Girl said she feels safe with me?

[adam6402]

I'm not going to give any context on what the girl is to me, but what does it mean for a girl's feelings towards a guy when she says he makes her feel safe?

And she's not talking about physical protection from danger.

[Oliverlogan263]

When a girl says a guy makes her feel safe, it usually means on an emotional level. Like she feels secure and comfortable opening up to you without judgment. It shows she trusts you and knows you'll be there for support without any ulterior motives.

Girls don't usually say that casually - it means she has real feelings of care, respect and positive regard for who you are as a person. She feels at ease mentally and emotionally when around you, like you accept her for who she is.

It's a really good sign that she sees you as a solid, caring dude who has her best interests at heart. Makes her feel protected not just from harm but also from getting her feelings hurt. That level of trust is special, so I'd take it as a compliment, bro!

Keep being yourself and staying true to who you are - sounds like this girl really appreciates that about you. Could be the start of something good if you play your cards right 👊

[DishLady]

Oh my… well, I respect and agree with what you’re saying in the first 3 paragraphs… Your final paragraph ends with rather a doozie… I don't know whether that’s what the girl is thinking when she claims to feel safe.

[adam6402]

@DishLady no, he's right. And I'm not saying you're wrong, because I gave no context lol (for this exact reason, to get a wider range of opinions). She later went on to tell me a couple of days later that she loves me and explained that telling me she felt safe with me was her way of gently expressing her feelings towards me without being too forward or blatant.

[DishLady]

@adam6402 To get pounded? That's the comment I thought was off-color, not the appreciation of you, etc. The rest of @Oliverlogan263's comment I certainly agreed with.

[adam6402]

@DishLady oh... what's wrong with him giving me a fist bump?

[DishLady]

Ok, @adam6402. I guess it's a guy thing. To a lady it reads as something offensive.

[TommyMountainFigure]

It probably means she feels she can tell you anything and you won't judge her, or betray her by sharing what she tells you with anyone else.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Thank you for MHO Adam!

[DishLady]

Without context there isn’t a real way to indicate what she means by it.