My girlfriend was holding hands with another guy at a party?

[Anonymous]

Okay so we were both a bit drunk, but more so her. She ended up vomiting and passing out at the end of the night.

So anyway, I was helping one of my friends out after he'd passed out. As I was helping him, I randomly looked up to see her and this guy holding hands. I didn't say or do anything because I was helping the guy out. But I looked up multiple times to see them still holding hands.

Anyway, next morning I told her about it. She rejected it at first, than said she had, and was really, really sorry, and that it meant nothing. I was still pissed off than, so I didn't say much and I just didn't speak to her for the rest of the day.

But later on that day we started speaking again. I'd cooled down a little, but randomly she says get over it. I say what's wrong with you, and she says to leave her alone before she says something she'll regret. I said fine and haven't spoken since.

That was two hours ago, but only about an hour ago did I notice that she had changed her Facebook profile picture to her and of the guy she was holding hands with.

I'm not exactly sure what she's going to do or what she's thinking. But I would really like advice on this. We've been going out 3 months, and it's my first real relationship. I want it to work, but I'm confused now. Any help would be appreciated. :)

[Touchofpink]

Well. I Hate to tell you this...but I guess she's trying indirectly to tell you she's about to break up with you

however, you might wanna consider the fact that when your friend passed-out she was like frightened and this guy took advantage of the situation and held her hand (so go through the scene again to see if this is the case)...if not then again she might be hinting out she's about to break up with you and from the tone like Get Over it maybe she's trying to push you away.

anyways, give it some time like a week or so don't text or call give both of you sometime to think it over and then you can see her and tell her you two gotta talk...then you can ask her what's really on her mind

and you have to remember you can't make it work on your own, if she doesn't want it to work...look for another girl. someone who would appreciate you =)

Hope I was helpful

[Asker]

You were. I'm just trying to rethink the party over. I'm just gonna wait to see if anything happens. And than I'll probably sort this out on Tuesday when I see her.

[999freakshow]

I would say she's either playing really nasty games with you trying to make you jealous or she's considering the other guy as an option. I would find out exactly what happened if I were you. I think you should ask your girlfriend to tell you exactly what is going on and what she is doing. One thing is for sure, she is not a good girlfriend. If you want a good relationship you should look for a girl who wouldn't this kinda thing, cause this just says that she's one of those tramps who give girls a bad name...

[Camilus]

"she says to leave her alone before she says something she'll regret."

That means she cheated on you.

[ihatework]

hate to break it to you but she's cheating on you.