Show to make things right with a women when you messed it up?

[bulleye]

Continuatuion to my previous post. Finally I talked to her at office cafe. She initially started to walk away but someone noticed made her sit uncomfortably. She smiled and I asked her as to why she ignored me at movies to which she said, she was uncomfortable. I also asked her of this avoidance at workplace. She politely smiled and said 'With all due respect, you weren't the man I met and fell in love. You were cruel and evil. Using women for sex, taking consent and not doing it, giving a timeline and saying if you don't send nudes, I will block or worse treating me much less than a human deserved isn't acceptable. You treated everyone with respect. Even when people made fun of you, you respected them. You never saw how unconditional I was, just coz I rejected you when young. Being cruel isn't a joke and abuse isn't love but it is not my job to be your unpaid therapist. You need to work on your self. Heal boy'

The kindness I once saw in her face was filled with void.

She walked away. She is all a man can ever expect. A loving women who loves and trust you for what you are. I messed it real big.

I want to make things right with her. Help me with the same.

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Sorry the title was 'How to make things right with her'

[happyfoetus]

she seems to be really hurt. being consistent with your effort to appologize may make situation better. However being an ass hole to that level, yet loving her doesn't go together. She has seem how worse you can get. It is hard to remove her from that trauma.

[Nikki1989]

1. Admit that you made a mistake and take responsibility for your actions.

2. Apologize sincerely. Offer a genuine apology and express your regret for the pain you've caused.

[bulleye]

will that make things right?

[Anonymous]

Do u understand u still don’t like her. U just like how much of a “perfect girl “ and “convenience “ she can be