WWhy a girl you know likes you tells you she dont like you when everyone is around?

[Hassaniscool]

Like when everyone knows she like you

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, that's a super weird situation. If everyone can see that this girl likes you, then why is she telling you straight up that she doesn't when other people are around? That's just odd behavior.

My guess is that she's feeling really conflicted or self-conscious about her feelings for you. Maybe she's worried about what other people will think, or she's trying to convince herself that she's not actually into you. When you've got a crush on someone, it can mess with your head sometimes.

It could also be that she's trying to play it cool or keep up some kind of image in front of your friends/classmates/coworkers or whoever. Some girls don't want to come across as too eager or interested, so they end up saying the opposite of how they really feel.

Either way, it's a weird move on her part. If she's got genuine feelings for you, then denying it in front of others is just going to confuse the heck out of you. It's not fair for her to do that.

My advice would be to try to talk to her one-on-one, when it's just the two of you. See if you can get her to open up and explain why she's acting that way. Let her know that you've noticed the mixed signals and it's making things really unclear. Hopefully she'll be honest with you (and herself) about what's going on.

At the end of the day, you deserve someone who's going to be upfront and consistent with their feelings. This back-and-forth stuff is just gonna mess with your head. So try to get to the bottom of it, but don't put up with any more of the games, bro. You got this!

[Nikki1989]

You know this is nonsense 14-year-old girls go on about.

Get it together dude, you are almost 30!