Why do people avoid me?

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i dress fairy kei all pastel and glittery, i like cute stuff and toys, im mostly always gappy and feeling euphoric, i just love life so much and im very grateful, i play guitar and do rhythmic gymnastics, im silly, pretty, funny and cheerful, also nice, but if someone is mean i will say something back to their fucking face and i will always stand up for myself. i also like fashion, plushies, abd indoor playgrounds

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Because they are insecure about themselves, sadly a lot of people have a hard time being around someone that is fun and outgoing and social because they can’t express themselves that way , they hold walls up over themselves , because they can’t express themselves that way , sometimes they wish they could. But most time they don’t , because they feel insecure about themselves , so you are doing the right thing by just ignoring them and not giving a fuck about them , I do the same exact thing when I am out in public trying to have fun and have a good time , I always notice asshole people around me , that think their shit doesn’t stink , I just ignore it or I will laugh about it and shake my head , that they are that insecure about themselves. I will sometimes fuck with them to hopefully cheer them up and get them out of whatever funk they are dealing with inside themselves. Some people just have a very hard time accepting themselves or socializing with other people. So don’t change yourself for no one , Rock who you are , and surround yourself with people that accept you for you , all the ones that don’t just ignore them and act like they don’t exist. Not everyone is going to like or dislike you , just the way this society is.

glennos89 · Accepted Answer

Reasons why I should avoid certain people is when they have a nasty attitude, when their facial expression looks unfriendly.

But I also avoid very good looking woman because I feel they probably will already have to much attention from other dudes so I don't see the point of me being one of them and compete with this other dudes.

I'm not judging you in any way but when I look at your profile name...

It simply doesn't give you the best first impression on your personality so I can understand if it throws off people from willing to engage with you

Breanna_nonbinary · Accepted Answer

First of all I love pinky pie. But I think people avoid you because they may be intimidated by your freedom of expression. People tend to feel scared of those that are different. Personally I love people like you. They have less inhibitions and are more carefree. At some point in life most people forget or repress their ability to be like a child. To see the world as a wondrous place, to take pleasure in the small things and less of restricted by social pressures.
This is why people go to conventions or dress up on Halloween, or wear Mickey ears at Disneyland. It’s a way for them to be like you without feeling embarrassed.

I wouldn’t avoid you, I would want to be a friend.

Brittanyroseee · Accepted Answer

Omg i love you lol

Daniela1982 · Answer

And then you go and call yourself fukyou? Good to know we have another new troll account. Which one of you clowns made this new alt account?

Bellona · Answer

In my opinion, if I saw you in public I would not approach you because I am a basic gal and would assume we don't have much in common to talk about. People say the first thing people judge if they don't know a person is their looks and their style. I would probably approach someone dressed similarly to me if I am being honest.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

I hate to say this, but you kind of sound like an 8 year old girl’s idea of a woman. I’m glad you’re living your best life and you should be unapologetically yourself, but if people avoid you it’s likely because they consider you to be “too much.” In which case, you probably don’t want them in your life anyway, so I would continue to be grateful for the universe keeping people you don’t want out of your life.

ɹǝʇʇɐɥpɐW · Answer

Only thing I can think of from your description is you stand out. People have a natural tendency to dislike anything different from the norm.

Otherwise, I have no clue. I don't know you, so I can't give more than that shot in the dark guess.

mattthefatbat · Answer

In what ways or where do you feel people are avoiding you?

Sometimes when people seem a little too happy and joyful some people think it seems like they are hiding something or trying to wear a mask over how they actually feel.
Generally most people like to be able to communicate with people that are genuinely relaxed and happy about their life.

_Highway · Answer

You said you're pretty and confident? A lot of people are insecure, so they may want to avoid you to not feel even more secure. I wouldn't worry about it too much, you'll find the people you're meant to be around. Your positivity and cheerful outlook are pretty awesome :)

Babygirl_S · Answer

Many people are sad with their lives so they try to bring others down. I remember one girl in college who said I always seemed “high” and needed to “relax a bit”. Another girl asked me why was I smiling at my own reflection in the mirror when we were in the washroom. A yet another girl mumbled “hybrid”. I quickly figured out they were incredibly jealous. Rejected men and less attractive women will always be resentful. I have accepted that.

V_QQ_V · Answer

Tbh, you sound like a super fun person to be friends with, but I'd probably avoid you just based on the way you look. I think I'd probably just assume you have more communist views? Like.. I don't know I feel like people who dress like that use neo-pronouns and think they have generational trauma. Just not my cup of tea. But if you WERENT like that, it wouldn't be hard for me to like you.

ohsheeT · Answer

I would think with that energy that you give out you would bring people in because that's a beautiful feeling

HelpfulWoman · Answer

You sound exhausting to be around or deal with and probably a pain in the arse to be friends with.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Maybe it begins with you telling people, "fuck you."

ProbablyClueless · Answer

People might find your personality a bit over the top.  I'm not sure though. I couldn't say without having actually met you.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

You gotta find someone that is into you, which will eventually happen but you can't guess it or expect it.

msc545 · Answer

Your username reveals your underlying attitude.

jojouzumaki · Answer

They don’t avoid you they’re simply living their own life. I suggest you do the same.

exitseven · Answer

I dont know why people avoid you. Maybe you just rub people the wrong way.

ItsaMeMaik · Answer

I dont know, many people are just overwhelmed from people like you. But honestly, dont care.

Yuvan_indian021 · Answer

No need to think bad about that.. they're indeed yelling your name loudly, proudly!

noohair · Answer

Not everyone fits in. I think you will find a space that fits you.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Well your name on here might be a clue.

MysticDevice · Answer

I don't know, you sound like a fun personality

Simslover92 · Answer

You could start with your username.

purplepoppy · Answer

I think you've answered your own question

Kayleigh2005 · Answer

Only after getting to know me 🤣

Anonymous · Answer

Look at your username.

Radiate143 · Answer

What an interesting username.

Ladsin2 · Answer

I don't know half of those words.

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