I have heard many comments about how girls shouldn't have any muscles or strenght. Im 5'11, 170 pounds (mostly muscles) so i get those comment very often. Im not sure if they come just from some insecure men or if its normal thing that guys dont want their girlfriend to be bigger or maybe even stronger. Guys Can you imagine relationship like this? Girls any experiences with this?
I don't like extremes in any body forms or practices.
I don't want to look extremely fat, thin or muscular. I think muscularity that is functional is what I want and is how I want to look. Being "musclebound," or heavily muscled, that has nothing to do with the work you perform, such as construction work, has to do with vanity, rather than functionality.
However, people often transform their bodies according to vanity, or just to "see" what they can do with it, as if it's a tool, or to compete with others.
It's the same addiction as people who get extensive plastic surgery, and has to do with extreme diets, supplements, testosterone additions, excessive weight-training hours and competing with others for a "look." The reasons behind this are mental compensation for something the person feels is missing in themselves.
Your body form should have to do with natural genetics, health and functionality, in my opinion. Otherwise, it's a form of obsession and body dysmorphia.
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I think such girls are strong 💪. Although many people from my culture don't like muscular girls, I think one should prioritise health. Having muscles is healthy and you should value your own opinion about yourself. As far as I am concerned, I don't want to look like that.
I assume that is a picture of you.
I think the root issue here is the perception of femininity.
In short, straight males think like this:
"I am attracted to feminine."
"So, what is feminine?"
"That which is not masculine."
"What is masculine?"
"Built like a man."So, looking at that picture of you (I presume - and it's very good), I would have no problem with you. You LOOK feminine; whatever muscles you have, they do not appear obvious like a female bodybuilder. So, if you are just a healthy, well-toned young woman, you will be fine with most males. You are tall and that may be problematic for some but such men are insecure. You are taller than me and that's fine by me. I know if I was your age, I'd certainly be attracted to you. Not that I am not now, but I am old enough to be your father or grandfather, so...
As long as the Association of Transcendental Transvestigations and Clairvoyant Cuckvestigations doesn't show a false positive for you being a dude, you're blessed.
I estimate your body fat definitely to be above 20% based on the picture, which means you're a healthy PAWG actually.
It's impossible to look too muscular like a "varbie" unless you're taking anavar or some other shit fucking up your hormones. Even 'var using varbies can be hot, feminine and fuckable.
Facial features... yes some unlucky chicks are cursed, but then again plastic surgery exists. It's possible to have a naturally too masculine face (which you don't). But I have yet to find a woman who is too muscular without taking hormones, no amount of physical exercise can make you too masculine. The only exception are anorexics with concave bazoombas. ļ¾
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I dig it. Where I draw the line is when I suspect the girl is no longer even close to nattie, like when she has linebacker traps and so lean that she's probably infertile:
But anything reasonably nattie like even Lidia Valentin is fine in my book:
When a woman has too little body fat she starts looking like a dude. Butt, chest, jawline, hips. If she hasn't gone to that extreme she might be okay. My wife was always muscular but in a feminine way. She has the kind of muscles you get from walking, biking, swimming, dancing. Not the kind you get from doing tons of weight reps or making orange juice with steroids.
Personality plays a part too... a woman who is feminine and has feminine energy is different than one that wants to be & is trying to be a dude.
How is your personality? Your body is the first thing guys see, but itās your personality that will keep them interested.
A girl I am dating right now is 100 pounds and a yoga instructorā¦.. Very well defined muscles, and for her frame size they are big muscles. Iām ok with that. Some woman that looks like a female Arnold Schwarzenegger, I will think is disgusting (no different for male body builders). I think what they do to their bodies is horrible.
Your pictureā¦. I can see you are very muscular but you still look good.I think they look gorgeous, at least to a point. I'm not really into the bodybuilder level where they have no fat at all. But a figure like yours is gorgeous. It's not just about the look, though, it's about the attitude behind it. It might be an illusion and just lucky genetics, but to me when a person is fit it says they have some discipline, care about nutrition and exercise, and are more driven to improve themselves. Those sorts of things are part of my values, and more attractive to me than just the look alone.
I think the sexiest level of fit is like a shark or panther. She has a solid core of muscle, and a healthy amount of body fat.
Here's a pic of a sexy figure ;):
You are very beautiful. But I have to say that body builder bods on women aren't my thing. It's not about being intimidated by her strength, it's the aesthetic.
I like women's subcutaneous fat, including a bit on their flat tummies. I don't care for the look of defined abs, triangular upper body or lats, bulging thighs or thick muscles all that much.
I don't mind strong, but I more prefer fit, flexible, soft, slender yoga, jogger, dancer bods. Kinda like the classic Playboy playmate look.
That being said, I never knew a body builder girl and none of my girlfriends were into that. So, who knows, if I knew a body builder girl and liked her personality, I might have found myself attracted to her.As long as she isn't veiny and has a good face it is fine with me. I could even work out with her sometimes, but I would just do a lot more reps with the same weight instead of switching the amount of weight on the bar and then other times we could do it separate. I know how much energy it takes to keep it up too and it is good to have a partner that understands instead of one that expects their partner to work out and then wanders why they don't have energy left sometimes to do other things. I find Raquel Rodriguez from WWE attractive.
