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LMAO... Good luck with that. A guy's lucky if his eyes "unglue" in time for him not to be caught staring.
It happens almost every single day because of how I dress. I stopped thinking about it many years ago.
So yeah, no doubt about it—you’re definitely a bold woman. But has it ever happened where someone around you got really turned on just from seeing your boobs, you could totally tell, and then you actually said something to them about it or gave them some kind of reply?
I know this might sound kinda weird to you after hearing me say it, but don’t take it the wrong way—I actually have a story from when I was younger that’s connected to this kind of thing.
@Nikki1989 If you know that is the case and don't care you must enjoy having him stare.
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Honestly, if I'm going to be completely open about this, I have to tell the full story.
Back when I was younger—around 12 or 13, while I was living in Florida—there was this neighbor we called Annie, kind of like an auntie figure. She was always dropping by our place to chat, hang out, and sometimes help with little chores around the house. At that age, I was super curious about women's bodies, almost obsessively so.
Whenever Annie would bend over while doing something—cleaning, picking stuff up, whatever—her top would gap open, and I'd catch a clear view of her breasts and nipples. I started timing my presence in the room just to wait for those moments. It became this quiet fixation.
Even more strangely, she'd occasionally come over and use our bathroom with the door left slightly ajar while peeing. I'd stand right outside, watching. It happened more than a few times. One thing that really puzzled me back then was why women's pee made that loud, forceful hissing sound—hers especially seemed so strong and noticeable. I was hooked on the whole thing in a pretty unhealthy way. I'd watch, get aroused, and masturbate afterward.
One day, she caught me. I was standing there masturbating while she was peeing. She saw me, got really upset, and looked genuinely hurt and disappointed.
I immediately apologized and felt awful about it. She was actually a really kind, good-hearted person. After I said sorry, she calmed down and reassured me, saying something like, “Look, it's totally normal for guys your age to be this curious about things like that. But you really need to let go of these habits—they're not good for you.”
That moment changed everything for me. From then on, I made a real effort to shift my mindset. These days, if I notice a woman bending over in public or accidentally catch a glimpse of something, I just look away immediately. I ignore it completely—no staring, no lingering thoughts.
I know the whole thing sounds weird or even messed up when I say it out loud, but that's the honest truth of what happened. I've grown past it, and I'm not proud of that phase, but it was part of figuring things out.
I look the other way. But usually instead of stopping, it encourages girls to do it again and again progressively more inappropriately. ㅤ
since a tight grip over my inner fire is an absolute must for esoteric development, i decline any and all forms of sexual arousal. And if you manage to turn me on this way, then i deliberately try to feel a sense of commitment to someone i know for a fact i cannot just simply drive to and fuck, they live too far away, which let's me replace impulsive lust with caring patient love. Let my feelings work for me instead of destroying me.
If she leans over in front of me, I definitely notice, especially if she is wearing a top like that. I don't ogle and drool, but I definitely look.
If she does that, she certainly knows that I can see. And if she does it deliberately and sees me glancing, I might look at her and smile approvingly.
If she is a work colleague or a stranger in a store or something, and leans over to do something, I will look surreptitiously without her noticing. I wouldn't want to make her feel self conscious.
The upper skin of breast? you aware that it's only the nipple that not allowed to be seen?
It’s almost weirder if you do that isn’t it? That’s definitely not the way to normalize it. But what a lot of guys need to understand is if a girl bends over and you can see down her shirt, that doesn’t mean she wants to fuck.
But if the girl is attractive, yeah, I’m looking
I don't think any guy would close his eyes if he had a chance to see a girls boobs.
They’re so disgusting
guys
It's rather instinctive that we notice. Men are more visually wired. But we won't stare in such a way as to make the girl feel uncomfortable. We'd rather avoid it alltogether.
Most of them try their hardest not to look down at them when talking to you. Like you can almost hear them going "don't look down. Mustn't look down. Please don't look down" 😆
To be honest, surprise is our biggest enemy. When we have a "gifted" friend or colleague and know that we'll meet her, it's really no problem. It's the unknown and unscheduled boobs that capture our attention. :-)
Then choose to look away.
i try to be respectful and look away. but i'll be honest i probably haven't always looked away
When I was in 5th grade my teacher was very attractive and was leaning over helping a student sitting in front of me. I could clearly see down her blouse. I was I amazement as I could see her bra. She actually used her hand to push her blouse up to cover. I felt like a total idiot. lol
No im not closing my eyes you seen 1 boob you seen them all
And its the last thing I want to do is close my eyes and walk in to a light pole
You can't ignore. We aren't wired for that. Instead we try to commit to memory in photo quality.
You can, stop blaming your disgusting habits on nature. Men really can't take accountability can they.
@Imjustagirl1520 Why can't women?
