Girls, Does controlling behavior ever ease up or go away?

[Anonymous]

I'm in the very early stages of seeing this girl and she's mostly fantastic, but she does a few things that just seem a bit controlling.

It's not particularly big stuff, but it's stuff I notice.

Like she won't let me chat with other women in our friend group alone. Especially not if she picks up any kind of friendly or playful energy between us. She'll force herself into the conversation, if I don't invite her over. I can see her get increasingly annoyed until she just does it herself.

She'll also hide it from me if she's hanging out with other guys, but she'll tell me honestly if I ask. There's nothing romantic though, I know she's genuinely just friends with them.

She does some other things too, but I'm sure you get the idea.

That'll get better

Lawl... that is NOT getting better

[EmmaMary]

This will only go one way... And I'm quite sure I don't need to tell you which way that will be... Sorry.

[Asker]

Yeah... That's disappointing, but thank you for confirming my concerns.

She's a sweetheart now, but I've seen how weird controlling behavior like that can get.

[EmmaMary]

However disappointing this may seem... Just be extremely thankful that you seen the early signs, before it's too late... Wishing you all the luck and good fortune in finding your future happiness.

[Asker]

Thank you! And you as well.

It's definitely better to be alone than with someone who sees you as their possession.