All Questions

Why do I get so nervous around him? How can I relax?

So there is a guy I like, we have known each other for a couple months and have gotten along great. The problem is that the moment I started developing feelings for him, I kinda changed how I act around him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He likes me but is afraid to go out because we work together?

We have been flirting pretty much all summer. Recently we started talking about hanging out and stuff. I know he likes me, he pretty much admitted in a number of ways. Ex: last week he said he thinks this other guy we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it a big deal to guys to hold hands?

I always grew up around women and girl-friends and I always have a habit of holding hands when I walk. It's just habit! I feel most comfortable linking arms, or inter-lacing fingers, or just clasping palms. However, I've...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do women and men, feel like they have to be submissive to the other?

Like, why do women date men that tell them what to do and pretty much bark orders at them like they're there servant? And, same goes for men. Why do men date women who tell them what to do and bark orders at them like...

loveisbeautiful

Editor Age: 39

If a girl texts you/responds to your text while she's at a party?

Does that mean she likes you? Or is she just extremely social? To be clear the guy that got texted/responded to wasn't at the party and the girl said she was having fun. Now what if the girl was bored at the party? And...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Guys, if you did this with one of your ex girlfriends, what would your intentions be?

Me and my ex split up because he couldn't handle how jealous I was, after we split up I took the break-up really badly. I was beyond upset, couldn't sleep or eat. He was my first boyfriend so I had no previous experience...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is low self-esteem that big a turn-off?

Okay, so I'm fully aware that self-esteem is important and most guys want a confident girl for a girlfriend. But a recent bad experience with a guy has made me wonder: If a guy is physically attracted to a girl and has a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do people think quiet people are dumb?

why do some people think shy,quiet girls/guys are dumb just because they don't talk as much.

TruleyBlessed

Xper 3 Age: 36

When a girl calls you a "meanie"....

is this a way of flirting or is she really trying to say you're a mean person?

Anonymous

(36-45)

He jokingly says "I hate you" ?

I was texting this kid and I said something funny and he responded "Hahaha I hate u" What does that mean?

Anonymous

(30-35)

He keeps suggesting then cancelling dates!

I met a guy 3 Saturdays ago at a local bar, he was out with his parents and I was out with my mum, as soon as he seen me at the bar, he asked for my number and asked to take me out the following Tuesday, he even took my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you think about plaid skirts?

Do guys like plaid skirts? Like in the movie Clueless, omg I love her outfits! Here you can see her outfits: h ttp://news.stylecaster.com/relive-cher-horowitzs-41-outfits-in-all-their-glory/ I would totally wear those...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I haven't seen my boyfriend in 2 months. I'm so confused as to what is going on?

I haven't seen my boyfriend in 2 months or so and him and I have had our fights just like every other relationship but him and I were all good telling each other how much we love each other and talking about our future...

xxshadowxx26

Xper 5 Age: 34

Family & Friends

If a guy tells his friends you're a cool chick?

Is this a good thing or does it mean the girl has been friend zoned?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does an older man at work act protective over a young woman?

My boss always watches when I talk to other men. I can be having a normal conversation and I can just see him watching. He sometimes even comes and interrupts to make sure I'm OK. I am friendly with everyone and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does he have to show off his new girlfriend to everyone?

Noticed lately how much my ex shows off his new girlfriend and it's p***ing me off. I know it shouldn't be but for the several months we were together he wanted to take things slow. He has only been with about six weeks...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Has anyone ever walked in on you changing?

A few days ago, my brother's friend walked in on me changing and it was like the most awkward thing of my life lol. He just kept staring at me and was like "Oh, wow sorry. I was just wondering if you wanted this painting...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I do if my ex girlfriend says she needs time?

She told me that I shouldn't keep asking about us because its stressing her out. she ask a favor just to give her time and stop worrying and paranoid at times I just wait. should I be positive about this? till when should...

carlroy

Xper 4 Age: 41

Girl wants to introduce me to her parents??

