Why do I get on well with abrasive women?

[TatteredAngel]

When I’m not one myself? Most of my closest friends are either men or their tomboys, which I’m not.

[_Maya_]

I'm not sure how you expect anyone here to explain the things that you do. We don't know you or anything about you. Unless you have a friend irl that is on the site then it is nearly impossible for any of us to tell you why you do the things that you do. We are not mind readers. We don't know your personality. We don't know your habits or preferences. So it isn't for me or anyone else to say why you do certain things. I can take a guess at it. It could be that you like or get along with abrasive women exactly for the reason that you state. You are not one. Have you ever heard of the saying "opposites attract"? Well, that could be the case here. Other than that who really cares and why are you bothered to post about it if you get along with them?

[TatteredAngel]

Why does anyone on here ask questions? Because they’re bored and it’s a bit of fun. Yet when I ask a sensible question rather than the fluff that’s normally on here, most of which I already have lived through and understand and don’t feel the need to ask about, it’s interesting that I appear to be the one being policed by militant site users.

[_Maya_]

Exactly how are you being policed?

Furthermore, I will reiterate my point. How are we supposed to know why you do the things that you do? Can you tell me why I do things that I do? Nope.

[TatteredAngel]

Can anyone tell anyone else on here anything for sure? It’s your way of demanding to know why I dared ask a question on this site, which is ironically, the whole point of using this site. I felt patronised by your approach.

[TatteredAngel]

I haven’t noticed anyone approaching younger women on here like that. Interesting 😊🥰

[_Maya_]

The irony that you say you are not an abrasive person

[Jennz6]

It’s okay honey I understand 🥰