Why do people think that a woman that's attracted to dangerous men went through trauma?

[Chthou95]

It's absurd to think that trauma is the reason a woman can be attracted to danger and degeneracy

[french_omelette]

They think a healthy person wouldn't be attracted to someone like that. They probably just were looking for something different, I don't know, idc

[Chthou95]

If you don't care why'd you waste your time leaving a comment

[french_omelette]

It's not that I don't care, it's that I want to offer my opinion but in taking the time to do so I kind of got frustrated because it's kind of difficult for me to wrap my head around your question

[Chthou95]

Aw im sorry my question hurt your brain

[french_omelette]

You ask a question because you don't understand women's behavior, but you are rude to anyone who says their opinion. I wasn't mean to you even one time

[french_omelette]

After thinking more about it though, love is like the most important thing to women, and they easily make themselves vulnerable, most of the time not realizing what they are getting into. We are more emotional than men, and taking that into consideration, men shouldn't manipulate our emotions. We tend to not think things through when we are blinded by love. I am one of those "stupid af" women who got themselves sexually assaulted by a dude who lied about his whole identity and saw the best in a guy.

[Chthou95]

So your bullshit detector malfunctioned when it came to this guy?

[french_omelette]

100%, I was in a bad place

[french_omelette]

But also he was also extremely manipulative im talking ASPD. I told him my boundaries at the start and at first, he respected them, but then he would get his foot in the door. I felt trapped and if I didn't do what he wanted there would be consequences and so on, it sucked. I have regretted it for so long, blaming myself for being so dumb, for not enforcing my boundaries, but I let him walk all over me. I was naïve and trusted people too easily. Sorry for yapping about my personal life though. I have went through trauma, but it wasn't why I was with that douchebag, it was what I was dealing with at the time. And he wasn't even initally a "dangerous guy", but it came out as we dated

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Values that aren't aligned won't attract.

A dangerous man is a safety risk for woman so if a woman likes being around a potential monster who can snap and murder her then it clearly speaks about her as a person and her values.

[Chthou95]

Yeah they're stupid af and then complain about it later wondering why the guy beats her

[Ariesman81]

My belief is that women are attracted to what feels familiar.

[Abbycado]

They are trying to come up with an excuse as to why they don’t have dates.

[Chthou95]

Did you think before you typed that?

[Abbycado]

Yep, you fuckwit

[Chthou95]

Yet it has no relevancy to the question asked

[Abbycado]

It actually does if you aren’t a dumbass.

[jahaims]

You have zero understanding of psychology

[Chthou95]

Explain professor