He is an ass from what I'm reading. Confidence has to be built up, and he isn't the right person for it from the sounds of it. I had to build my own up, and yes I'm fat, and I'm not a 10, but I can show anything to anyone if I so choose. He also sounds like he's putting you down, so you'll stay with him. But these are only guesses. I don't know him, nor you, and so I can't really say too much without just guessing.
But I do know, there are guys out there whom put their GF's down because they make them think so little about themselves, and they start thinking they can't ever find anyone else. So that makes them stay in that relationship.
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While this is not something I would do, this is a control method some guys use. It lowers your self-esteem because, let's face it you women get offended WAY to easily and you accept other people's criticisms of you. The guy mainly does this because you will now do 2 things: try to please/appease him, and you feel like you need him (and won't cheat).
This is the type of relationship that high school geeks try to save the hot girl from getting into when she puts him in the friend zone ...and then years later the geek types 100 questions on GAG asking why women only like jerks.
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he's probably a little insensitive and his brain-to-mouth filter doesn't work too well. what kinda flaws is he pointing out though? if a guy were doing that I'd assume it would be towards things he feels like are 'fixable' like wanting you to lose some weight or whatever.
He's insecure and insensitive, and immature as well. That's simply not anything that a person with manners would do.
IMO, I would not stand for this. You need to tell him how this makes you feel and how hurtful it is, and then, if he continues to do it, you'll know that your feelings aren't really important to him, and you can cut him loose.No offense to you or anything but...why are you with him?
He is trying to lower your confidence so that you will have sex with him sorry
He's testing you. To see if you get upset or can take it with a sense of humor and dish it back out.
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