My Girlfriend Told Me She Likes Another Guy?!?!?!

[chrisg7]

For the past week, I had been noticing a change in my girlfriends behavior. She seems less interested in me, and talking to me. She has admitted to me that she is a very flirty person, and although I can't stand it, I often let the fact that she flirts with other guys go. The other day she told me that she liked another guy. She said that this did not change how she felt about me, it was just a crush and she would get over him soon. She blamed this on the fact that we don't see each other much (because her parents don't even allow her to date) She thought I was going to break up with her but I didnt. This made me unbelievably sad but I knew I couldn't break up with her for her or my sake. After it happened, I asked her best friend if anything else happened. I found out that this guy she likes is two years older than her. I also found out that she was going to go to his house and have sex with him. However, as much as I hint at it my girlfriend still won't admit this to me. I really don't want to break up with her, I just want to fix things, someone please give me some decent advice, I really am in need.

[chettah-two]

mate you can't fix it, its OVER.

Cry or do whatever you want, but you will get over it. Why don't you try find another girl for the mean time before you break off.

Either you official break it off and go your own way or if you are really strong enough don't give a shit just bang her (use protection) until she dumps you, and you will be surprise on how quick you get over it.

Whilst in the middle of this, look for a new girlfriend or start hooking up with other people.

But the relationship is OVER, may hurt but start to think logically on what to do next, do not fool yourself otherwise...

[AOgixxer750]

Dude, let her go. what makes her so great to hold on to? I'll tell you what makes her not so great. the fact that she told you she likes another dude. if she's gonna be with you, she's gotta be with you. if not then no sense in getting hurt and worked up over this. sorry to say it mang but if it were me I'd break up with her and move on. and when I did see her I wouldn't show any emotion to how she did hurt me.

if she comes around and asks for a second chance, tell her that he parents need to know about you guys. if she can't be honest with her rents then what makes you think she'll be honest with you?

[JJJJJ]

Hi, sorry to hear this is happening. I think you should stop pushing her to admit it. Think about it, what if she really wasn't going to do that? You accusing her just makes things worse. If you really know she was going to and is lying, maybe you should tell her you need to be apart until she can honestly come clean about everything or it's gonna get no where. If she can't then you don't need someone like that anyway. No one deserves this in a relationship.

[lizzygirl]

Really, the fact that she would even allow herself to get close enough to another guy to develop a crush on him should be more than enough to let you know that she probably isn't into you anymore. After that it shouldn't really matter what else she has done. I mean, you said it yourself that she seems less interested in you. Just end it, move on, and find another girl who actually is interested and maybe won't flaunt herself to every other guy she meets.

[Jamerz]

Well she should be honest and faithful to you! If she isn't I have to say get out why you can. If anything sit her down and talk to her about what you heard and let her know you want to hear her side and you want to truth. If that doesn't work then honestly its not far for you to be sad or upset! good luck hope I helped

[JeVousAime]

She's having sex with this guy?

Tell her to get tae!

She doesn't just "have a crush".. she's cheating on you!

Leave. Leave. Leave.

[elle1]

Exactly. just leave, your only youge, you'll find some-one else. besides, she's never going to change so don't go there

[funkyboy83]

To be honest...she sounds like someone you won't want to be with in the future or marry! I had a girl the same and they don't change. Either tell her straight to sort herself out, break up and move on to a better girl. If its not this guy they'll be another one at somepoint and if she acting like this now she doesn't love you...a girl that loves 100% never tells you she likes another guy.

[dave216]

I will give you some, but you won't like it or follow it. You are under 18, do not date a girl more than 2 or 3 times before you move on. You need to explore your options before you tie yourself to one choice.

Think of girls like a shoe store analogy. You don't look at every pair in the store before you make a decision, but you do check out quite a few. You don't commit to the first pair you lay eyes on.

[Cremiux]

yea, I agree with everyone. why fight for someone that isn't willing to fight for you? a relationship needs to have both sides pulling in the same effort towards the relationship. if she can't keep up with that then, she isn't right for you man. sorry bro' , you might feel bad now but when you find the right girl who will fight for you just like you will fight for her, you'll be a much more happier person.

[Anonymous]

I hate to break this new to you, but it's probably over between you and her. The only question is when it's over.

Your girlfriend is lying to you. Lying lying lying.

You probably can't fix this.

It's over.

Back away.

Sorry.

[ziggle]

break up with her!