- 30 d
For those women it’s a mixture of Hybristophilia, the desire for excitement from their mundane lives, the long-distance passion, and the fantasy.
32 Reply- 30 d
And from a safe distance, until he gets paroled and wants to find one of his fans!
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- 28 d
Because it's too hard to get a mailing address for them while they're on the lam!
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- 28 d
Because a woman's biology craves a masculine dangerous man who can protect them... dudes out here are soft so they go to the worst in society to scratch that itch.
00 Reply - 1 mo
A bunch of weird fucks.
(I say the same about the criminals that receive them)02 Reply- 30 d
The criminals are just using them for money, and if they are allowed conjugal visits - sex! I don't get it because some of these guys will never get out. If they do some of these women may wind up dead.
- 29 d
@Daniela1982 It doesn’t even matter the criminal’s intentions with the women (obviously sex & money are high motivators)
Though these women message the criminal behind bars and are drawn to him, sending letters first…. I won’t understand that mentality. These ladies just have a mental condition undiagnosed if they reach out to a criminal willingly because they love their personality, sick fucks (including the criminal responsible)!!!
- 28 d
Women love the bad boys. The unpredictable ones, the dangerous ones. It is this principle about female psychology but just taken to the extreme.
With normal women they are attracted to bold men, competent guys, ones who do what they want and aren't people pleasers who will call women on their shit if they pull it and whose interest and intentions is often unclear and leave the women wondering. Men that are "exciting".
It is this concept but these women are on the ends of the spectrum and are drawn to the darkest, most extreme versions of "bad boy" behavior.
11 Reply - 29 d
The devil you know feels safer than the angel you don’t.
You know why most people don’t do therapy despite growing numbers of life experiences that strongly suggest a need for it? Because it’s scary, and difficult, and if done right is often flat out painful. There’s also a fair bit of having to admit your own part in the damage done.
Romanticizing antisocial and frankly dangerous people is usually born of personal experiences with those kinds of people. They’ve already survived it and they know the rules, even if they keep losing. Getting better means learning new rules, and not knowing how much it’s going to hurt, or for how long. There’s a lot of unknown on the path to trusting yourself. People don’t handle the unknown well.10 Reply It's mainly about being extremely submissive plus some other factor.. most of the women who do that are women who aren't conventionally attractive, timid women who are sexually deprived, trailer trash, women who got abused before.. it's all about fantasy and attention for them... and if they actually get with one of those guys, they get a reality check and regret it.. one of Ted Bundy's fan girls ( who was ugly ) married him but when she realized he's actually guilty and really did those things she left him..
10 ReplyStoneage mentality. Them being confirmed killers makes them scary in the eyes of other men and this would have given them a certain authority and deterrent in a pre-civilisation era.
Still its peculiar how popular they are among wowomen.
Sure its a minority which actually makes moves on them but the minority making moves on the average guy is way smaller.
Which poses the question; How many women are into serial killers but are unwilling to express their interest?
21 ReplyI have read in this. Becausr it basically allows the woman to have the power. They are the sun and moon. They have more freedom and income and choices , so they can control the relationship (from their mind set).
they control delivery of much needed love and the men are in a vulnerable position so they eagerly drink it up and await their next cup full (again this is what the ladies examined believe. Now.. what isn’t or isn’t reality is another matter)but it’s mostly women who struggle with relationships in the free world and they feel more emotional security loving men in prison
01 Reply725 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Because deep down inside women known men are supposed to be dangerous. They have no respect for harmless men. Granted, harming innocent people isn't something I agree with but dangerous is dangerous. Now for normal guys, the fact you protect your family & she believes you have that capability would be dangerous enough. I hear this is also why tons of lesbian marriages breakdown. When one of them has her biological clock go off she wants to start a family with a real man. Not a fake man.
00 Reply- 1 mo
Think I read somewhere in psychology news online that some women do "for escapism, for the same reason women like normal men as secret admirers or something" and of course yes other issues like mental disorders, bad relationships, etc the history of the mind etc - ah well that's what it claimed the psychology piece
00 Reply - 1 mo
good question!
a lot of women flashed their tits at Ricky Ramirez the day he was taken to prison. I even some go as far as tattooing mugshots of Jeffrey Dahmer and Ted Bundy on themselves. till then I think Barbarosssa explains this behaviour really well here...
https://www.youtube.com/embed/P8kIqQv5m-E10 Reply - 29 d
It's a dark kink. I've heard there were women who used to send letters and gifts to Ted Bundy while he was in prison because they thought he was handsome. That made me wanna throw up. Scary.
23 Reply- 29 d
I once watched a short documentary about him and it scared me. Can't imagine the fear of living somewhere with him lurking around.
- 28 d
Who knows? Maybe it is because they are attracted to the allure of evil, maybe because they have some fucked up believe that deep down murderers have good in them and they are just victims of circumstances. Or maybe because women like these characters because deep down women are bad themselves!
