If a girl is constantly playing with her hair, does it mean anything?

[Anonymous]

so this girl came into my work and sat down and was playing with her the whole time while I was helping another guest, and then my friend helped her and started hitting on her, but when she left she said happy new years to me, did she find me or my coworker attractive?

[Alouette]

Don't read into it at all. Some girls play with their hair because they are bored, nervous, worried about how it looks, or just like the way it feels. I would say that more often than not, there is nothing sexual or flirtacious about it.

[Asker]

she was just really hot so I was wondering if she liked me or my coworker

[livi23]

sometimes when girls play with their hair they're nervous, or trying to get knots out like me :3 but she could be interested.

[KillingMeSoftly]

when girls mess with their hair its a sign of sexual frustration, or in this case sexual attraction. and there's no way to tell who she's attracted to with the information given.

[Asker]

what you mean sexual frustration

[KillingMeSoftly]

sexual frustration is when the body desires sex, but isn't getting it at the moment. its a body language thing. when women are aroused they play with phallic shaped objects unconsciously,and when hair is twirled around the finger it feels as such. we also do things to ourselves unconsciously that we desire for someone else to do to us: we may play with our hair or rub our thighs, any type of sensual touching.

[Asker]

thats exactly what she was doin! but she's only a senior in high school isn't that kind of wierd

[KillingMeSoftly]

after the effects of puberty we all crave sexual interaction at some point in time, plus I know kids younger than 16 who have done worse.

[Asker]

but to be sexually frustrated at 17 sounds really wierd

[KillingMeSoftly]

im with you on that but believe me just 7 months ago I was in class with a 14 year old who was talking about how she couldn't wait to get some...uh...male genitalia.

[Asker]

no f***in way that is insane

[KillingMeSoftly]

im so serious, and the freshmen were always the ones caught performing sexual act in bathrooms or on stairwells, etc. it starts young these days.

[skyeisblue]

Sometimes it means she likes you, but it could mean that she's trying to be flirty and sweet.

[Asker]

if she's trying to be flirty and sweet doesn't that mean she likes you?

[Anonymous]

She may like a person, or she could just have a habit of doing it.

[Asker]

but who does it for like 5 minutes straight

[Opinion Owner]

I do!

[Asker]

ur nuts