Is it true that most women resent men because having children is easier for men than it is women?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[noemiii]

I’ve never heard that narrative. Even if the father of the child was not present in the child’s life. Women don’t think like that because for most women, childbirth is a part of being a woman. Women rarely feel resentment towards a male partner unless he isn’t doing his part in the raising of the child, which is acceptable to feel. In fact men feel more resentment towards women than women feel towards men which is probably why you feel that would make sense.

[uncleBobbyb77]

You must be out of your mind if you think it's easier for men than women. The women that can do everything a man does to provide including teaching them how to be a good, strong, well balanced man are few to nonexistent. The statistics show kids in a single parent home with their father are likely to do as well as those with both parents while those in a single parent home with the mother are 80% more likely to wind up a felon in prison. Neither has it easy but without the father there's only a 20% chance the kids won't be destroyed. Those are real numbers, not opinion

[hahahmm]

Most modern women hate men because they secretly want to be men when it benefits them & women the rest of the time. Feminism has worked hard to try and make this reality. And it works best if men become weaker and softer so they preach that men need to act more like women and be emotionally open and such.

BUT women will never admit to you that they hate you. You will just discover it when she does things at your expense in situations where she didn't have to.

[noemiii]

LMAO!

[Caroline91]

By "have" I assume you mean the act that causes the pregnancy and then gestating and the act of giving birth. I've always kind of felt sorry for men that they can't do what I can... I mean, in just 9 months, I can create an entire other human being. It's one of the most amazing experiences ever, anywhere in the entire universe. And women get to do that... So thanks, guys, for helping to make it possible!

[Dongie]

Sure thing. Roar!

[Caroline91]

@Dongie Found that funny, didya? lol

[Dongie]

No, I respect it.

[Dongie]

Sounds like my favorite sister. She carried herself during her 3. Was in great spirits all the time. It made her shine.

[Dongie]

You may not know the song by Helen Reddy. 'I Am Woman' came out in like 72. Her me roar she says.

[Caroline91]

@Dongie Well, thanks... however, I did find it kind of funny, especially your initial response. lol

[Dongie]

I can imagine.

[Caroline91]

@Dongie I have heard it from my parents old vinyl collection... Now that really makes sense. I think it was very apropos to the time. However, I am not a fan of the current wave of feminism... OMG... I've admitted it!! That's a nice comment about your sister. My brother and I are very close and he is having a fun time being a fantastic uncle to my two little girls.

[Dongie]

I bet. Lynn had Michael right after I turned 16. I was very protective of him. His low-life dad turned out to dabble in satanic rituals and witchcraft. A real winner, not.

[Dongie]

But we had Gloria Steinum who tried to take over the world in the mid 60s. I didn't like her. I heard for years till I was screaming," we can do anything a man can do, plus have babies." I would say get a woman pregnant then. I was 12.

[Caroline91]

@Dongie Truly a boy ahead of his time! Taking on Ms Steinum that way...

[Dongie]

It struck me as weird. I couldn't stand hippies by 7 years old. Flower power and shit. I'd talk to God about them. Take'em away.

[Caroline91]

@Dongie Well, I am a pretty laid back, loosy goosey little California surfer girl…lol

[Dongie]

You don't know what 69 was like. Vietnam and all the psychedelic imagery on TV. The drugs. The way they talked, man. They were freaks. My oldest sister ODed in the house when I was 6. She survived. I was, like, by 15, going to go to California and find my very own big boobed blonde girl for me. That's all I thought about. Then this girl showed up at school. Blonde, the butt, attitude. Love at first sight. The same year she got here, the movie 'California Dreaming' came out. It is strange. She flew the coop and went back to her boyfriend in California. But a year or two later, I became best friends with her stepbrother. His real sister, Chris, is still beautiful today. Craig died in a car wreck on September 22 2019. Almost 40 years since we met. He was 2 years younger. Seizure from an old brain tumor. Not to bring you down. Guess I could erase this but I'm in a fucked up mood. And I've been horny since last Wednesday so shit.

[Caroline91]

@Dongie DUDE! Omg, I have only heard about things from my parents lol…take care of yourself and STOP making me laugh so much!!

[GamesNCake90]

Women don't resent men over having children. What's annoying is that giving birth is just part of being a woman, but a lot of men don't know what that entails. They don't understand the pain of being pregnant, the tiredness, the hormone surges, the weight changes, and all of this and more while we're still expected to hold down a job where we can literally be fired from just for having to take time off to have the child (yes, that is completely legal in America). Meanwhile, men just sit around and... wait. That's literally all you do until the baby gets here unless you're a good father and want to help take care of the woman carrying your child. A lot of men will take off and leave while the woman is pregnant, but the woman is told it's her fault for "not choosing better". All of this, and men STILL GET A SAY in women's healthcare, even though men don't have to deal with any of it, and I'm including IVF and IUI in this as well as abortion. You'll notice most advancements in child rearing medical science is experimenting on the woman's body, not the man's. There's not even a lot of suggestion that male infertility is the cause of a woman not being pregnant by her partner until they run everything under the sun for her first.

