All Questions

How do I get my girlfriend to wear high heels?

I think high heels look hot, but my girlfriend says that she doesn't feel comfortable with anything over 3" (balance, foot comfort). How can I encourage her to wear something higher, like up to 3.5"?

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy avoids your question?

I've been seeing this guy but reciently we had a small fallout where he told me he doesn't want a relationship right now and doesn't want to give up his freedom. (However I never even asked about one) After 2 days of not...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

Do you think hair can be too long?

I know many girls use extensions, but I'm talking about natural hair grown from your own head. What do you think when you see a woman with really long hair? I mean like around these lengths. link...

ShesSoSilly

Guru Age: 34

"A name without fame is like fire without flame"

Would you like to rise to fame, even if the attentions are from notoriety of any sort? Or would you rather die without putting your name in the books? Just like living a life without the world knowing you exist?

Racez

Master Age: 33

Relationships

Is cuddling really a sign of love?

So I just read an article saying that when guys cuddle it's a sign of love. Is this true? Do you guys only cuddle with girls that you love/truly care about? Or would you cuddle with a friend with benefits/sex buddy? Or...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Blondes get a lot of hate, but can't we agree that some women don't look good with dark hair?

I am blonde and though I do lighten my hair, my natural hair is light and would not look good dark. I am pale with light eyes. My eyebrows and lashes are pretty light (dirty blonde). I used to want darker hair as a teen...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you prefer girls with wider or close-set eyes?

Are you not fussed? Or do you have a personal preference?

laramills23

Xper 6 Age: 32

How to have the DTR talk.

What is a good way to have the DTR (define the relationship) talk? I am looking for a somewhat smooth way to find out exactly how the guy I've been kind of seeing feels about me and what we have. Thanks a lot for the help.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Ideas on Asking out My Bank Teller (haha)

So there is a really cute bank teller at my local Chase bank. I only see her on Tuesday's and we haven't really spoken much but every time I go in, she's always watching me. I went in this past Tuesday and I was at...

animalwithin

Yoda Age: 36

Dating

Why do girls sometimes ignore text messages/snapchats?

I really like my girl best friend, and we've been snapchatting everyday since she got her first smartphone (I am now her #1 bestfriend). But it pisses me off because she sometimes ignores my texts (it's fine, I'm still...

NekoYosh

Xper 5 Age: 29

Relationships

My boyfriend said I was narrow-minded and that is a turn off...and that he doesn't want his girlfriend to be?

We were talking shortly after midnight on New Years eve...I can't even remember what it was...he harshly said that I was narrow-minded and that is a turn off...and that he doesn't want his girlfriend to be narrow minded....

Ildskf

Yoda Age: 38

Flirting

Do you get awkward around your crush and do guys notice when girls have a crush?

i sometimes get so awkward around my crush (I think he has a crush on me too though), do you think he can tell? he just makes me nervous! sometimes I say silly things and I blush a lot and smile a lot and fidget a lot....

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a girl calls you 'B'?

Always in a really friendly way but no idea what its supposed to mean...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

My boyfriend is TOO ambitious...it feels threatening!

I am a very independent girl. Well educated (have 2 graduate degrees), own my own company, and am very confident in myself. The guy I am dating is 9 years younger than me and I think he is too ambitious and I find it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Boyfriends clingy female friend.

I'm just wondering why my boyfriend hangs out with his best female friend and never invites me. I feel like if it is truly innocent then there should be no problem with me coming along. I asked him about this and it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How do men feel and think after being dumped after cheating on a woman they loved?

They say they she was the one and wanted everything with her yet they get caught cheating. She finds out and dumps them. How do they feel after the ordeal and what do they think about it? Do they blame her for dumping him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls: Do you like long hair or short hair on men?

I have long hair and I like long hair on girls so girls do you like long hair or short hair on men?