YOU have the bits we like to look at!
YOU KNOW we like to look at them!
So, if YOU DON'T want us to look at them, it's entirely up to you to wear stuff that keeps us from looking at them!
I don't much like people looking at my knob or my ass so, I wear things to keep them from seeing those! Do you expect me to walk around naked and expect everyone else to cover or avert their eyes every time I come near them?
YOU’RE the one looking. we should be able to wear whatever we want without creeps like you ruining it. would u also look at ur daughter when she's wearing those kinds of clothes?
Treat women with respect. Its so sad i have to ask you to do that like this.
@Imjustagirl1520 Then, I should be able to walk around with no pants without creeps like you looking at my naked body and ruining it for me. Would you look at your son if he was walking around with no pants on?
If I HAD a daughter, I'd at least teach her to cover up anything she didn't want people looking at! It's called, "common sense"!!
Women should LEARN respect before expecting EVERYONE ELSE to just GIVE IT!! If you wanna walk around half naked, EXPECT TO GET LOOKED AT!!
What's sad is that you haven't learned about society and you're almost an adult!!
I'd be ASHAMED of my 16 year old daughter if she hadn't learned any of this, yet!!
No cuz thats illegal. I dont want kids anyways. So women need to cover up top to bottom because you men can't keep your eyes to yourselves?
You men should learn not to stare. Its not hard.
Show me a picture of what women should wear then to not get stared at.
why are you men always trying to avoid accountability? JUST STOP LOOKING.
@Imjustagirl1520 In most states, walking around with your tits hanging out is illegal, too!! What are you gonna tell the cops when they arrest you for it? "Just don't look!"
Okay, so, join a convent or become a muslim!!
You women SHOULD learn that MEN ARE GONNA STARE!!! As long as you give them something that they like to stare at!!
Anything that covers your tits, ass and pussy!
Look in the mirror, babe!! YOU'RE the one trying to avoid accountability!!! If YOU don't want them staring at you, DON'T GIVE THEM SOMETHING TO STARE AT!! It's a REALLY SIMPLE concept that even little girls understand!!
The best way to get people to stop looking at you is to STAY THE FUCK HOME!!! You can walk around naked ALL DAY LONG, if you want!!
Thats why nobody is doing it.
YOU’RE the one looking.
Muslims also get catcalled, raped and stared at by men. what more do you want from us?
You men can't take accountability for the life of you. Even if she's wearing something inappropriate doesn't mean you have to stare. its rude and disrespectful. be a normal human being and treat women like you would any other man.
@Imjustagirl1520 It is not a habit cause habit is a learned behavior. Fairly much everything about sex is instinctive.
We don't see a need to apologize for having a good look when you are showing body parts off. Lack of accountability is more on the female side in displaying body parts and somehow expecting men not to peruse.
No you chose to stare.
Yes you need to apologize for being a creep. Do you look at little girls and teenagers too but also blame that on them and your biology when you could’ve just simply, look away?
@Imjustagirl1520 @Imjustagirl1520 I would like to think you could see the abundant hypocrisy in posting semi naked photos in Insta and wanting & expecting men to like and follow you.
At the same though, you expect to be semi naked in public places and for the same men to not like looking at your semi naked body.
Your, and other women's, level of hypocrisy is truly astounding. If you are in a public place, legally you have no expectation of privacy at all.
@Imjustagirl1520 Yeah, some people ARE doing it!! In Oregon, you can walk on the streets completely naked! Some people do!! In several states, you're allowed to walk around with your tits showing, any place a man can, as long as you're not doing it for commercial gain! Some women do it! If I recall her name correctly, Moira Johnson does it a lot in New York! She DID HAVE a number of videos of her and other women doing it on YT! No idea if they're still there!
YOU'RE THE ONE SHOWING OFF YOUR TITS TO PEOPLE WHO LIKE LOOKING AT THEM!!! THAT'S YOUR FAULT!!! Don't take a stroll around wild lions running loose and then get pissed at THEM for eating you!!!
Okay, so, GO AFTER THOSE MEN, ASSHOLE!!! What do YOU want from the REST OF US that DON'T do that shit? What are you gonna claim next, that one guy picked his nose and wiped it on your kitchen table so ALL guys are like that?
Where's YOUR accountability? ANY WOMAN WITH A WORKING BRAIN KNOWS that if you DON'T want guys looking at your naked tits, DON'T PRESENT THEM!!! DUUUUUHHHH!!! Why is it MY fault that YOU REFUSE to keep your tits covered?
How about if every guy walks around with a big blanket and, every time one sees you with your tits on display, he throws his blanket over you so he can't look at your tits?
These days, there's cameras EVERYWHERE!!! What if you're walking down the street with your tits out and every camera is focused on your tits but, you don't know it?
