Do men hate super sweet girls?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Not at all. BUT... certain types of men are going to take advantage of such a girl's sweetness, and it won't end well.

It is CRITICAL for such a woman to thoroughly vet every potential partner, and to focus on that guy's MORALS, VALUES, and LIFE GOALS. Pay attention to how he treats other people, especially people who are in service to him. If he's rude to a cashier or a waiter or a mechanic, or to his friends or your friends, it's only a matter of time before he treats you that way. If he'd cheat or hurt or scam someone, or be indifferent if someone else is hurting them, then that's how he'll treat you eventually.

If he doesn't share your life goals, you won't be able to sustain a relationship. If he wants to live in the big city, and you want to live in the suburbs (or vice versa), it won't work. If you want him to come home every night, but he's in a career that requires him to be gone a lot, it's not going to work. If he wants kids and you don't (or vice versa), it won't work. There are plenty of other examples of "life goals" but whatever they are, the two of you need to be compatible or able to come to a compromise you can both live with.

But in this case, it's really about MORALS and VALUES. Just because he treats you nicely in the beginning doesn't mean his morals and values are good - pay attention how he treats other people, and ASK him questions about his morals and values and see what he says. You'd be surprised at how often people will openly express poor morals and values right to your face if you ask them.

Here's the other thing: if the guy is super attractive and super popular, you can pretty much guarantee that he's going to have poor morals and values and be selfish and self-centered (this is true of most really attractive women as well). If a man is so attractive that he can attract tons of women, he's not going to take ANY woman seriously, because he'll know that it's far easier to replace her than inconvenience himself with a sacrifice. I realize that very attractive guys are exciting and (duh) attractive, but that doesn't mean they have viable long-term attributes. If you look at any really attractive celebrity guy, for example (whether that's Hollywood or the music business), you'll see that he has a track record of cheating on women. Why? Because he has so much OPPORTUNITY to do so. And someone who has always had endless opportunity is going to take full advantage of that opportunity. They've never had to sacrifice their desires for anything, and they feel no need to start. That's not someone you can count on.

LiamS95 · Accepted Answer

No, but you're still young so you need to understand some guys will try to down play your super sweetness and play you on that sweetness to get what they want and then dump you. I don't want that to happen to you.

alice55 · Accepted Answer

They usually find them boring especially when they're young they would prefer a girl with a backbone that can tease them and be teased back who they can have fun, if the girls is too sweet guys generally don't feel comfortable teasing them or feel like the girl have no backbone.

JessyJoy · Accepted Answer

One of my brothers has a super sweet girlfriend. He doesn't hate it; rather, he multiplied the way his girlfriend is super sweet and treats his girlfriend extra super sweet in return. They are engaged, but not for long.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Depends. If she’s super sweet is she being honest and genuine. Or does she fake emotions to be sweet a lot?

Nikki1989 · Answer

Women, men, most people prefer sweet and kind.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Nah imagine a cold one, sweet is the opposite, it's what people like, for the most part, there's always those that are excluded lol

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I wouldn't say I "hate" them, unless they're annoying, but too sweet isn't a good thing. I need a little bit of feist/sass

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

Yes, with a passion. Be a bitch, more men love that than they want to admit

slatyb · Answer

Sweet? What do you mean by that? My wife is consistently considerate and makes my life easier.

Anonymous · Answer

No, we LOVE super sweet girls. But I agree with MrOracle. There are assholes out there who will take advantage of you. Be careful in who you choose to date.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Super sweet and super chill is the type of women I like.

Anonymous · Answer

I love sweet woman. It is better than being with a B####.

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

NOT hate, but NOT preferred.

nicfire171 · Answer

Why would men hate sweet girls?

Anonymous · Answer

No, but I actually prefer dominant girls.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Not at all

Rohaan2020 · Answer

I don’t

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