00 Reply 1.9K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. They find them physically attractive and I guess they fear commitment nothing better for a person who fear comittment that to have a romance with a person in prison, I mean they're never going to bother you irl.
03 Reply- 29 d
Looks is only one factor. A woman in her 20s married Charles Manson. She’s not bad looking herself www.cnn.com/.../index.html
- 29 d
@blueonblack22 I was just thinking of her yesterday! Thank you, exactly!
- 28 d
@blueonblack22 Star... I had this image of her but couldn't remember her name or apparently what she calls herself.
I think it's usually teenage girls or women who aren't very mentally healthy lol. They have some fantasy about a guy who is violent and crazy but has a heart for them, and they can't leave that as a fantasy and they take it to reality.
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Why not? They are the ultimate bad boys and they are safely locked away.
11 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I don't understand either. I don't see how they can be attracted to a serial killer and think it's normal. I suppose they're either serial killers themselves or they're not okay.
00 ReplyI guess the ones who do have nothing better to do, are desperate for attention or they just like him for all the wrong reasons
01 Reply527 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. It's not hard to understand but you only get it, if you get it.
It's the same reason we watch horror or why killer documentaries are appealing.
Just think about it.00 ReplyKeep your enemies close as possible and people you love as far as you can or imprisoned. ha ha ha
There is psychological explanation of this phenomenon but you will find in google easily.00 Reply1.5K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Men do it as well. Gyspy rose got hit up by 100s of men asking to marry her
19 Reply- 29 d
@hanabunny omg yes that is weird af too
- 29 d
@Apple1996 “men do it as well”. Nowhere near the extent women do. Not comparable.
- 28 d
@blueonblack22 maybe because of the lack of female prisoners tho?
- 28 d
@Apple1996 That's a good point lol because these men are committing crimes like rape and murder to get in jail in the first place! I think that's worse than writing letters.
- 28 d
@hanabunny Men and women will shitty things people have done because they find the person attractive. Both genders do that, women just lie it about it more
- 28 d
cause their self esteem is completely fucked. they'd rather romance a man that litterally nobody else wants cause he's a damn inmate than risk getting with a more desirable man that "may" leave for another woman.
00 Reply - 27 d
Men do it too 🤷🏻♀️ Gypsy rose Blanchard had multiple men writing her letters while in prison. She got married while imprisoned to one of them 🙃
00 Reply - 1 mo
because some women have less brains than a gnat has. 🙄😫
10 Reply 1.3K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I do not know. The same reason some girls want guys that beat the hell out of them. Maybe low self esteem? I am not a shrink.
10 Reply- u1 mo
because they're not allowed to meet in person... you need to write mail
10 Reply - 27 d
I worked in that field, so I know. The inmates call them "prison bitches."
00 Reply - Anonymous(45 Plus)1 mo
Perhaps they think the man is strong enough to protect them, and would change their criminal ways, just for them. They just need a good woman
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- 29 d
Many mass murderers are handsome (Ted Bundy, Randy Woodfield, Jeffrey Dahmer et al) and apparently some rather sick ladies get their jollies by corresponding with them. A few have even wed these beasts.
00 Reply - Anonymous(45 Plus)1 mo
Probably all tied into why a lot of women watch drama shows, many of them tend to watch things like murder mysteries, true crimes shows, etc.
00 Reply - 29 d
Desperate women do desperate things and the guys take advantage of it by scamming them. It's just one more way men scam desperate women.
00 Reply - 1 mo
A woman that do such is attracted to such men because she's as dark hearted as him.
10 Reply 320 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. They have a fantasy that they think they understand them. Yea, right!
00 Reply4.5K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I don't know but it's some of the dumbest shit I've ever heard of
00 Reply- 1 mo
A sane women wouldn't do that shit.
32 Reply- 1 mo
You can't understand them. Sure.
They probably loved this person long before the murder happened
00 Reply- 28 d
We are all weird, depraved people, men AND women.
00 Reply Because these guys obviously have good personalities women can detect
00 Reply- Anonymous(18-24)28 d
Have any of you guys ever did it or are you guys just yelling out stuff? Lmaooooooooo
00 Reply 424 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Because those women need to be locked up as well
00 Reply- 1 mo
Those women need their brains checked
00 Reply - 29 d
Umm. That's creepy af.
00 Reply 389 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. The bad boy fetish.
00 Reply- 29 d
Stupidity no more no less.
00 Reply 327 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Because they are stupid
00 Reply357 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. They're defective i guess
00 Reply- 29 d
Those women are mental!
00 Reply - 29 d
Because their losers.
00 Reply 422 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. The thrill of a bad boy.
00 Reply- 28 d
Very bad girls
00 Reply mentally ill!
00 Reply- 29 d
Do they?
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