After breaking up with my ex boyfriend we were always talking..we ended up almost hooking up..but didn't make it all the way through. we were both confused and just stayed friends..
over the course of the summer we kept in contact.
finally I got back to college and we finally met up again..our sparks flew like never before and we kept contacting each other.
he would say that he wanted to see me.. I would say okay.. ( agreeing to hooking up pretty much)
but then he would back out and not want to hook up
he would say.. well I am in that mood..
and I would say.. well ya?
and he would go..well I know I am attracted to you and I like you.. but
basically telling me that he didn't want to have sex with me
I asked he just wanted to be friends..and he would say..
"no,no,no. hell no"
I asked him what he wanted
and all he said to me was that he didn't know
I know that he likes me, he has already told me that..but why wouldn't he want to hook up with me?
I mean I like him too but I guess I was under the impression of that was what he wanted.
I have never been in this position before where a guy actually is turning me down to hook up.
so what is his deal?
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