Remembering Our Friend Kris85 (Page 3)

[SüßeJäger]

OMG. I just texted with her. I was just going to text her again like now. What happened?

[WhiteSteve]

What's up man, was going to let you know too, just didn't know how to come up with the crazy characters in your name to tag you. Fucking horrible news. I guess she just had a random pulmonary embolism. Unbelievable, I'm still trying to wrap my head around it. I'm sure this obviously hits home for you too, sorry bro.

[SüßeJäger]

I'm dumbfounded and just sick. I haven't talked to her for a week and all was good. I thought it must have been something unexpected. It's unreal it's like I just talked to her, how could it just happen? Life's fragile. I'm sorry too, I know she thought a lot about you.

[WhiteSteve]

Yeah man, I just can't believe it. I called a florist in Medicine Hat yesterday to send flowers to her service tomorrow. Brutal slap of reality. I got put in touch with a good friend of hers from BC yesterday and we emailed each other. I guess she went out Friday night with some friends, came home, and then no one heard from her for a couple days, like I hadn't. Naturally people got worried, went to check on her, but her doors were locked, so the cops had to come and bust in, and they found her on her couch. Sounds like she just went to sleep Friday night and never woke up. At least it was peaceful, I guess, but obviously it's not much consolation. I guess I inadvertently answered questions for them, because I told her our last text was her saying she was sick with some respiratory issues, and a doctor had prescribed her a couple medications. Said she was going to rest but would text me over the weekend, etc. I guess no one knew she was under the weather, and those respiratory...

[WhiteSteve]

... issues may have been symptoms of the embolism, so it sounds like she may have been misdiagnosed, and if so, it's that much more tragic. Unreal man. Unreal.

[SüßeJäger]

Yeah, it's so sad. I've just had a knot in my stomach. I hadn't talked to her for over a year and I messaged her about 6 weeks ago and we were talking since. I'm so glad I did. I needed to apologize for some things and the day I messaged her, I just felt a strong urge to do it. Like something was pushing me. We were all good after that and she forgave and forgot. She's in a better place now and understands why it had to be this way. I wish I could have had the chance to hang out more. We met in Montana and I took her out shooting and she had a blast. We shot practically ever round I brought, probably over $100 in ammo lol. Her favorite was the.45, I was surprised at that. I brought 100 rounds for it and we (she) shot them all plus a ton of 9mm, 22, 38, and the AR15. It was fun and I'm glad we did that. Have to remember the good memories.

[WhiteSteve]

Yeah, man, I'm jealous you actually got to meet her. We always planned to one day, and unfortunately we never got it together in time. That would have been an epic bender, for sure. I heard all about the shooting, I know she loved it, she went buckwild, haha. She also mentioned you had reached out to her recently. I know she appreciated that and any beef you had was water under the bridge. Glad you guys had a chance to reconcile any issues, it's always the worst when you lose someone and there's unresolved shit. Hell of a gal, we're all lucky to have known her. Keep your head up, bro, I'm doing my best to keep mine up. You know she wouldn't want us all bummed out, that's the opposite of what she was about.

[SüßeJäger]

I agree. She would say don't be sad, go party lol. Yeah she was great. She never did any wrong by me I wish I could say the same. I'm glad she was good enough to be forgiving, she's a better person than me for sure. Glad to know her and ill be glad when I see her again.

[Shmusername]

Excellently written, WhiteSteve. Thanks for doing this. I didn't have a very good sleep last night, but it's heartwarming to see the responses.

[Shmusername]

I'll never be able to hear, "chillin' like a villain," without thinking of her

[WhiteSteve]

Thanks, bro. It was the least I could do for her, she deserved some kind of tribute. Definitely good to see such an outpouring of love and support for her. I think she'd be surprised this many people liked her on here, haha. But if she hadn't been snarky, she wouldn't have been Dara.

[Applefan1]

Oh gosh! This is so sad. So young. Rest in peace Kris85. :( 😢😭

[WhiteSteve]

Yeah it's just crazy. Thanks bro👊

[Applefan1]

Your welcome. :)

[gapminder]

Dude wtf! Message me back I also talked to her quite a bit and was wondering what the hell happened.

[WhiteSteve]

Forgot to tag you too, bro, you were one of her favorites on here

[gapminder]

Thanks @WhiteSteve I'm so sorry man. I feel like I just got drop kicked in the stomach that just isn't fair. Do you have any idea what happened?

[gapminder]

I remember last summer we used to talk and text quite a bit at night and on the weekends. And one night I had gotten stoned and she had come home from the bar and was hanging out with her neighbors. So we somehow started talking about how desperate bar people can be and I said it would be so funny to "fuck with some people" and send some random guys on Tinder over to her neighbors house. So in typical Dara fashion, that's exactly what she did. I sat with her on the phone laughing our asses off as she sent me pictures of guy after guy after guy falling for the same shit. That's the exact kind of shit I find hilarious and I remember laughing my ass off with her at how much she enjoyed it. I swear just like @WhiteSteve can probably agree with me on: Dara was like the female friend you knew your whole life that acted just like the guys. The world just got smaller with the loss of her presence.

[WhiteSteve]

Hahahaha, oh man, I needed that laugh. Yup, I remember that night, that's just classic Dara right there. Spot on, she was definitely a "just one of the guys" type of chick. We always planned to meet up somewhere one day and just set the world on fire, and it kills me that we never got the chance. Thanks for the story, I need to be remembering all the awesome times instead of just being bummed.