So is it resentment? No. But it is definitely frustration with the unfairness of it all.

[Finchie40]

No, most women resent men because she expects him to cater to her needs and wants at all times and if he fails to do so? she resents him for it. She feels since she carried the baby and went through the whole pregnancy she feels she should be rewarded and that everything revolves around her and the baby and he is just a donor.

[Caroline91]

Really? Hmmm... I'll have to check with my husband on that... lol. I'm too busy appreciating the man to resent him!

[Finchie40]

I said most lol

[Caroline91]

I SHOULD have been paying closer attention. Lol…. you really need to find yourself a good woman!

[Finchie40]

I try , it just seems harder to find these days

[Caroline91]

Ya gotta look in the right places. But you already know that…Maybe I’ve just been married too long to know what’s going on now…. i would say look where you might find women volunteering at non profits, animal shelters, stuff like that. I know several couples who have met at dog parks. You find they’re the more kind, altruistic types which seems might suit you. Anyway I wish you luck…She’s waiting to meet you!

[Finchie40]

That’s pretty much what i experienced, being out of the dating world for a long time and then entering back onto it. , it ‘s definitely been an experience a shocking one to be honest with you , why I decided to take things slow when meeting someone new.

[Caroline91]

Sounds like a good man way to handle it all. You have my respect for 😉

[DishLady]

I don't know where people get this sort of odd view of things. No, of course not. Girls are naturally equipped to carry a kid (unless there's a specific medical issue). We get royally pissed when the man wants kids then doesn't take the time and effort to respect of care for his woman... That's a different. We need care too...

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

I have never thought of that. I think it's amazing to carry a child. The pain of giving birth looks challenging to me.. but then, I love challenges.

[AliceGregory]

I loved being pregnant. Whenever I felt my baby move in my tummy I was reminded that I’m never alone.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

@AliceGregory That is so wonderful 👶❤️❤️❤️

[AliceGregory]

And guys wonder how girls can think the female body is more beautiful without being "secretly lesbians". It's because we see it as an amazing, nurturing, life giving thing.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Exactly! Couldn't agree more with you @AliceGregory 😍🤗

[Apple1996]

Nah I only resent my husband because he gets more and better quality sleep than I do after having kids. 😂 Everything else doesn't matter because he has a lot of empathy and appreciates me caring for our babies

[Pegases]

These days a lot of women hate men simply for existing. And yes, I've heard this before, but to be fair I've hard it from women that had kids with men that didn't take care of them while pregnant.

[RavVid]

I think it is a lot more than that. Women resent biology and visit that resentment on men. They have never been happy men can ejaculate in 5 mins.

This s the essence of Feminism. A big dummy spit on basic biology.

[nolabels]

What makes you think that having children is easier for men?
I can absolutely assure you that such is not the case.

[Agape93]

No we have very different things we can draw from if we resent a guy or guys in general. Having the easy ride when it comes to having kids is just one thing.

[Dongie]

Nah, some may bitch at crucial times but a woman accepts her role in this. At least the ones I've been around. The most part girls, women are cool and fun. Of course there are the men haters club to which the women I know scoff at them.

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

[Anonymous]

Nah. We understand that having children is the one hard thing in life for women. Men have it a lot harder in every other life situation.

[Asker]

Really? It seems worse for women all around

[HelpfulWoman]

yes and no.

it blatantly IS easier for men in regards to kids.

[perpetualsadnessss]

I don't think anyone has ever though that ever to be honest.

[LiamJHayden]

"Most" women? Somehow I doubt that.

[OhLongJohnsoning]

Women resent douchebag men. That's why they do it

[Taylor22424]

I meant to have put "yes", not "no"

[Anonymous]

Probably lol I don't blame them tho. It does seem pretty terrible

[Anonymous]

Men don't give birth. 😂

[Asker]

That's what I mean by us having it easier

[Opinion Owner]

🤷‍♀️ then that doesn't make sense

[Asker]

Men can have kids by having women carry and birth them. We get offspring without having to go through pain or discomfort

[Opinion Owner]

What's your point?

Did you want to give birth? 😂 That's a very feminine thing 😂

[Asker]

No who would actually want to?

[Opinion Owner]

Women.

[Asker]

And I have no idea why

[Opinion Owner]

Cos ur a man 😂

[Asker]

Do you want to?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes ☺️

[Asker]

Why?

[Jason2469]

Who the fuck cares what a bitch thinks?

[Anonymous]

Total nonsense

[Asker]

Not even a bit?