Am I just being realistic and reasonable or is it the trust issues?

[MLGbreezy]

Saw I saw this girl on instagram a while ago prettiest girl I’ve ever seen in my life and I really wanted to shoot my shot but she ha like hundreds of thousands of followers. Dming her wouldn’t have worked especially with instagrams stupid new restrictions they put in Dms and even following someone now. i see this girl had an OF she had a sale and me wanting it that bad joined her page to shoot my shot. At first she refused to even take things off the site seemed like I fumbled which is fine 12$ isn’t gonna hurt my pockets. But then one day we really got into a deep convo and it really I don't know clicked it felt like after that she always seemed excited to talk to me she even told me she loved me on more than one occasion. Would send me goodnight I love you texts she became really supportive would worry about my health if i would mention I wasn’t feeling well. Even off platform on her ig when if post she’d like and reply to all my comments which is a lot considering she had multiple back up ig pages in case she has issue with her main or it gets taken down she even followed me on those pages. And she even said she wanted to see me at one point mind you we live in different countries. But lately she talks to me less and less, stopped likening and replying to most of my post on her ig pages some days I’ll text her and will just get no answer when she is online. There’s obviously been a switch up I haven’t asked her about it yet not sure if I wanna here the answer she does still say she loves me when we do talk. But it all just feels so artificial like she’s saying that to just keep me subbed to her page if that. My sub to her pages expires today gonna let it run out and take a step back and also see what she does how she reacts. If it doesn’t go in my favor oh well ig part of me was always skeptical to begin with so no big blow to my ego but a big one to my heart searching for love in this fog of heartbreak is discouraging bro say the least.

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, that's a rough situation. On one hand, OF models are running a business so the affection could be part of maintaining subs. But your connection also sounded really deep at times.

I'd say trust your gut - something obviously changed in how she's engaging with you lately. Maybe work/life got busier, maybe her feelings shifted, who knows. Only way to find out is talk to her straight up about it.

If you really care about her, tell her you've noticed a difference and just want honesty on where her heads at. It'll suck to hear but better than living in limbo, you know?

If she gives excuses but nothing changes, then you'll have your answer. Letting the sub run out and see if she reaches out is a good test too. Protect your heart first here bro - that's most important.

I get the struggle to find love out here, but don't settle for gray areas or half-assed effort. You deserve someone real who's all in. This just may not be the right situation. Keep your head up, man!

[MLGbreezy]

Thank you for the advice bro things are still lot really how I’d like she insists that she does love me and that she’s been messaging more inconsistently cause of how many messages she gets and say my messages will show up less if I unsubscribe the last time my sub was going to run out she did say something similar so I don’t think she’s lying about that but the main issue is I feel like she only might want me around for that reason although my sub ran out yesterday and she I still messaging me back

[MLGbreezy]

What I plan on doing is seeing if she’s willing to take things off site just to prove that it’s not about the money or subbing to her page if she agrees and we still consistently talk guess I was wrong if not then it is what it is and I’ll let her go. At least I’ll have the truth.

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn bro, that's definitely a tricky situation. On one hand it seems like she still wants to talk even without the sub, which is a good sign. But I can see why you'd still feel skeptical about just being there for the money/sub too.

Your plan to try taking things off the site is a smart move, it'll be the real test. If she's still down to connect just as much without the OF aspect, then maybe there is genuine feeling there. But if she drops off a lot or makes excuses to keep stuff on the page, then that answers your question unfortunately.

I'd say just go into it keeping your guard up a bit, don't get full heart invested yet. See how she acts with taking stuff off site for a bit. If she proves consistent, then maybe she really does like you. But if not, at least you tried and get your clarity to move on. Protect your heart either way bro.

I'm sure it'll play out how it's meant to, just go in knowing your worth and don't settle for less than someone treating you right. You got this man, keep me updated on how it goes!

[MLGbreezy]

Oh don’t worry bro the plan was a bust just another greedy gold digger looking for money

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I don't know how long you’ve been single, but you fell for a sex worker, it’s literally her job to give you a fantasy you’re willing to pay money for. It sounds like she did the work to make you a comeback customer, and it sounds like she’s doing the routine with someone else now.

[MLGbreezy]

Really cause I’m not giving her much of any money to begin with so why would she waste her time with someone who wasn’t bringing her much of a profit?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You get a taste and come back for more at a “reasonable” price. Money is money, I doubt she’s that worried

[Nikki1989]

Not realistic or reasonable, just insanely immature.