Lets Start with your picture.
You Look very natural and have the "cute girl" Face so that is definitely not a problem.
I think your way of "posing" in that picture makes you Look every broader (especially the shoulders and lats" than you are.
The curves are attractive for the most guys.
So the last Thing would be how defined you are. I like fit and athletic girls. If she is more "bulky" - well I don't prefer it, but it would be okay. But if she hat like Rock Hard abs, very muscled legs and more Arm muscles than me, I would maybe feel not manly next to you.
Maybe.. I do not know for Sure.
In your case I would be the more defined/ripped guy and you're the fit Curvy next to me. I think most people would say that it's Equal
Not true at all. A girl on steroids is one thing. But girls who work hard tk build muscle usually look good. I donāt see why some people have such a problem.
Nothing wrong with being strong and healthy, if for nobody else for yourself. Ignore those people. Itās none of their business. If they choose to be weaklings. Thatās their problem not yours.
I donāt get why people need to control others lives. If theyāre a guy and itās not their thing. Okay? Move on. Itās not like all women have to confront to his standards (same for women who bitch ahout men doing one thing or the other)
If theyāre another woman. She is free to do what makes her feel beautifulFirstly you are not muscular at all, don't self boast😆
Secondly , why does your wanna be tough ass always compare to men?
You know no amount of feminist ego can change the fact that a decently trained man beats ALL woman.. what is this inferiority complex?🤡
You just wanna post pics and get validation at the end of the day right? Lmao
Now you must have seen some feminist movie scenes and fake fights, let's show you a real fight.. here we have world's greatest girl fighter getting ass whopped by amateur
https://www.youtube.com/embed/oHS6tYAbAdwI'm with @GuyAnswersGirls123 below. I mainly date athletic women. If you look like you could be on the cover of Oxygen magazine, that's my version of Playboy or something. If you look like you could have been a man last month, not so much. I don't know if that's some famous person or you in the picture you posted, but she's gorgeous, so if you look close to her you should do fine.
Muscles have never bothered me, I find it attractive, but I am also a very naturally heavily muscular guy so concerns she maybe stronger than myself has never entered my mind.
That being said what I found with muscular woman is that they are not as fun to cuddle with as a thicc woman. I just enjoy having something squishy in my hands.
Sure muscles are sexy but similar with men only to an extent... massive slow bodies which are needed for nothing other than posing and shows are unattractive and cringy for men and women. Also I'd say don't go over if your small as women or men mini hulks can be a bit silly sometimes. Slender muscular athlete upto a bit thicker (Chyna the wrestler/Serena Williams) are sexy.
I'm 6:3 and can get bulky naturally but avoid doing so as I'm not into a John Cena body.. I try harder on diet to be closer to a more Cristiano Ronaldo amount, fit, flexible and useful.
Tall strong women are beautiful and yes some guys I know do clearly feel a bit emasculated if they are next to a woman close to their height/build. One of my sisters is 5:10 and naturally strong and curvy and her husband is shorter than her... it does sometimes seem smaller women snap up taller men and taller women often get charmed by smaller men!
In general, I prefer petite women who are slender or not more than a few pounds overweight. The muscles don't attract me, but. . . I have dated many girls who were not "my type" and enjoyed those relationships, so I'm not sure that any of this really means much.
Not my thing. I'm 5'9" so I like my women petite but fit. I can appreciate a tight body as a result of a passion for working out but I'm not into the buff look on women. Some muscular definition is fine but if you're bursting with muscles, I just don't find that attractive.
Being a gymrat I like muscular women, especially if they are physically strong, I am referring to the loads lifted in multi-joint exercises (bench press, squat, deadlift, chinup, ecc)
Obviously by muscular women I mean those who train without taking doping substances, hence with natural physiques.
You have good body.
muscular girls are the best in my opinion. My girlfriend is pretty ripped she's been training for the past 12 years and she developed some crazy muscles, basically looks like a female bodybuilder and I love every inch of her ripped body. so keep up the good work!
Iām definitely not into the muscley body builder look. I like women that are a little bit softer, bigger boobs Iām fine with some cellulite here and there even a little flab on the tummy, softer ass etcāto me thatās hot. Sorry not into the weight lifter, gym rat look kind of a turn off
My observation.
You have an hour glass figure. You are very attractive, and confident with how you look and that's great.
I would advise against taking stock in other people's opinions and/or observations - mine included. To me it is about being comfortable in your own skin.
If you enjoy being muscular and working out, that's fucking awesome.Love the way you look. I really don't like heavily muscled women that overdo it to the point they start to look like men. Their chemical balance is thrown off , but that is their own personal choice and their personal goals so to those women I say I hope you reach your goal and not get hurt.
Were you born female? If so then I have no problem with you being muscular. The only issue I have is when guys change themselves to look female to compete in womenās sports. They canāt win as male so they best the femalesā¦. Okay I will climb off of my soapbox nowā¦.
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