Why are some women so defensive about their sexual past?

[Anonymous]

I don’t understand why the “W” word or the H word or the S word would offended a woman whose not one….. as well as is overly defensive. It’s really weird if it’s a girl who puts on this two goodie two shoes act it makes me feel like she’s pretending to be someone she’s not and hiding what she’s really doing.

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It’s so weird how I’m a sexist all the sudden as if all women are like this I love how I call men on shit…. And all the sudden I’m a girl on a blue account. All the sudden I’m a white knight and a SIMP

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But oh I say something about women. I’m a sexist and hate women.

[Anonymous]

Because women can never reconcile that they made a poor choice when a guy f***s her and kicks her to the curb. She can still be 30 relationships away. And she'll still reminisce about how the moment of connection made her feel. Because women are like junkies when it comes to feelings they love to chase that emotional high. And like a junkie they are completely strung out (or in thier case "ran through") before they every own thier f***up, if ever.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

"pretending to be someone she’s not and hiding what she’s really doing."

bro you just answered your own question! women do this to simply avoid accountablity. they obviously do not want you to assume they were once someone else's bucket of cum

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Women get called whore, slut, and harlot (assuming that’s your H word) even while being virgins. It’s a way to be put down, to be shamed for any kind of sexuality, and men will 100% judge you for your sexual pasts regardless of if there’s too many past partners or not enough. Men are constantly comparing and competitive, they think knowing her past will make him a better lover, but it just feeds the already rampant insecurities in men. Women aren’t in the wrong for wanting to avoid that conversation entirely since having it can derail the relationship down the line.

[Asker]

Hoe but harlot works too

[Asker]

But I think a man whore should shut up. But a dude whose not a man whore I think he deserves to know

[Asker]

And women keeping these secrets. Most of the time it eventually comes out and that details if. At least if she’s honest early. He can….. Decide to go forward or not.

Also many women are VERY insecure and compare themselves and fight too. It’s not juar a male thing

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Okay, so if you understand why it might make a woman insecure, why do you act like a negative reaction to being called a degrading name is somehow incorrect on the woman’s part?

[Asker]

If you understand what makes men insecure why make them feel worse ahour ir?

[Asker]

And because those women chose to be those people. Having sex is a choice unless it’s rape that’s much different

[Asker]

Same for men. I shame man whores too

[HelpfulWoman]

because the words are weaponised TO be offensive by the person using them, even if not true.

[Asker]

True. But I’ve known women too who use those words but they certainly aren’t whores. I don’t mean calling someone a whore yeah obviously that’s offensive. But if you’re not calling her a name but using it in a sentence

[HelpfulWoman]

there's no sentence that includes using those words that isn't directed to cause insult. a bit dumb to try to say otherwise.

[Asker]

Well yeah obviously talking about people who are….. if you’re not that kind of person then you wouldn’t care

[Asker]

It’s like. If I say pedos should be hanged. Only a Pedo would be offended. Or

[Asker]

Not that the average whore or man whore is a Pedo or should be hanged. It’s just a example. It would be weird for someone to get defensive over that if they don’t have weird stuff on their hard drive.

[HelpfulWoman]

thats a strawman argument.
you're only trying to push this narrative that you want without actually thinking it through or listening to others. so we'll leave this conversation here.

[Asker]

What a coward and a loser you are. You’re so pathetic

[Asker]

You keep removing comments. It tells me who you are. You have no argument so you wanna feel like you have the upper hand.

You know all you’re doing is telling me I’m getting to you…… that’s all you’re doing either by responding or removing comments or blocking me. It doesn’t matter

If you wanna play your stupid games and not have a conversation. I can play your retard games too

[HelpfulWoman]

whoo for another rude man who can't handle being corrected. @EmmaMary
@_Maya_
for your viewing pleasure XD

[Asker]

Go cry to the mods coward

[Asker]

Another rude man. As if women can’t be rude too. More blatant sexism from you.

