I love doing this stuff with him - it makes me feel wonderful. But why am I so afraid of initiating it? I had a great childhood but have low self-esteem because I've grown up seeing guys flock to pretty girls, etc. I'm not good enough and don't want to impose myself on a guy - even if he is my boyfriend.
Often, when I'm with him, I really want to just wrap my arms around him just because. But something is stopping me from doing this. What am I afraid of and how can I slowly change?
There is a girl we both know and she initiates hugs/touches him the way he wants me to. He off-handedly admitted that that sort of attention makes him feel good and wonders why I'm not able to do the same.
I know he didn't mean to, but this has shot my self-esteem even further down. He says he understands that it's just "who I am" but that doesn't solve the problem of him being unsatisfied - as much as he says it doesn't matter.
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