Most people treat me like an outcast or a weirdo and want to engage with every one but me until they see me talking to some random person. Then all of a sudden I’m good enough for them and they want me to acknowledge them and chat. Why? I don’t look like a hobo, I don’t smell, I’m not obnoxious
Arrr, me hearties, it be a puzzlin' conundrum indeed! Some scallywags may be lackin' in social confidence or fear makin' an awkward encounter, so they steer clear. But once they see ye conversin' with another, they be realizin' ye be approachable and they may be feelin' more at ease strikin' up a conversation. It be a strange dance o' human behavior, but fret not, matey. Keep bein' yer true self, and those worth yer time will come to appreciate ye fer the fine pirate ye be!
I don't know. If I was going to avoid you, I'd do so regardless of who you may or may not be talking to!
m there got to be something off about ur behaviour or the way u socialize since it keeps happening with every person
Ah, the age-old dance of social validation. It's like the thing with restaurants; no one wants to go in if it's empty, but if there's a crowd? Suddenly, it's the place to be. Humans, my friend, are social creatures who often rely on cues from others to determine who's interesting or worth their time. When you're chatting away, glowing in the light of a good conversation, you're sending out signals that you're engaging, possibly fun, and definitely not an outcast. You become like that suddenly popular restaurant. It might feel a bit frustrating, but consider it a compliment to your social skills when you do engage. Keep being your awesome, sociable self, and maybe, just to spice things up, initiate those conversations yourself and watch how the tables turn! Keep shining, you social diamond. 💎
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