@RavVid when have i ever done that? those people r most likely pornstars trying to get fans by the way. We’re not showing any more skin than you men are. Why can't you men just stop being creeps and not stare when we wear clothes for warm weather? id like for u both to show what a girl should wear on a hot day please. hurry up.
@Imjustagirl1520 40C (104F) to 45C (113F) or even 50C (122F) is pleasant enough in the shade.
If you are out in the sun the solar radiation can be 8.3 KWH/m2. That is equivalent to 8 single bar radiators pointing at you. It is the solar radiation that will kill you.
You are best off with clothes that block that solar radiation but are loose fitting with an open weave to allow evaporative cooling. I like linen shirt/pants myself. Sundresses probably work well for women.
Minimizing clothing is actually maximizing your exposure to that 8 KWH/m2 radiator in the sky.
I am confused on your response because now you are saying only pornstars expose a lot of skin whereas you also seem to be complaining you can't expose as much skin as you would like to. So yeah confused on that.
Oh but sundresses can show our tits and ass so thats not an option.
You men are so extreme. Its either 1 or 100, no inbetween.
you can't hide a big ass if u have on no matter what u wear, same thing with tits
@Imjustagirl1520 Have you ever heard of a bikini? How hot can you possibly be in a bikini where uncovering your nipples is gonna make you that much cooler?
You wanna blame someone, blame religion! It's BECAUSE of religion that people even SEE tits as a sexual thing!! The ONLY way they ARE sexual is because a few million years ago, a woman's ass was level with a man's eyes because we were all walking on all 4's!! Her ass was a sexual attraction to him! Then, we learned to walk uptight and her ass was no longer at eye level so, nature started giving you tits, which look like ass, to attract men, again!!
Look up Moira Johnston!! Or, look up videos of Desnudas.
@Imjustagirl1520 A skirt will hide a big ass!! Maybe you should try not eating as much for a while to make your ass smaller?
No its literally because of men and you know it. Stop trying to avoid accountability. You do know women are also wired to like for example, strong men, but we dont assult them or harass them near enough how much men do it.
The sillouette is still there tho? When did i say mine is big?
Can you show me an example of a woman highlighting her bodypart please.
@Imjustagirl1520 No, it's literally because of women and YOU know it!!! Stop avoiding accountability! If you dress enticingly, DON'T be surprised if it garners you attention!! It's one of the FIRST things a parent teaches their daughter, especially before puberty!!
I've had a few women literally throw themselves at me!! It usually happens when I've already got a girlfriend and am NOT looking for another!!
LOOKING is NOT assaulting!!!
Right here! "you can't hide a big ass if u have on no matter what u wear, same thing with tits"
As for hiding tits, my ex-fiance had a set of C cups but, unless she was naked, you'd never know she HAD tits!! If she can find a way to hide them, so can you!!
@FunkyMonkee oh yes its my fault grown men are honking, assulting and raping me! All because i wore a pair of shorts and a t shirt!
Yeah no woman has ever thrown herself at you, let alone a girl going through puberty.
When did i say looking is assulting? i said staring and being creepy is you retarded toad.
C cups aren't even big. Ik women with F cups so stfu and go back to ur incel closet retarded idiot.
@Imjustagirl1520 Nice that you finally admit it!
How would you know? Were you there?
Try reading your own words so I don't have to keep hunting them down to PROVE TO YOU that you said them!!
Yeah, they are! B cups are small! I know women with DDD's so, YOU shut the fuck up!! I know of one with H cups!!
You're in love with me, aren't you? I know how girls LOVE to argue with the guys they're secretly in love with!!
@FunkyMonkee how is it womens fault for getting raped and assulted, id love an explanation for that.
Because nobody likes you. No woman will ever like a man like you.
Is this a surprise to you? Smaller boobs r easier to hide and bigger arent😱😱
Why would a 16 yr old be in love with an 50 yr old incel? Is that the only way you can get love by manipulating yourself by saying everyone loves me but nobody actually does. You’re actually fucking disgusting.
Are you married? Do you have kids? Where is your mother and father? Do you even have them?
@Imjustagirl1520 If you dress slutty, you're ASKING for it!!
I can think of AT LEAST 20 women that have been interested in me and at least 8 have been, or wanted to be, my girlfriend! I'm already promised to marry someone! You probably don't even have your first boyfriend!!
That's why I said if she could hide her big tits, you should be able to, too!! You probably aren't even a B cup, yet.
I don't know! Little girls do strange things!! So far, I've already had a 7 year old fall in love with me when I was 19, a 3 year old fall in love with me when I was 25 and a 12 year old fall in love with me when I was 44. I don't have a clue why you people keep doing that when I'm doing NOTHING to instigate it!!
