+1 yAlmost certainly terrible in the bedroom and inexperienced - not sure why guys are into this (unless insecure or religious). I’d rather be with someone that knows what they’re doing. That said, I don’t count someone out just because they’re a virgin but I do have to mentally prepare myself for the fact I’ll need to teach them and take things very slowly with them, and that there’s added responsibility Sue to added feelings on first time. I’ve only been with 1 virgin in the past 5 years - have actively avoided sleeping with a few due to the above reasons. Obviously when I was 16-20 it was a lot more common but was still definitely not a preference. like all things - people with experience are better. Why start with a blank slate? Experienced people can teach you new ways of doing things. Obviously I do respect a woman’s right to wait until a serious relationship and this is a very respectable trait - I’d just rather someone with experience if I’m going to spend my time with them.
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697 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I don't have anything against them. Everyone was a virgin at one time. But I don't place any value on "purity". I generally prefer a woman who likes sex a lot and has experience.
I certainly wouldn't date a woman who was "saving" herself for marriage because I wouldn't consider marrying someone unless I knew we were compatible in every way, including sexually.
But it I liked her and we clicked, I definitely wouldn't hold her virginity against her as long as she had a libido and wanted to be in a relationship with me and give herself to me completely. I would be honored to tenderly initiate her into adulthood and teach her the ecstasy of foreplay and sex.10 Reply
If all other factors are equal, from ages 13 to 21, virgins have greater sexual market. However, there is nothing attractive about a 30 year old virgin and even a 25 year old virgin would be suspect. Wouldn't you wonder, what is her problem?
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Why is that a problem? The problem I see is a girl sleeping with the whole football team, and basketball, and even the guys in the Chess Club. I can't see a Ho being much of a prize, except to have sex with. 😫
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@Daniela1982 It is a problem if she is lacking in normal sexual desires. To have a body count of 1 or 2 with long-term boyfriends, is vastly different than doing the football team.
According to a report by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), approximately 4.8 percent of women between the ages of 25 and 29 have never had sex, and 2.4 percent of women aged 30 to 34 are virgins and of those almost all remain virgins.
If a 25 year old woman is virgin there is a 50% probability she will remain a virgin. That is more than reason enough to suspect a 25 year old virgin. - +1 y
I don't agree with your assessment, but I know everyone has their own views on everything here.
1.5K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. They're either actual virgins or "as good as virgins" (some degree of sexual activity but no PIV yet).
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+1 yWomen have to start somewhere, if a woman wants to keep herself ‘pure’ & ‘virgin’ until the perfect lover comes around to take it from her then cool.
If women start sleeping with guys just to experiment, do meaningful self reflection in their mind view, get it over with, lust then cool.
That is all cool since it is their decision and their decision matters to them. As long as it isn’t illegal, go nuts & have fun!10 Reply
+1 ydepends on the reason :D
she can be picky, shy, her personality can be shitty, whatever...
but it doesn't matter what people think... because they don't know the context...
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+1 yVirginity doesn't matter to me. I've only had penetrative sex with one girl and received oral from 5 total. Everyone makes mistakes. If anything I might be a little worried that a girl that hasn't been in a relationship with a guy before might not know what she wants. But other than that, girls that are virgins or have low body counts are definitely preferable to girls that have high body counts and sleep around.
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I mean if they haven't killed anyone because they don't reckon the consequences are worth the act, I can respect that.
If they haven't killed anyone because they believe killing is wrong... then they're weak and pathetic and I want nothing to do with them.00 Reply
+1 y👀👀👀🔮 wonderful question - a woman in her 20s with no body count - I'd still be wary of if she's done "other things" - aka foreplay or oral - with other guy/s before dating me. I consider that bodycounting
00 ReplyI'm asexual and I would never do anything, hence I see it totally perfect for the girl to be a virgin.
00 Reply316 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Some people don't like sex, it's for me like not liking ice cream or sweets. I don't judge them for that.
00 Reply332 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Someone saving herself until marriage is the only type deserving of being provided for in a more traditional relationship.
00 Reply4.3K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. There's a lot more to a woman than that. The one virgin I dated was a really good girlfriend.
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+1 yUnless I'm mistaken, that's the definition of a virgin.
Remember... we are all virgins... until we're not.
00 Reply They are the best kind of girls, I sure don't want used goods, and I sure don't want a ho.
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NOBODY wants a ho.(Well, nobody with taste in women wants a ho.)
+1 yIt's cool? I don't know, I just think it's rare these days and shows that the girl isn't willing to be with just anyond
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*anyone
+1 yI think it depends on their age. At your age I think it's attractive. At twice your age I would think it's worrisome.
00 Reply311 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. That is a personal matter for those people. I have no input either way. I am okay with it just as I am okay with a three hundred or more body count. We all have past of some kind.
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+1 yI really don't have any thought about it one way or the other.
00 Reply 1.7K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I think it is a good thing. It is not something to be ashamed of. I had a very low body count.
00 Reply583 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Nothing wrong unless the girl is super religious or just shy and never wanted to experience sex.
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+1 yNothing. Being a virgin or not doesn't determine one's personality nor kind of heart they have as all humans at point was a virgin.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yshe's someone worth investing love, time, energy, resources and protection in
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+1 ythey are still not perfect as people say they are
00 ReplyI give them a lot of credit for holding out.
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+1 ytheir choice
I prefer girls with a little sex experience
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+1 ywife material
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+1 yThey aren't into random lads.
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+1 yThat's what's up 👍🏼
00 Reply Not gona judge them. Their body, their choice!
00 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. She probably has self respect
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+1 yThink it’s good they haven’t killed anyone
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Yours is the only intelligent reply on this thread.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yPreferable, to put it simply.
10 Reply335 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. No STD:s and lesser risk of cheating.
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+1 yHow can i prove she has no body count
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI would like to date someone like that.
10 ReplyNot interested
00 ReplyHigh class lady.
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+1 yNo big deal
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