We got along really well all summer now things have suddenly got weird?

[Anonymous]

had meet this girl at our local watering hole , she had been a hostess originally but this summer she was a server. she started that around May and whenever i was there and she serving me , we'd talk and got along really well.

we had this connection which was hard to describe , almost like she was my sister , we just got along that well and seemed really comfortable around each other.

so saw her there all through may , June , July and into August. but last couple visits things haven't gone as well and not entirely sure why. i didn't see as much of her there during August for some reason she seemed to always be working times i didn't go in.

she's only there till end of August , so Friday / Saturday could be her last shifts until she goes off to other things ( school) she won't be working there in fall or winter

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i'm not exactly sure what happened to change things , i only saw her at that place , once last summer i saw her at this other bar but she never came out there this summer. i didn't send her any texts or private message's. but though some of the other girls there might of been annoyed i was so focused on talking to her all the time

[CuriousHubby]

Sounds like she likes you and you did not close in on her or ask her number and ask her out?

That or something in her life might have changed and her focus did.

Might not be about you and the other girls probably know what happened.

[Asker]

no i never asked for her # , had sort of assumed she come out to that other bar as she had been there once before last summer and i had planned to try and buy a drink for her there as it was a different bar away from where she works but she never came out

i saw her there yesterday it was her last shift of the summer , she is going to school for something? but not sure what , we got along fine but kind of awkward at end when you realise its kind of over

[CuriousHubby]

Yup nothing happened just friends saying bye

[Asker]

well was other people around so weren't able to say too much and then later saw her with her parents having dinner
i'm sure that i'll see her again at some point