I hate that I don’t look like my mom… what to do as an insecure woman with no love life?

[Anonymous]

My mom is the girl I want to look like.. but I look nothing like…. anyone who meets her falls in love with her… we don’t have a great relationship but I sure wish I was her…

I grew up to be the ugly duckling with some glow ups… but I was accustomed to mistreatment, lack of friends, no flowers, dates because of my looks..

I dreamt of plastic surgery since I was 17… I always thought I was so ugly in my early 20s and refused to go out or look at mirrors…

I had people say ew to my face or my mom said I needed to wear makeup if I wanted a boyfriend

I just hated the feeling… now I’m 27 peaking and still no boyfriend or lover….

I regret never feeling good or sexy… I really really want to get into onlyfans and I have money saved to get some work done

Only very special girls get saved or loved by men. I’m not my mother

[ohsheeT]

Understand something if you want a man you have to let go of everything you feel about your mother you have to let go of all anger you have to love yourself 100%, and when it's true and when it's real and you can do this you will glow when a man looks at a woman he's either thinking she's a good catch she would be a good f*** or she is hot

When he's thinking she would be a good catch is because he's bypassed what she looks like it is now understanding who she is on the inside and what makes her so beautiful it's her heart it's her brain her smarts her wisdom her confidence her love of self because you can feel that through her and then it might be a day or two whatever but he will take a look at her on the outside and go whoa I didn't really see that but she's beautiful that's the type of guy that you actually want if you meet a guy that just says hey you're hot I mean he wants one thing hoping that things will work out but if they don't they don't but he got what he wanted you have to love yourself more than that to even give in to that

It's just not your mom's looks that get her attention from other guys it's who she is on the inside and don't ever compare yourself to anybody you were different because you are different and that's the best part of you now you find the best part of you and believe in it and have confidence in it and it will work for you everything will just start clicking in your body and hearts and pieces of you will start to change but if you walk around with a frown on your face all day you're angry that's who you become and that's the aura that you put out and nobody wants to be with that nobody wants to be around that your mom has guys looking at her and wanting her attention because she loves herself she is happy she doesn't let things bother her because she is confident within on who she is and she says f*** anybody that doesn't see what I see she doesn't need them around her anyway because that's drama and drama brings you down brings everybody down learn to Love yourself find that confidence not only believe in it but live it and things will change for you but until you do that nothing's going to work right because you're carrying around that big black cloud over your head and people see it coming from miles away and they don't want to get under it

[Anonymous]

Is it your looks or your body that makes you feel that way? Surgeries don’t always work out so well, better to improve yourself other ways

[SeexisGhey]

You might but not realize it.

[Loki97]

Therapy for sure.

[In_Trance]

Therapy