I have never understood this phenomenon, why guys who have done horrendous things and clearly have defective brains will get piles of love letters every week in prison.
Why do women write love letters to murderers in prison?
Because a woman's biology craves a masculine dangerous man who can protect them... dudes out here are soft so they go to the worst in society to scratch that itch.
The criminals are just using them for money, and if they are allowed conjugal visits - sex! I don't get it because some of these guys will never get out. If they do some of these women may wind up dead.
@Daniela1982 It doesn’t even matter the criminal’s intentions with the women (obviously sex & money are high motivators)
Though these women message the criminal behind bars and are drawn to him, sending letters first…. I won’t understand that mentality. These ladies just have a mental condition undiagnosed if they reach out to a criminal willingly because they love their personality, sick fucks (including the criminal responsible)!!!
Women love the bad boys. The unpredictable ones, the dangerous ones. It is this principle about female psychology but just taken to the extreme.
With normal women they are attracted to bold men, competent guys, ones who do what they want and aren't people pleasers who will call women on their shit if they pull it and whose interest and intentions is often unclear and leave the women wondering. Men that are "exciting".
It is this concept but these women are on the ends of the spectrum and are drawn to the darkest, most extreme versions of "bad boy" behavior.
The devil you know feels safer than the angel you don’t. You know why most people don’t do therapy despite growing numbers of life experiences that strongly suggest a need for it? Because it’s scary, and difficult, and if done right is often flat out painful. There’s also a fair bit of having to admit your own part in the damage done. Romanticizing antisocial and frankly dangerous people is usually born of personal experiences with those kinds of people. They’ve already survived it and they know the rules, even if they keep losing. Getting better means learning new rules, and not knowing how much it’s going to hurt, or for how long. There’s a lot of unknown on the path to trusting yourself. People don’t handle the unknown well.
It's mainly about being extremely submissive plus some other factor.. most of the women who do that are women who aren't conventionally attractive, timid women who are sexually deprived, trailer trash, women who got abused before.. it's all about fantasy and attention for them... and if they actually get with one of those guys, they get a reality check and regret it.. one of Ted Bundy's fan girls ( who was ugly ) married him but when she realized he's actually guilty and really did those things she left him..
Stoneage mentality. Them being confirmed killers makes them scary in the eyes of other men and this would have given them a certain authority and deterrent in a pre-civilisation era.
Still its peculiar how popular they are among wowomen.
Sure its a minority which actually makes moves on them but the minority making moves on the average guy is way smaller.
Which poses the question; How many women are into serial killers but are unwilling to express their interest?
I have read in this. Becausr it basically allows the woman to have the power. They are the sun and moon. They have more freedom and income and choices , so they can control the relationship (from their mind set). they control delivery of much needed love and the men are in a vulnerable position so they eagerly drink it up and await their next cup full (again this is what the ladies examined believe. Now.. what isn’t or isn’t reality is another matter)
but it’s mostly women who struggle with relationships in the free world and they feel more emotional security loving men in prison
Oh and also… let’s face it. They can live in a fairy tale make believe “romance” for long periods of time. They can deceive themselves longer. 😆. Some people simply want to romanticize things that aren’t true.
Because deep down inside women known men are supposed to be dangerous. They have no respect for harmless men. Granted, harming innocent people isn't something I agree with but dangerous is dangerous. Now for normal guys, the fact you protect your family & she believes you have that capability would be dangerous enough. I hear this is also why tons of lesbian marriages breakdown. When one of them has her biological clock go off she wants to start a family with a real man. Not a fake man.
Think I read somewhere in psychology news online that some women do "for escapism, for the same reason women like normal men as secret admirers or something" and of course yes other issues like mental disorders, bad relationships, etc the history of the mind etc - ah well that's what it claimed the psychology piece
a lot of women flashed their tits at Ricky Ramirez the day he was taken to prison. I even some go as far as tattooing mugshots of Jeffrey Dahmer and Ted Bundy on themselves. till then I think Barbarosssa explains this behaviour really well here...
It's a dark kink. I've heard there were women who used to send letters and gifts to Ted Bundy while he was in prison because they thought he was handsome. That made me wanna throw up. Scary.
I used to live in Salt Lake City where Ted Bundy spend a number of years and I knew women and have relatives who were in their early 20's back then and talked about the atmosphere of fear that went on for several years.
Yeah exactly! That's what I find so crazy on one hand the stories I've heard from women telling how terrified they were to go out at night during that time, and then a few years later after he's caught, the love letters pour in.
Who knows? Maybe it is because they are attracted to the allure of evil, maybe because they have some fucked up believe that deep down murderers have good in them and they are just victims of circumstances. Or maybe because women like these characters because deep down women are bad themselves!
They find them physically attractive and I guess they fear commitment nothing better for a person who fear comittment that to have a romance with a person in prison, I mean they're never going to bother you irl.
I think it's usually teenage girls or women who aren't very mentally healthy lol. They have some fantasy about a guy who is violent and crazy but has a heart for them, and they can't leave that as a fantasy and they take it to reality.
I don't understand either. I don't see how they can be attracted to a serial killer and think it's normal. I suppose they're either serial killers themselves or they're not okay.
It's not hard to understand but you only get it, if you get it. It's the same reason we watch horror or why killer documentaries are appealing. Just think about it.
Keep your enemies close as possible and people you love as far as you can or imprisoned. ha ha ha There is psychological explanation of this phenomenon but you will find in google easily.
Men also stalk female streamers and idols and send them thousands of dollars and fall in love with these girls who don't even know them so who's weirder lol
Yeah men do that. Here's the difference, men don't lie about that shit. Most men will exclude the crazy shit a woman does or has done if she's just to get laid
@Apple1996 That's a good point lol because these men are committing crimes like rape and murder to get in jail in the first place! I think that's worse than writing letters.
@hanabunny Men and women will shitty things people have done because they find the person attractive. Both genders do that, women just lie it about it more
cause their self esteem is completely fucked. they'd rather romance a man that litterally nobody else wants cause he's a damn inmate than risk getting with a more desirable man that "may" leave for another woman.
Many mass murderers are handsome (Ted Bundy, Randy Woodfield, Jeffrey Dahmer et al) and apparently some rather sick ladies get their jollies by corresponding with them. A few have even wed these beasts.
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Probably all tied into why a lot of women watch drama shows, many of them tend to watch things like murder mysteries, true crimes shows, etc.
Obviously, not all women, but yes, there are countless stories of some really horrific criminals getting piles of love letters and marriage requests every week.
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