Ladies, what are some things men do that turn you on without even realising it?

[srazo]

Is it a certain body language, posture, tone of voice, behaviour, or something else

A confident but relaxed posture

A deep or warm tone of voice

Subtle body language (eye contact, smirking, leaning in)

Acts of kindness without making a show of it

Focused listening (really paying attention when you talk)

A playful sense of humour

Physical gestures (rolling up sleeves, stretching, running a hand through hair)

[SueShe]

Nothing actually.

I am not interested in dating and thus, I am not observing men (nor women) to see how they behave and what they do to attract the attention of others.

I simply mind my business and don't like when men try to flirt with me. I am very well aware of what their ultimate motives are and that is to eventually get into the pants of a woman.

I am totally insensitive and non receptive to behaviors, smells, looks and appearances. Men and women that go to great lengths to try to hook a potential woman are something that I am not interested in.

[Abbycado]

Not even…

[SueShe]

@Abbycado Those eyes, those eyes! I am melting right now 🤭

[Abbycado]

“What does it mean if a guy stares at you while he sucks the meat off a chicken leg?”

Now, there is the next question for this site. XD

[SueShe]

@Abbycado Answer:

You ain't getting a piece of this sucker!

[MerryMaria]

@Abbycado Ha. I know. Right? Agree!

[Nikki1989]

Personality, kindness and compassion, respect, intelligence, a sense of humor, honesty and integrity, good communication skills, and shared interests and values attract me, but none of that turns me on.

[Genie23]

• When he reaches me something. Knowlege... intelligence is attractive to me.
• His physical strength. When he picks up something heavy and I could see his muscles.
• When he's very good with kids. It makes me feel he could be a good father. So, that's really attractive.
• When he makes witty remarks.
• When he remembers even little things I shared with him a long time ago.
• His voice. Etc.

[Genie23]

Teaches*

[heruncommonsense]

Acts of kindness? He's still gonna be violent behind closed doors.

I'm not losing my virginity either way, but the only males who should even consider not shutting the fuck up are the ones with deep, calm voices.

[Abbycado]

If I didn’t realize it, how would I know what it is?

[srazo]

Maybe a better rephrase is what men do without them realizing it's turning you ladies on , I'm quite tired when I wrote this 😀

[DreamCrescent]

yes. without them realizing is probably what you’re looking for

and that’s what makes it so sexy. honestly when they’re not even trying to be attractive. i did vote for physical gestures but it would have to be sooooo unassuming and natural to be sexy. because if you’re a hetero woman like me, men can be sexy beasts

it’s really hot when a man shows a certain level of jealousy or possessiveness towards a woman. phew be still my beating heart 🥵🥵

(obviously not in a toxic or controlling way, okay? 😠
it signals exclusivity and shows vulnerability and is so attractive i can’t even tell you

[Abbycado]

Oh, geez. Sorry @srazo I didn’t get the notification that you had replied.

Yes, lol. That makes much more sense. Manners is a huge one. I get giddy at a guy that knows how to be chivalrous.

[Eddaisy]

A deep or warm tone of voice and Focused listening (really paying attention when you talk)

[Anonymous]

Unloading the dishwasher. I'm not even kidding.

[AlwaysFaith]

Being older LOL

[Anonymous]

Innocent acting

[Anonymous]

Smile.