I just figure, you won't leave me the fuck alone so, there MUST be SOME reason you
keep sticking around!!
If I'm so disgusting, LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE!!! I've ALREADY GOT a fiance!!! And, I can't think of ANY guy that'd be so hard up as to wanna be with YOU!!!
Please dont even have a daughter🤦♀️
@Imjustagirl1520 You are asked how woman show off body parts. I don't think you can be that naive but...
Short skirts to expose legs and someimes ass
Cleavage tops to expose tits
Shorts/pants that emphasise ass and have the cheeks talking to as they go by.
Crop tops to expose waist.
As one women said to "most women show everything off most of the time".
My thoughts are that if you're wearing something loose and low cut, you'check yourself in the mirror by bending forwawd to see what the show IS before leaving home. Those who don't may be clueless, or maybe they WANT to be ogled!
Honestly, it's not exactly some earth shattering moment. I don't close my eyes or look away. I tend to ignore it. The girl just needed to bend over. Big deal. I wouldn't want to make her feel uncomfortable for that simple act.
u Yes, very astute. I close my eyes and think of England.
@anastasia4real Women's breasts don't lure me or impress me.
I look away and bite my lip in such a way that signals regret for my transgression... Unless I'm trying to bang. Then I'll shoot her the eye contact and see if she smiles
When I was in high school I was at then beach with a girl and when she bent over in front of me I could not only see the top of her breasts but the nipples as well. I just sort of kept looking..
I'm not going to close my eyes. I'm not gay.
I don't ignore it, but I won't stare- - - - - -
I expect my pupils dilate, but that's involuntary. I'm going to keep looking at whatever's interesting, even if it's a spider in her hair or something. I wouldn't stare.
No... she's going to look up and see me rubbing my hard manhood while I stare at her and she will know what's up.
I would try to look away because I wouldn't feel good about seeing anything she didn't realise I would see
No straight guy is going to close his eyes when he sees that. The best you can hope for is that he’s a gentleman and doesn’t stare.
They all stare, even gentlemen
LOL How do I accidently see this? And if I do, why would I look away? I've seen boobs before. No big deal.
I'm looking 100% She knows that she is hanging out, she is the one who chose the shirt
You’re disgusting.
I would not close my eyes and it is impossible to ignore.
Is she doing it on purpose?
Yes, I was raised to avert your eyes. But women largely are NOT what I was raised for them to be. And a lot of the time women are doing this deliberately.
No, but out of respect I will look away not to make her feel ashamed.
They totally enjoy the view!
Wow, how nice.
@Imjustagirl1520 Fact is they do!
They shouldn't
I don’t ignore it if I see it. I just tell them that it happened
So if she does this it's usually because she wants you to look but generally no
No to be honest I open my eyes wide.
Why are men disgusting?
i be classy about this matter.
I would look but not stare.
I'd look. It's just skin.
and it makes her uncomfortable
@Imjustagirl1520 Then, I suppose she should cover up better.
or maybe dont stare? tf?
@Imjustagirl1520 Right! The entire world is supposed to avoid looking just because she wants to walk around half naked!!
You men just really can't women have anything can you. We should be able to wear what we want without you staring and being weird. Its seriously not that hard to keep your eyes to yourself.
@Imjustagirl1520 What else do you want? You can wear anything you want,, men have to cater to your EVERY whim, you've got half the money and ALL the pussy!! What's left?
Darlin' you can wear WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU WANT!! GO NAKED, if you want to!! I completely support that BUT, YOU HAVE to expect to get people to look at you when you do it and, in most cases, it'll be people with a dick between their legs!! If I had a daughter and she wanted to walk around naked in public, I'd SUPPORT HER RIGHT TO DO SO!!! BUT, I'D MAKE DAMNED SURE SHE KNOWS that she's GONNA get looked at and POSSIBLY even molested and raped so, she better DAMN WELL be ready to deal with that!!
YOU NEED to learn that you CAN'T ALWAYS do WHATEVER you want and expect NO consequences from it!!! Didn't your parents ever teach you that?
It's also seriously not hard to keep your tits covered if you don't want people looking at them!!
Maybe I DON'T WANNA see your tits and THERE THEY ARE, in my face!!!
My gosh, this has to be trolling, right?
You men really want to avoid accountability at all costs huh.
@Imjustagirl1520 Darlin' you lost a LONG time ago!! Give it up!!
Dont call me that. and no i didn't, you’re probably the same man to complain about people wearing shit like that because you’re a pedophilic pervert and blame it on your biology
@Imjustagirl1520 Yes, you did!! Especially since all you've got left is calling me names and accusing me of shit I never did!!
You literally did tho.
They're just tits. Nobody cares.
Ill look then look elsewhere
hell no. I love to see a good boob
I don't stand there with my mouth open.
i would hope so
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