So I met this girl because my mom is good friends with her mom and they eventually got us to meet... she is very conservative and humble but still likes to have fun and go out drinking etc. I've told her through texts...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why do guys think girls like jerks?

see questions all the time. why do girls only like jerks? or is it true girls don't like nice guys? its so stupid. yes I do see attractive girls with the big hot shot guys. those are the insecure girls that seek approval...

assley

Yoda Age: 35

Other

Do you think race mixing harmful to society?

Do you believe that race mixing or interracial marriages/relationships resulting in biracial/multiracial children is harmful to society in the long run? Or are certain mixed race combinations beneficial while others are...

peace-love-couture

Yoda Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

If guy hides his Facebook page from you watch out?

would you say so. i dated a guy, we were not exclusive or "in a relationship", we just went out together on dates and talked all the time, and fooled around like teenagers (aka making out but not having sex or going home...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Who gets approached more- the average looking girl or the attractive girl?

i've heard that most guys usually approach the average looking girl because she looks safer and more "Familiar". I'd say the theory makes a lot of sense. Coming from an average-ish looking girl myself, it seems like I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl, do you get turn off, if he text too much?

I'm wandering cause you never know if your crush is getting turn off by the constant texting. I don't text much but you know, when I'm texting with someone that is interested in me & I'm interested in her, I kind of...

g_stuart

Xper 6 Age: 37

Tracksuits or sweatpants?

which do you perfer for sports/ just looking nice with on..and why?

PrinceOfDrarkness

Xper 6 Age: 32

Do glasses on a guy, really turn women off

I just read an answer on here where a girl told a guy that he should "get contacts". I wear glasses myself, and they look exactly the same as his, but I've gotten ladies in the past. Do I really need to get contacts, or...

uhaveatextmessage

Xper 3 Age: 37

Am I an overbearing girlfriend?

the one thing I've been terrified of since my boyfriend and I started dating is me being the overbearing girlfriend. The kind that makes he and his friends say "omg she keeps you on a tight leash" or "My God your...

Lalalamie13

Xper 5 Age: 33

Should single people actively seek out a relationship, a significant other?

especially if they wish they had someone? Put in other words, do you think that people who wish to have someone, should go out of their way and actively look for someone by creating for themselves as many opportunities...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfrined swears a lot, it really bothers me?help

My girlfriend is really lovely she has this angel face and is really sweet. That's why I was really shocked when she stated swearing, she swears a lot actually, she has such a dirty mouth she uses swears so naturally she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would a married/single woman invite a man to a hotel room just to talk?

My wife toldl me she was going to job interview and instead went and checked in a hotel room and invited another man. I found them in the room and she said she just needed someone to talk to. I know a guy is going for...

EJVJR

Xper 3 Age: 56

Can a very pretty girl get whatever she want from guys? It seems like it can

So a friend of my best friend is completely gorgeous green eyes black hair, and a hot body, the kind of looks that makes everyone stares. So the thing that she showed me that guys do everything for pretty girls she uses...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do models only marry men who are celebrities?

Why do models only marry men who are celebrities? Most, if not all, models are married to guys who are either rich or famous or both. Why is this? A lot of male celebrites are married to women who aren't rich or famous or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What makes a woman intimidating to men?

I have been told many times by men that I am intimidating. I consider myself to be shy, but friendly, and cool with all types of people, so I don't get it. I was out dancing with friends recently when a guy came up to...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why do Atheists and people of no faith get Religious Tattoo's or wear Religious objects?

To me it seems pretty dumb, especially when they get really specific tattoos and objects. I've seen atheists who'd have a tattoo of the lords prayer, I asked them if they knew what it meant and they had no idea and they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why do most guys like gamer girls so much?

From my experience I can say that... A guy who likes to play games, goes almost crazy when he finds a girl that plays games herself. They're like: "Really?! You have a Steam account, and play ____?! Marry me!" I'm a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Stability and Loyalty vs Fun and Excitement in a relationship?

Ladies, which do you prefer? Stability and Loyalty or Fun and Excitement in a relationship?

MakeLoveNotWar

Yoda Age: 33