[Asker]

Again. You’re narcissistic and think you’re correcting me. Not all women think like you crybaby. Not all women are whores. But I know what you are. Pathetic trash.

Now. Get the mods to start freezing me and getting on a power trip. They will have rhier badges stripped away just like the last ones. Got it?

[Asker]

But see I’m not removing any of your posts. Because I’m not a coward the way that you are…. If I was so worried about being corrected. I would have deleted them.

[Asker]

I mean really. If you had a point. I would say “oh you have a point there” but you just make a straw man out of men in general. But you can’t deal with being corrected. So you remove comments. Cry to the mods all in a effort to feel like you have the upper hand. Because you’re pathetic. You have no self control so you want to feel control…..

Just keep removing comments. Keep engaging. You have nothing better to do

[HelpfulWoman]

dang you are obsessed XD

[Asker]

You’re the one responding snowflake. But if that feeds your ego to think I’m obsessed okat

[Asker]

You’re the same kind of person to yell at people for being anonymous while having a private account

[HelpfulWoman]

coming from the anonymous user, that is quite funny.
i, comment once.
you send multiple messages XD and insult me. But you think you're winning.
May the people in your life get better <3

[Asker]

See weirdo you removed comments again. I guess if it feeds your ego. You must be bothered or you would have just done something else with your time. Besides dealing with me.

[Asker]

You’re a coward and all you do is accuse others of being who you are. Gosh you seem so empty and miserable

[Asker]

If that feeds your ego. You’re as dry as a popcorn fart. And you act like you care about me all the sudden. I know you’re not a good person and you don’t mean it.

You think deleting comments that called you out will make people think you’re right. It’s pathetic. I can play these retardation games too

[Asker]

Or that you care about anyone in my life. I have amazing people in my life who would probably dislike you very much.

[Asker]

Thanks for crying loser

[BarryLiverstone]

Because girls are often slut shamed or called a whore and they feel like if guys catch wind of that negative reputation the quality guys will reject them

[Nikki1989]

This says more about you than any woman. Try showing some respect and mind your own business,

[Asker]

I mean I would expect a woman to be concerned about my sexual past who I’m with long term

[Asker]

It’s someone’s business if you’re with them long term.

How does it say more about me? All you have ever been here is a sexist pig agaisnt men

[Asker]

You should be calling people whores with me especially because those women are who make women look bad.

Any comment or question or post even remotely sexual by a woman…. Is a man posing as a woman according to the wisdom of Nikki.

[Asker]

But why would a woman be defensive? If women are just these asexual beings?

[Asker]

See. I never call people on not responding because people get busy but you’ve been active.

People just like to make comments and never respond because they know they don’t have a good answer. You seem to flip flop from defending bad women to thinking all women are asexual therefore any pink post is from a woman.

Then you make negative comments about men whcih says more about you then any man

I don’t make comments about “ALL” women because I’m not too stupid to think all women or men for that matter are the same. I get called a SIMP and white knight and accused of being a woman on a blue account. Because I called men on their shit

[Asker]

Guess you just can’t win with some people

[MemeSupreme]

sociology

[Asker]

Yeah at least I respect a honest whore

[Anonymous]

Your problem not hers

[Asker]

How is it my problem? I mean if a girls whoring herself then it’s her consequences not mine

[Asker]

I do feel like to be in a serious relationship you deserve to know someone’s past. Because it’s a good indicator of how loyal they will be. Especially pretending to be someone thehre not

[Opinion Owner]

Your problem not hers

[Asker]

Elaborate

[Asker]

Cause maybe you’re that type of girl. What would you do if a dude seemed perfect but was fucking tons of girls behind your back.

Your problem not his? Hmmm

[Asker]

I can’t help it if you hate yourself because of the poor choices you have made. By the way decent men can sniff these women out. So you’ll be stuck with all the losers and simps. That and bad boys and players who will treat you like shit.

Pick your poison.

[MemeSupreme]

she's trolling you

gotta stop biting the bait

[Asker]

@MemeSupreme probably if not just some dude