why would you want to be her friend anyway? She obviously doesn't want you to bother her that is why she is being unfriendly to you. She has problems, so you should take it like that and just forget her and stop trying to make the situation more complicated than it is.
Some guys just can't accept "i am not interested" as an answer
I hate when guys don't take the hint, its like they want you to yell at them, drill it in to there head, make a scene, and embarrass them before they finally understand and then you would only call her a "Mean Stupid Bitch!" when she does decide to do that.
The reason why she is not yelling at you and trying to embarrass you is because she believes that it really is not that serious of a situation and you should have understood that she just does not want to be bothered, also she probably is not a "Mean Stupid Bitch"
to summarize, if a girl wants to be approached, then she will make herself approachable and you would not even have to analyze because it is that obvious. If she does not want to be approached then she will make herself unapproachable and is trying her best to not be noticed because she has problems or just other things on her mind, so leave her alone, and don't think about her because that is what she wants.
Wow, it can mean many things. Either she isn't interested in you or she's shy and doesn't know how to react. Its funny because your story is similar to mine. Like we only talked twice and well that's it. The first time it was only a brief conversation, he was working and I gave him my phone number because I had to renew my plan. The second time was also brief because I had to go see if a store was closed and we were smiling and everything. And when I see him like I want to talk to him but I don't because I'm a bit shy. So whenever I look at him I just put on a blank face and he doesn't smile or anything. See in my situation I want to talk to him. I would like to be friends but I end up getting shy and walk away. I would like to tell you that she might be shy like me but I don't want to be wrong and at the end she does get mad or something. If you really want to be friends with her then try. You might see her and try to get closer to her. I can't because I haven't seen him in a week. He might have left or got a new job, :( lol. but if she doesn't want to, don't let that depress you or anything. She might not be a people person.
I often wonder why a guy (not all ) will not accept a 'missed connection' and continues to press me to like him. Why he makes a big deal out of it or tries to force me to do what he wants, in this vase, talk to him when I am not talking to anyone else either, single me out when there is a whole room full of other people,or insinuate that he's not flirting by mentioning a girlfriend.
Why can't he just think to himself " great. a nice person in the world. I'll look forward to
seeing/hearing from them." and let things happen naturally? If they don;t happen then we obviously aren't suited for each other.
I rarely see males force themselves on each other.
They either ask each other about something that has been proven they're knowledgeable in or they force themselves on the other guy/s and are deemed a dork and the guys 'cold shoulder' them the way any female would.Sometimes they're even accused of (homo)sexual harassment.
Girls who force themselves on other girls as 'friends' are also accused of homosexuality.
Trying to force intimacy is rarely accepted, no matter who the people are.
Well, you said you stopped talking to her, but she glares at you when you try to talk to her. Therefore, you haven't stopped talking to her. She may have been trying to be nice when you first met. Then, she realized she doesn't like you, and lets you know it with her facial expressions. Don't worry about what you did wrong. Sometimes simply being there can make someone dislike you.
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yes. sometimes I do this. when there is a guy I know likes me and I absolutely want NOTHING to do with him, I sort of give him a mean glare. it makes him think, "OMG this girl is so mad at me or angry or whatever so I'd better leave her alone."
its not that she's angry at you, at least I can speak for myself--i'm generally never THAT mad at anyone. Its just sometimes, guys won't leave a girl alone if she doesn't give them the impression that she's angry or pissed off at them or something. its a way to keep a guy from even approaching to ask. and generally, the guy is thinking, she doesn't know me, so how can she be so sure we wouldn't work. but, she's very sure in ways you may not be aware of.
just leave her alone; that's what she wants.
To be honest I think it's that she's just not that into you. Or maybe someone is talking bad about you behind your back to her. Eitherway if she doesn't want you she's not worth it. It could also be that she is as nervous as you are but I highly doubt it.
Girls kinda hate stalkers, especially if they are not interested with their them. Try to ignore her, find a girl that is more than (gorgeous) her, and if she starts to make you notice her, then let her do the move. Don't over show that you really like the girl because she may take you for granted. Make her realize that you can hook up to any girls you like. Girls love cool guys not obsess.:)) Try to be cool and stalking is not cool.
I was in a similar situation, except it was the guy who did this to me.
I really like him but I knew he was taken. We seemed to get along and I really wanted to be friends with him, at least. He went from being friendly to crossing his arms when I was around and keeping his back to me. He wouldn't even say hello.
I got the message, so I don't even try to acknowledge him at all.
sounds like she's not over whatever you did to creep her out and is not comfortable talking to u
Just move on, sounds way to complicated.
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