Would you go for a girl who is a smoker?

[Anonymous]

This new girl joined my regural hiking group. Somehow we clicked very well during the hike and she asked to exchang socials.

Now she's texting me and I find her adorable in every way except that smoking part.

Like she opened a brand new pack of cigs just before the hike started and smoked both walking and resting. Around the mid-hike she started the second pack and it was empty as the hike ended.

[mysteriousNicholas]

I don't are women who are smokers, vapers, tatts, pierced, drinkers, users - gosh I'm starting to sound like that viral DJT video from the 2000s when allegedly DJT tells young Barron words like "now remember, don't get tattoos, don't smoke, etc etc etc"

YouTube it or google it - was back when he was interviewed around when Barron was like 4 or 5 lol or had a suitcase 💼

[mysteriousNicholas]

Anyways - maybe me and DJT just share a habit of cleanliness 😋 and hygiene standards - and after all, I don't date women who do the above like tatts and smoke, because I for one myself don't have tatts, don't want tatts, don't smoke, don't want to smoke, and so on and so on 👀👀👀👀

[Asker]

Yeh, I don't smoke or have tats too and theretically I don't like women who smoke or have too much and too big tats (don't mind a few small ones even don't prefer those either). (I'm all for the belly rings (just because I like female bellies in general and every way) but not other piercings by the way.)

But one thing is the theory and another thing is a particular girl with a hot body, cute face/smile/eyes/everything and who is interesting to talk to but she also has this one habit which I don't like...

[mysteriousNicholas]

Some just more particular than others. I've always known I'm particular - and I have no regrets that I'm still single 🥳🥳🥳

[Amy_Mi]

It depends, but not just on the habit itself.

Smoking isn’t inherently disqualifying, but it reveals priorities, discipline, and lifestyle choices.

Compatibility goes beyond attraction, it’s about alignment in values, health, and energy.

A relationship thrives on shared standards, not just chemistry.

So yes, only if the lifestyle fits the life being built together.

[DishLady]

No to smoking. A guy who has the occasional cigar-and-whiskey night with his buddies (like a stag party or a poker night) is one thing. An avid daily smoker is not ok.

[queenofcardio]

I wouldn't date a smoker

[DryGermanGuy]

Not for a chainsmoker like that, no. 🥴

[Darkest-Knight]

Sure. It wouldn't bother me.