[BusinessBasketball]

I need had a chance to talk to her besides maybe on questions. I seen her many times on here. I did not agreed with many of her opinions, but no one should die at the age of 36.

[WhiteSteve]

You said it, way too young. Thanks for being respectful despite your differences👊

[TheDevilInside]

Omg I do remember her so well. I sometimes interacted with her in the comments too when a catfish whore shows up. I like how she seemed to be like a genuine Person, and how she seemed to never censor herself, just like me. I never interacted with her in private, but I remember I did like her.

[cinderelli]

this is heartbreaking news.. I didn't know her personally but I had seen her around and she seemed to be a cool free spirit.. also I knew her because she was a friend of Bertii.. I hope her kids are fine and they're in good hands.. losing a mother is the biggest loss ever.. the worst thing that can happen to a kid. I know because I've gone through this.. may her soul rest in peace.. my heartfelt condolences

[WhiteSteve]

Thank you so much for the condolonces❤️ And I'm so sorry to hear you've experienced the loss of a mother as well😢 That's hands down the most wrenching part of all this. If was just her, I'd be a little more celebratory, like she lived hard and just flamed out early. But those kids make this excruciating. Wish I actually knew her family and could help in some way. But the good news is they have a father and other relatives that love them and will look after them👍

[cinderelli]

yeah I hope they'll do a good job raising those little angels.. :)

[Anonymous]

I’m very late to this party.

This is going to be 100% honest and emotional. I met Dara on GaG. We clicked instantly. We talked online all day, every day. Eventually we fell in love, eventually met IRL and had the most amazing weekend I’ve ever had in my life. People talk about when you make love to a person your souls connect. My time with Dara was the first and only time in my life I actually understood what that meant.

I was her biggest fan and cheerleader, and she was mine. Unfortunately, our relationship was fucked up. We made mistakes, and in the end I chose that we couldn’t be together.

We lost touch because we had to. But she is still constantly in my thoughts and I miss her terribly. She will always be my favorite Canadian.

I love you, Dara. We’ll see each other again some day, and we’ll have another of our dates.

[Opinion Owner]

Miss you, baby.

[xHoneyxBeex]

Losing a loved one is always heartbreaking but even more so when it's sudden and unexpected. I'm so sorry for your loss, WhiteSteve. I know you two were very close. I will keep her friends and family in my thoughts and prayers. <3

[WhiteSteve]

Thanks, Honey Bee, this one is real tough on me😭 Need all the thoughts and prayers of every religion and non-religion going up for her and especially her kids, so yours are definitely appreciated! Thank you❤️

[AbandonShip]

I will pray for her soul right now. May her memory be eternal in God's book of life!

[WhiteSteve]

Thanks for the prayers man👊

[Prof_Don]

She was a dope ass chick, may she rest in peace. :-/

[WhiteSteve]

She sure was. Thanks homey👊

[smahala1991]

Wow, I never had much interactions with her, but it sucks to hear what happened.

[smahala1991]

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a27634-pulmonary-embolism-a-common-killer

This will shed some awareness about blood clots to the lung or Pulmonary Embolism and how they can be prevented. So that we can be more aware of our health.

[WhiteSteve]

I'll check it out, thanks a lot, bud👊

[CupcakeKiller]

I haven't been on GaG or facebook much, I had no idea. This is devastating.

[Waffles731]

I have never heard of her before now but it is ALWAYS sad when an innocent person dies. I hope you feel better

[WhiteSteve]

Thanks man, I appreciate it

[Waffles731]

I'm sure she is at peace

[Dred1614]

This is very sad to hear. Hang in there. I'll keep her kids in my prayers. On a lighter note, she even looks Canadian.

[WhiteSteve]

Thanks bro. She'd take that as the highest of compliments, haha🇨🇦

[fauchelevent]

Damn, this is awful. I didn't speak to her much but I remember seeing her answers and her 'take no shit' attitude and being impressed. Thoughts go out to her kids and the rest of her family, and also to you for your loss <3

[WhiteSteve]

That's her alright. Thank you so much❤️

[SuitAndTie]

Oh wow. I never actually spoke to her before but it seems like she's touched a lot of people on here, and probably in her life too. And 36 is so young! My condolences go out to her friends and family. Especially those poor kids of hers. God knows what they must be going through. RIP

[WhiteSteve]

Sorry man, missed your comment in the rush of all these responses. Case in point, she touched a lot of people, like you said. I was able to contact a close friend of hers that she grew up with, and she said "Dara was always the brightest light in the room, people flocked to her." So it was good to hear that she was so well-loved in life👍 She'll be missed dearly though, and I just feel so terrible for her children😢 Thanks for the kind words, bro👊

[Hollywood-Glam]

I've seen her around a lot of times, I'm shocked to know she died :O This is really tragic, may she rest in peace <3 😭

[WhiteSteve]

Thank you❤️

[Ginnyweasley97]

Oh my god I am at a loss for words. I thought she was really cool from the few interactions we had. I am so sorry friend. May she rest in peace. 😭😥

[WhiteSteve]

Thank you❤️

[james_mark]

Rest in power!! i remember i spoke to her once she was really funny and nice person..

[WhiteSteve]

She was. Thanks man👊