Why are most females’ sympathetic to men that steered them wrong?

[Finchie40]

One thing I know about females’ is females’ love honesty , which sadly a lot of guys’ don’t realize that females cherish , Females’ are also more forgiving than men are as well. For example girls’ that I have hurt their feelings and betrayed them when I was younger because I was selfish at times all pretty much forgave me because I was honest with them as to why I hurt them and betrayed them , as for us guys’ once we are hurt or betrayed we allow it to get to our head and leave and distance ourselves , but females’ on the other hand are way more sympathetic, Why is that? I have cheated on a girl once and she wanted to give me a second chance because I was honest with her but if a girl told me she cheated on me , my ass is walking the other way. So why do most of you females’ tolerate this behavior from men?

[silvermoon84]

I think that a lot of women blame themselves for men’s bad behavior (he cheated because I wasn’t pleasing him, etc), whereas men see women’s bad behavior as our own fault (which it is). Truth is, nobody is ever at fault for someone else’s infidelity or bad behavior.

I had an ex dump me though to go back to a girl that kept cheating on him and dumping him and then coming back so there are some guys who do it too.

[Finchie40]

Yes I agree , it just seems females’ are more sympathetic when it comes down to her being cheated on compared to men being cheated on , I know their are men that will take a cheating girlfriend or wife back into their life as well , I have witnessed that a bunch of times , but not as often as women tend to give a man another chance. Shit , Even when I cheated on a girl , or moved on from a girl and ended up meeting another girl , some of my exes wanted me back , like they didn’t care that I was screwing someone other girls’ she just wanted me to stop and screw her instead. But honestly when a girl wants me back after I moved on from her and slept with someone else , it amazes me that she still wants me back. I sometimes think Did she cheat on me?

[DanTheMan010]

I think it comes from a primal thing. Like they want to make it make sense. So sometimes they go and find the answer , sometimes they except it , sometimes they believe in a lie, as long as it makes sense to them and is easier to digest emotionally.

[Lottydotty]

Just how humans should be but people are fucked up so

[Anonymous]

I don’t know why don’t you ask a lot of them