Do you girls really like musicians?

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Do you girls really like musicians? Why or why not?  I ask because I need a place to stay. ;) lol just kidding

tomfeltonforever · Accepted Answer

Ever since I was younger, I was attracted to musicians, and I don't know why. My current boyfriend who I really like was in a pretty big band in the local scene before he left to focus more on university/to branch out elsewhere. I then realized that 5/7 guys I've dated are not only musically inclined but affiliated in some kind of band. Most people would say I purposely go out with them, but I didn't even notice this strange pattern until this year.

I think that being a musician is an admirable quality. As my boyfriend tells me, it takes tons of patience to master the art. I like patience and dedication in a man. A lot of musicians are also very smart (but not all of them, especially the ones that run into drugs). I also love going to concerts. I love when my boyfriend writes/performs songs about me. I sort of like the "look", too... Longer hair, dark jeans, band t-shirts.

As for the confidence... Even though most people would describe my boyfriend and many of his musician friends as pompous, many of them are down to earth, genuine, and are able to express their emotions clearly. They also respect women. My boyfriend was actually labeled a "passive aggressive narcissist", and even though he can be a little bit narcissistic sometimes, it does not bother me. I think a little bit of confidence and trying to improve oneself can go a long way.

CarrieDawn · Accepted Answer

I love musicians, of course! I'm a musician myself and I love when I can play songs and sing with my boyfriend, it's so much fun and it's really cute(:

It's also just hot when a guy does something he really has a passion and talent for...like it's awesome seeing true soccer players/fans playing what they do best, same with other sports, and talents like music.

That being said, I'm not sure how comfortable I would be if my boyfriend was a traveling musician always on tour. That's something iffy.

But just being able to play the guitar/piano/etc and sing, that alone is pretty hot.

craZy_4_musiC_o0 · Accepted Answer

yeah, kinda :) I like musicians because I LOVE music. I live and breathe it. so to speak of course. and I'm also a romantic person so the idea alone of having a guy write you a song or melody and play it for you on his guitar or piano is just heartbrake-beautiful. but I like the ADHD-like activity of a drummer, too :D or guys who play softer, subtler instruments are kind of sweet, too. base players remind me of guitarists, so they're hot, too. so YEAH, I DO :D

ElijahCynicism · Accepted Answer

Girls don't like musicians, they like guys who play an instrument. If it's your primary occupation you become a bum with no ambition and a mooch; if you play guitar on the side of your managerial position you're creative and rock 'n' roll. When you discuss your music, describing it as a 'sideline passion' will probably get you the most lay.

However, girls in the MUSIC scene universally like musicians, and vice versa. Musical people go crazy for each other. Some of the best girls exist in the music scene, too. If you aren't much into music, it'll get you laid because it's an on-the-side thing that has good media image as an on-the-side thing, if it's your whole life it'll get you laid because you'll be in a profession where you meet a lot of girls who are very promiscuous and have a generally different outlook on sex and relationships to the rest of society, but the rest of the world will think you're a big waste of space.

I have it good 'cos I'm an up-and-coming musician and an aspiring cook. I'm totally into the music scene, thus meet all the crazy, promiscuous and bisexual music people, but also will have a steady job thus attracting all the rest of them. [snicker]

Anonymous · Answer

Being a musician has no effect one way or the other on me. Plus I don't like the look of most "rock stars" or whatever. But then again I'm picky and I don't like guys who are conventionally attractive, so idk.

That's not to say that musicians don't have attractive traits. They're talented, which is a turn on, and they're passionate, which is a turn on as well, plus they tend towards confidence which is sexy. But those traits are obviously not exclusive to musical talent. I could be attracted to a guy who loved to and was really good at working on cars or playing video games too. Its just about the talent and the passion.

I don't know, maybe I'm weird.

ambertaylor · Answer

Yeah, I like musician's because it's a talent I do not have and I like my guy to have a creative side. All my past boyfriends have all been in bands or played an instrument, it's just something I personally go for. I find that kind of career, ambition and drive attractive in a partner.

jenniferjean · Answer

for the most part I do.. its not the musician its the fact they can play something or sing

1. there usually confident what is sexy

2. there's something about the whole look they have

3. talent is hot

4. music is life and is amazing

5. they can usually tell you how they feel even if it is through only music especially singers

all guys who are confident, have a talent or dream are just down right 50%-70% attractive

ShesSoSilly · Answer

I personally do because I love to play and listen to music myself. But I would not be attracted to the guy that doesn't have anything going in his life and yet still has this false hope of making it. If its going somewhere I can be supportive but he needs to have realistic expectations and goals.

Anonymous · Answer

Not really... I just wonder what benefit is it to me... xD (in terms of whether I like musicians over other people with other skills). I guess it really depends on what type of music he plays and likes as to whether I'd see it as attractive or a bonus but I don't think there would be many out there fitting what I like so in general, no.

cutoutofthesun · Answer

For me, there are two reasons I like musicians:

1. I am musical so I feel like it's something we both have in common and can talk endlessly about.

2. People who are passionate about something are interesting.

CrazyCherryBlossom · Answer

I love musicans! Probably because I myself am one ;) Musians a lot of the time are confident and stylish, it adds a whole layer to the relationship, music is amazing and haveing talent is sexy :D

Freetobe007 · Answer

Meh, honestly doesn't make a difference to me at all Lots of musicians are a**holes with overinflated egos.

windy-rose · Answer

Yes. Defiantly a preference of mine. Mostly because I'm a musician, so its both a bonding point and something I love to do anyway.

freewill10 · Answer

no we dont, inflated ego's. And always traveling. so, no!

loveisbeautiful · Answer

I like musicians, probably because I love music! But, I don't necessarily like them because there a musicians, there's usually other reasons too!

ManaX · Answer

Talent is attractive and music means a lot to me, so musicians are well (depending on what they can play) something else.

emzy-89 · Answer

I'm attracted to a man who can play an instrument well, but I think that's because I'm a musician myself.

kaotickitty · Answer

talent is one of the most attractive tings, and most people love music, especially other muscians

starlight124 · Answer

Musicians are awesome because it's nice to see people's talents going to good use

Kiraskrazy180 · Answer

Not really. I like guys who are athletic and intelligent the most.

BloodySilverBullet · Answer

Yes I do!  Because I wanna be in a band. and ha ha nice.  ^

Anonymous · Answer

Yea but I'm a musician too I play flute sing alittle and want to learn guitar&sax&piano

Anonymous · Answer

I can't speak for all but they have the rep of being a cheater so I avoid them

Anonymous · Answer

Most girls like musicians, in fact they LOVE them...

DandelionGirl · Answer

I don't care for musicians honestly...

sugarDIVINE · Answer

occupation isn't that really important to me

stillagoodgirl · Answer

I love them esp if he can sing

lisa_rowe · Answer

Rock stars definitely.

hotstudlovercupcake · Answer

forget the haters ,I like musicians!

LonelyandInTheDark · Answer

Mmmhmmm...

PsychadelicSmokey · Answer

Not really.

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