Is it important to strike while the iron still hot?

[izgmoen]

I guess i haven't really noticed this girls openness with me for 4-5 months till now. She would say hi to me all the time and even give me the finger wave (?). The other day a coworker told me she noticed how she's real open with me, and so i just got confidence from that and tried talking to her. It wasn't the same feeling i got like all those times. I tried telling her i got a better offer from somewhere else. All i got was cold formal responses like "well great for you i wish you the best of luck."

So that brings the question.

[ZamerZ]

Well, if you told her you "got a better offer" she dodged a bullet there. Why would a woman want someone who'd clearly state that a) he's not interested and b) put her down in the same breath? It doesn't sound like you have a chance anymore, and honestly? Good for her.

[izgmoen]

Offer as in job offer

[ZamerZ]

Well, my bad then. If you have a better prospect for a different job, go for it.

[izgmoen]

did you answer my question then

[jamesgoldman]

Yeah, I was oblivious to it but ended up in a situation where opportunity presented itseelf and woke up to her mid blowjob

[Avicenna]

Yes, you need to make a move NOW!

[izgmoen]

How? she's colder now. I didn't notice what she's been doing for 5 months now. I just assumed she was like that with all the guys. Guy told me nah you fn up