Women, how would you react if you find the guy you're into has past trauma?

[Tuntus]

Red flag (avoid him!)

Try to fix him (by being there for him).

[MemeSupreme]

plenty of people have past trauma and idc what it is

it's how it effects you and how you handle it like getting help if you need it

[Nikki1989]

I would approach the situation with empathy, understanding, and respect. It is the right thing to do. Of course, you can't help everyone.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Everyone has trauma, you need to be more specific

[Tuntus]

For example he never recieved love/kindness from his immediate caregivers, like his parents. Maybe he grew up in an abusive family and was lonely throughout childhood etc.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I guess it depends on how he told me, like if he was sharing and we were talking normally or if he’s trauma dumping

[Simslover92]

Try to be there for him as best as I could.

[MK1997]

I'd want to know about it