My boyfriend and I will be marking two years of dating in Jan, but I can’t help but feel like I am a still a stranger to him. I am feeling this way because of one incident, which I found pretty degrading. So, my boyfriend and I were eating lunch together, and he finished before me and wanted to go to toilet. So I told him that he could go ahead, that I’ll be in the kitchen, finishing up my food, and then he told me that I should come to the bedroom, and finish my lunch there. The toilet is in his bedroom, and I can’t help
but think he doesn’t trust me with his kitchen/food. Am I being overly sensitive?
but think he doesn’t trust me with his kitchen/food. Am I being overly sensitive?
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Yeah, he sounds not chill.
Right? Like why would you want your girlfriend to finish up her food, as she listens to you take a dump? So weird.
Did you listen to him?
Yup, in that moment I didn't think much of it, until now. He's very apologetic about it, and told me that he didn't mean for it to come off that way, that he just didn't want me to be lonely, but I don't believe that, I think he is just trying to cover his a$$. The vibe's dead now, I am not sure what to do, as I thought we were close, but I guess not.
Any updates
I assume he was the one who pursued you