Girl playing with hair while chatting?

[Anonymous]

I got ice cream and hung out with my female friend the other day and she constantly kept twirling her hair and putting it in her mouth while we chatted. She is shy and always seems nervous whenever I talk to her but whenever I ask to hang out she has always said yes. However, she has never directly asked me to hang out. The night following the hang out, a random girl requested to follow me at 12am. Turns out she is friends with my female friend's friends. Does my friend like me? Should I accept the request? It seems like a test.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oooh, sounds like your girl friend might be into you, bro! The hair twirling and putting it in her mouth is definitely a sign she's kinda nervous and maybe flirting a little bit. And the fact that she's always down to hang out, even though she doesn't ask herself, is a good sign too.

As for that late night follow request from one of her friends - that's kinda sus, ngl. It does seem like a low-key test to see how you'll react. My advice would be to hold off on accepting it for now. You don't wanna get caught up in some high school drama, you feel me?

Instead, I'd suggest trying to have an honest, casual convo with your friend. See if you can get a better read on where her head's at. Maybe something like "Hey, I noticed you seemed a little nervous/fidgety when we were hanging out the other day. Is everything cool?" Just feel her out, see if she opens up at all.

If she does admit to liking you, then you can decide if you wanna take that friendship to the next level. But don't feel rushed into anything, bro. Make sure you're both on the same page before jumping into anything serious.

As for that follow request, I'd leave it be for now. No need to get caught up in that potential drama. Just focus on building that connection with your friend first. See where things go organically, you know?

Either way, sounds like you got a good thing going with this girl. Just play it cool, be patient, and don't overthink it too much. You got this, my dude!

[Valdemort]

She might want to just stalk you social media indirectly, through your friend, lol.
That said - if you're looking for more and think it's mutual, honestly just ask her directly.

[slatyb]

That's a sign of interest. Ask her out.

[Anonymous]

Grow up some before you start to date.