When you go to a str*p club/gentlemens lounge, why do you go? 93% are on their phones the last few sit & talk to their buddies... so why do you go?

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When you go to a str*p club/gentlemens lounge, why do you go? 93% are on their phones the last few sit & talk to their buddies... so why do you go?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I honestly don’t go to strip clubs anymore , I use to go when I was younger with friends , just for fun and to look at naked girls’ I also use to work at one part time , working as a bouncer to make some extra loot. Most guys’ just like to go to have eye candy , while they are having a few drinks with friends. But Playing on their cell phones , i would say is kind of rude and disrespectful , but sadly that’s how this society is today , with people glued to their phones. , it’s actually pretty sad to witness but sadly most of us all do it. There were studies done on this, as to why so many people are glued to their phones. People will go to sporting events like baseball or football etc. and instead of watching the game , they are playing on their phones. Like why are you even buying tickets to something you aren’t even going to watch? It’s pretty pathetic , but that’s people for you. I shake my head at videos of people almost getting killed from an accident , and instead of running for their lives , they are recording themselves running for their lives , like look at me !! I almost died !! It’s insane to me lol I was a teenager before technology really took off , and people actually interacted with each other more and looked at the scenery around them more , now people are face planted on their phones and have no clue what is actually happening around them , they are more concerned with what’s happening in some other part of the world , it’s crazy , But. I am not going to be a hypocrite , cuz I know I get locked into my phone at times as well. But I been trying to teach myself to put the phone down when I am out in public or I am out with friends ‘ or on a date with a girl etc , Just because I think it’s disrespectful to be playing on your phone constantly when you are with other people. Unless it’s work related or a family emergency or some shit , people shouldn’t be worrying about their phones. If I am on a date with a girl that is constantly playing on her phone , that’s a turn off to me , and I probably won’t ask her on another date again , because she clearly proved to me her phone is more important than getting to know me. Unless she has a valid reason that she has to use it. I shake my head when I see other couples out to dinner with each other , and they aren’t even looking or talking to each other , they are both face planted on their phones. Like what kind of date is that? Lol I feel technology is slowly destroying us people on how we interact with each other , and before we know it , people won’t even leave their homes because we will have technology that caters to us.100 percent of the time , to the point people will only interact with each other over technology instead of face to face. I feel it’s a way the government can control us even more. But we as people are dumb and blinded by it.

Static_In_The_Attic · Accepted Answer

As for a strip club if truth be told I haven’t been to one in twelve years & twelve years ago things were a little different. As for the club I went to it was clean & it wasn’t one of those dumps where the lights were out & the only thing lighting the way are black lights & laser shit. The club I went to had a dress code, had security checking people at the door & you were not allowed to bring your phone in at the time.

As for your establishment if 93% of the customers are on their phones you are losing money. As for your girls & yourself if nine out of ten times you don’t even bother to go on stage your manager should be fired. People are on their phones because you allow them to be on their phones & if you aren’t creating beautiful distractions everyone will be in their phones.

You girls need a new game plan. One girl on stage & with a rotating schedule every ten minutes or so & the other girls work the room. If you see guys on their phone go up & sit on their laps & say hello. If you see a group of guys put a lounge chair on stage & invite one of the guys to join you on stage to the stage as you work your magic in front of everyone making all the other guys jealous. Have lap dance contests & make it fun.

Shake that money maker!

Kelly6 · Accepted Answer

@inkedbunmom it's place for guys to relax and chat and laugh. and also enjoy the strippers dance or ask for lap dance

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

It just some kind of male primate ritual.

MrOracle · Answer

I haven't been to a strip club in a decade (my girlfriend at the time asked to go - she'd never been), but an old boss used to hold meetings in strip clubs because he thought he'd win points with contractors that way - and sometimes he did. Anyway, back 12 years ago, I would go with him maybe every other month for a meeting.

Anyway, I do think COVID was a catalyst that really changed attitudes, but it was only one part of it - the other part is the fact that so many people seem to live their entire lives on their phones. So much so that they don't even worry about enjoying the experience they're having - it's more about depicting a glamourous lifestyle online, which I think is idiotic.

I also think that COVID really pushed a lot of people - people who formerly focused on real-world relationships - to get their romantic and sexual fulfillment online. And I think a lot of them realized that they can get a similar "tease" that they'd get from a strip club from a website - and now with sites like OF they can even interact with the girls. This has made strip clubs and interacting with live nude girls much less of a unique and rare experience for a lot of men, and thus devalued the strip club experience on the marketplace. Strip clubs are hardly the only industry that has suffered from this - singles bars and clubs have been closing like crazy, because far fewer people are going out to find people in person, and so attendance at such places is way down outside of a few party cities like Miami or New Orleans.

