Am I overreacting or being too sensitive?

[Anonymous]

Recently I have been upset with one of my university friends over something she said to me a month ago. She told me that this guy I met at a club and had a thing with around a month or two ago added her on Snapchat randomly. Personally I didn’t care about it as I stopped talking to him a while back. I just found it funny and made a joke saying he probably liked all of our friend group including me and her. Then she proceeded to call me an “easy target” and therefore he approached me. Ngl I was so offended by it. I just couldn’t and still can’t comprehend to this day why she would say that to her friend. Cause personally I would never call any of my friends that no matter how I perceive them. It just made me wonder if this is how she actually sees me. Although I did confront her and she apologised eventually I’m still not really over it and I can’t quite stand her tbf. I keep looking back at all the small things she has done or said to me in the past such as her commenting on my height and body saying I hav small boobs occasionally , and posting the worst photo of me on Instagram without asking for my permission a few weeks ago. And no matter how much I try to get over it and be civil with her I’m still offended and I just can't stand her atm. Am I being too sensitive? I need honest input

[teamvic]

Hmmm perhaps she never really was your friend

It's quite common, especially in women I find. That they will pretend they're friends with a girl. But they never really liked them

If she's made remarks like that in the past and talked down on you. Then I don't think you're over reacting

[Anonymous]

I think your comment was equally messed up, saying he probably liked all your friend group or whatever, not just her. Sounded like an unnecessary jab and she defended herself. Two wrongs don’t make a right but I’m just saying she didn’t say that completely unwarranted and holding a grudge after she’s said sorry when you should’ve said sorry too isn’t cool either.

[Asker]

No I didn’t mean it like that when I said that , I was basically talking down on myself in a way by saying not only did he like me but he most likely also liked her and our other friends. But yeah I understand that it was unnecessary and I shouldn’t have said that

[Opinion Owner]

It’s ok if you didn’t mean it that way, we’re all guilty of misspeaking or things being taken out of context. I’m just saying from where I’m staying, your comment did come across pretty messed up, and if that was her interpretation as well then I’d understand why she made her comment, even though two wrongs don’t make a right and she should’ve told you it bothered her rather than hit back. But I guess I’m the heat of the moment, we just react sometimes right? Anyway, I think it would be fair to say sorry as well, but if you don’t feel at fault then the least you can do is drop your grudge. It’s fair enough, in my opinion.

[ChicoFromThe305]

She's not being easy to be friends with and it's possible you are probably taking what she says too heart, at the end of the day you know what you are so her comments should effect you, but if you know you can't stand her then having a friendship with such a person seems pointless

[noohair]

Sounds like normal cat behavior.

[MasterKS]

what a bitch she is!