She started avoiding me all of a sudden?

[Anonymous]

she was pretty interested then couple days later she avoided me and looked at her phone. next day, we were walking towards each other and i was about to make a move on her, but she ignored my existence again and didn't look at me while her friend was staring at me.

So i decided to let her go and ignore her back. She saw me with my female friends and got jealous, i ignored her back just like she did to me. After that she started looking at me all the time and i continiued to ignore her. Now she looks sad but still tries to get my attention.

What is she trying to do? Why she acted like that when she was pretty into me before?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang bro, that's confusing for sure. Girls can be so hard to figure out sometimes. My best guess is she may have gotten nervous when things were starting to move in a more flirty direction between you two. Some girls will pull away like that when they start catching real feelings.

Maybe seeing you make a move scared her a little since she realized she was actually into you. Then when she saw you talking to other girls, she got jealous like you said. Girls seem to like what they can't have, you know? Ignoring her back was a good move - now she knows how it feels!

I'd say don't make it too easy for her just yet. Let her come to you a little bit since she started the hot and cold game. But definitely give her some small smiles or eye contact so she knows you're still interested too. If she seems genuine in trying to talk, respond in a chill way. Who knows, once she sees you're not just a sure thing she might decide she likes the chase. Just play it cool and see where it goes from here dude!

[coxoabean]

Sounds like she is either playing hard to get. I think one reason some girls may play hard to get is because they are afraid of being hurt, so they want you to work really hard for them, and if you do you may be less likely to hurt them. She could also not really be playing hard to get and just wasn't interested but then when she saw you were with someone else she got jealous. (Some girls do that) I don't know whyy. Like one time I was talking to a guy and there was a girl who wasn't interested in him, but then when I was talking to him all of a sudden she was. Absolutely frustrating haha 😅

[Asker]

Well im so done with these type of girls who play games. She can play all she wants by herself im done with it. I was about to make a move she ignored me twice on a row im so sick of it

[coxoabean]

I understand what you mean and I'm sorry that your dealing with that. The games are annoying, I talked to a guy who for real led me on for a yr and a half. That hurt so much. After that, there's no way I am going to just let that happen again. It's so messed up to mess with ppls feelings and so I totally understand why you'd be sick of it. It is hurtful and people will often not think of others feelings which isn't fair. I hope you find someone great for you who won't mess around. Maybe though, have you tried communicating this with her?

[Anonymous]

Reach out to her and stop the games work it out. ask her what had happened

[Asker]

Im not the one whos playing games though im so sick of her. she's a walking red flag she can play her stupid games by herself im out

[Opinion Owner]

Give her one last chance

[Asker]

I honestly dont think she's the right one for me and she's playing with my head and feelings, im heaving mental health issues because of her started taking meds.. I think its time to give up

[Opinion Owner]

Follow your heart