about what they think anyways?
@UI_Vegeta01 Exactly! I couldn't agree more!
Not to worry my time here is done anyway. I'll always be painted the bad guy in the end for what I say because ya know... I'm like icons such Thanos (Avengers), The Joker (Dark Knight) or Jason Voorhees (Friday the 13th); I make sense and see everything quite clear.
An now I'll finally rest and watch the sunrise on a grateful universe lol
It means get lost Squidward!
Squidward? I'm gonna have to Google that one lol Honestly dont take it personal coach. I'm not here to try ruin your brand, man's just spreading the seed of knowledge around.
Dude it's from Infinity war man! come on!
Okay maybe I don't know all of them then...
Some of us are cats
@DontFvckingAskMe @xxsnowbirdxx I don't disagree with anything that you have said here.
Finally the truth! LOL.
It all makes sense now...
Unless you're a female version of Barney Stinson. Most genuine guys dont really care about the number of previous partners to much
@Tomsta I disagree bro. Just like your girlfriend finding out how many people you've slept with can be awkward, you finding out how many people your girlfriend has slept with can be similarly awkward. Just pointing out that it's an actual thing
I disagree with you there. People put to much empahsis on the number of people theyve previously slept with... the number doesn't matter
@Tomsta, But the fact that you say "people put too much emphasis on the number of people they've previously slept with" means that you recognize that it IS a thing that put a lot of emphasis on, correct? Whether or not it's a thing we SHOULD be doing is a separate matter.
*that people put
Its a thing people put emphasis on yes. But people worry about it to muchWhat does it matter if a girl has been with like 30 guys and vice versa. What shoukd matter is that they are with you now
And thats a bad thing?
Not at all. I'm not ashamed
Thats very awesome!
We won't tell anyone! It will just be between us!
That's bad... just like ladyboys not saying they are not the real thing