CKaba93

Xper 6 Age: 33

Shopping & Gifts

Why would my ex text me on new year's eve?

we Haven't really talked for a long time , and he lives in another country , still he remembered me and texted me ''hey how are you and happy new year '' at 12 am. I was so happy that I knew at least he didn't forget what...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend messaged another girl.

Me and my boyfriend have been together 8 months and the majority of our time together has been great, although back in October we had a really rough patch where he failed to turn up on dates, didn't bother answering his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does Evangeline Lilly pretend to be a Christian when she isn't?

She has a child out of wedlock Also she said after Lost she was going to stop acting, and she didn't, because she wants more $ apparently.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is too soon to tell him I miss him?

I’ve been talking to a guy for a couple months on text and phone, but we’ve only hung out a select few times; once when we met and one weekend recently. He’s Army and doesn’t live near me. I went to see him a little over...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Caught boyfriend "sexting" one of his close friends, should I forgive him?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. The first few months were rocky as he still held baggage from his past relationship. He was insecure and deeply depressed. Things got better for the both of us and I could...

Ellaumbarella

Xper 5 Age: 35

I really enjoyed hanging out with you today means?

Hey what's up? Well I know this guy a little be more than 6 months, we use to hang out with others friends at the beginning,then we stop talking and seeing each other for about 2 months, ten we star txting and planing to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Do guys care how many Instagram followers a girl has?

He asked for my Instagram and I had like ten pics and only use it to follow my fav celebs so I had like 10 followers is that a turn off? He had a couple more pics a video and 30ish followers if that matters

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a Libra guy says "he didn't forget about me and he is sorry" how should I understand it

Hello, It is this Libra guy who I like so much. He was so sweet to me but he was always busy and didn't call me the way I want him to do . Now, we are appart because I hurt his feelings when I said that I don't want...

pixytoo

Xper 5 Age: 38

I am the top "best friend" on this girl I like's Snapchat, could she like me?

This is a pretty generic question for girls, there is this girl that I've been talking to a lot recently and I suspect she may like me, for various other reasons that what I am going to say on here. We snapchat each...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does height matter, girls?

I'm 5'8" and I'm really conscious about my height. I've been bodybuilding for 2 years and I have a really fit body (with 4% body fat), but it doesn't change the fact I'm insecure about my height.

ghostridersss

Xper 4 Age: 31

I have a really deep voice?

I have a really deep voice and am wondering why many girls find it so attractive. People are always commenting on how deep it is. Is it a turn on?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys and girls, when you see a girl wearing leggings do you think they are sl**s?

If you see a girl wearing leggings with something that isn't a dress or a long shirt do you immediately think she's a sl**t? A lot of girls in my school wear leggings with medium average length shirts like me because...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do people support, or follow a bully?

I've been bullied at my EX JOB. The queen bee didn't like me. I didn't interact with her, but she FOUND reasons to hate me. She would say bad things about me, in my face, and behind my back.Turned my coworkers against me....

Alice19th

Xper 5 Age: 36

Society & Politics

Is it possible that I send someone a Facebook message and they read it without being visible for me?

Is it possible that I send someone a message via Facebook and they read it without being visible for me that it was read? If you read a message from someone, then this someone will see the date and time of when it was...

qwer1234

Xper 7 Age: 35

Guys do you find girls wearing the hijab (muslim head scarf) attractive?

I'm 17 and I wear the hijab (that covers only my hair, not my face) and I get A LOT of attention from guys, especially white guys. I always find them checking me out and eyeing me and all that. but I always thought the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

My doctor asked me if I have a boyfriend?

My chiropractor asked me if I have anyone special in my life, like a guy. He smiles and jokes a lot when he talks to me and asks me questions as if to know more about me, like for example where I'm from (my nationality)...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is it so easy for a guy to separate his feelings apart from sex?

why is it so easy for a guy to separate his feelings apart from having sex? how do they do this? they have no feelings from you but they just want sex from you.

blessedlife29

Xper 3 Age: 36