It's just one of the many ways that dating apps and OF have ruined the whole relationship between men and women on almost every level.

Johnagain · Answer

Haven't been to one in 6 years. When I did go almost 1 or 2 times a month, it was to be in an atmosphere where I could look at the ladies, fantasize about an, & not have them weirded out & act like I was a creep. It wasn't an ego trip with my friends. I went alone almost every time. I get my drink, have a seat at the bar, & people watch the whole room. I picked out my favorite & went to talk, get a VIP dance, or move on. I was ARMY, & I guess I had the confidence, (no fear) to be that loner guy that just wanted a little feel & mingle with fine women. Never been in a bar fight. No one had reason to mess with me. That's a Gentleman in a club.

razelove · Answer

The last time I went was because I struck out at the clubs and wanted to see if I could pick up any of the girls around 4 AM. Damn though, club management is letting them have their phones out and shit?

When I was working in the clubs you'd be kicked out the doors for having any type of phone or camera out. The girls don't want pictures taken of them, well, then that was the case. Maybe strippers now have OF, I don't know.

CuriousHubby · Answer

Ex friends went to hang out and be men! So dumb 🙄 it's basically a bar hang out now.

Don't remember the last time my coworker gushed about seeing a new hot girl. Honestly probably being on tinder there! Bragging he is at a strip joint!

Wife used to be an ex... Her sister still in and she does the live special shows at the club. No dancing more making live porn pay to watch.

Says the men are desensitized to dancing.

Good luck! 🍀 Your a great person and are doing your best keep up the great work.

HawkPerception · Answer

I've only been once in my life because I was younger and my cousins wanted to go. I wasn't the one driving everyone around at the time. When I went in, it was so awkward. I was of age but just barely (it was so long ago that I can't even remember). I didn't have any drinks because I wanted to be ready to go asap. A girl tried to sit down on me and when I told her no, sorry, she got extremely offended. There was an empty room that I went into and chilled in the entire time. It looked like it was closed, but I didn't care. One of my cousins came to join me because the scene also wasn't him and we just looked at the paintings and commented on them lol. No one will be able to drag me one ever again.

AviatorTom · Answer

I haven't been to a strip club in years. I used to accompany our sales guys when they made presentations to prospective customers; I could answer the technical questions. Usually, after a day of meeting with the customer, we'd go to a local strip bar for food and drinks. Talking to the dancers between sets (tipping them of course), and having an occasional lap dance or VIP room visit was a great way to relax after a hectic day.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I'd go if a stripper would give a real show. But of course that don't all the do is go on stage a twerk and I don't have to go to a strip club for that... let's face it unless a stripper has a real show she's obsolete

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Last time I went was 1987, the night before I got married and the boys took me there. I think it is wrong for a man who is married or in a committed relationship to visit strip clubs and titty bars.

BetaBucks · Answer

Because my dumbfuck friends couldn't be talked out of it, and always say "you told us so" when they're done being thirsty dorks that got absolutely nothing that they couldn't have got on their phones. Or paid the same price to get a hooker.

EnjoytheDay777 · Answer

I think they must at least look at you sometimes? I think they want someone to fantasize about when they have sex with their wives or when they jerk off

nolabels · Answer

I haven't been to a strip club in over 45 years. I don't see the point in going to them.

Makeushiver · Answer

I have never understood the appeal of strip clubs. I'm horny enough throughout the day without having a beautiful young girl get me turned on then having no real means to finish the deal,

RedInnocent69 · Answer

I would think the bouncers would crack down on phones so you don’t take photos of the girls. I would definitely be watching, talking to, maybe even dancing (or getting dances) with the girls, if I bothered to go…

DrPepper12 · Answer

So I can pay a huge cover charge, buy over priced drinks, can't touch her and leave drunk, horny, with no money and blue balls. I never go. Just a waste of everything!

Paul09 · Answer

I remember a time you were not even allowed to look at your smartphone. I never have. I havnt been in years. Not my thing.

9in_Serpent · Answer

I like to have eye candy while socializing with friends since it kinda feels like a man cave lol but we would get lap dances later or sit in front of the stage

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

TRYING TO LOOK LIKE WE'RE CHILL & NOT TOTALLY PERVING IN THE GIRLS

Luopio27 · Answer

I never go! I hate the idea of turning sex into business.

msc545 · Answer

For masturbation material and to socialize with other customers.

Account · Answer

Social conditioning.

ManInChains · Answer

I've never been to one and I don't plan to

Avicenna · Answer

They go for the women

RavVid · Answer

To watch girls being fun sexually and naked.

Anonymous · Answer

Why do you say str*p instead of strip?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

LOL!!

Ladsin2 · Answer

Look at tits.

noohair · Answer

I dont go.

MrGSpotHer · Answer

Never been 😆

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