Interview

Why I'm not a catfish and about me

Why am I even sharing this mytake?

I have been getting catfish suspect replies or Pms for a long time and I want to say officially that I'm not a catfish and I have reasons to explain that. I want to end this as soon as possible as I don't want to deal with more rude people criticizing me or reporting me for no reason at all. Well all aren't rude but yeah I have dealt with at least 5-6 rude people suspecting me as catfish. I haven't reported/complained/blocked them because I understand that their curiosity got their best. I appreciate and respect those who asked me whether I'm a catfish in most polite manner. Thanks for your politeness very much :) This mytake also answers many questions people are curious about me, I have given plenty of information about myself.

What is catfish first of all?

Why Im not a catfish and about me

All about me (totally real)

Nickname : Apple/Apulu (real name won't be revealed. Even if I trust you then most likely I will give out my first name not full.)

Dob : 14 August 2008

Age : 13 years

Grade : 8 grade soon going to grade 9 after few months. (I mentioned this because I don't know why but people asked me whether I study in college or school. I'm only 13 so I study in high school. I admit I'm younger than most of my classmates or other 8 graders as usually 14 year olds study in 8 grade but I joined school 1 year earlier).

Passion : Writing(keep this word in mind) and music

Hobbies (as I'm frequently asked that) :

-> In music category : Playing piano, writing songs, dancing, rapping, singing, listening songs/music (most are from Alan Walker, Billie Elish, Yiruma, K-pop and other random songs).

-> In writing category : Deep Poetry, song-writing, short suspenseful thriller horror stories-writing, novel-writing, deep quotes and dark and depressing essays.

-> In reading category : Teenage novels (Dork diaries), deep quotes/thoughts and meaningful poems.

-> other : Playing badminton, feeding stray animals and eventually making them my friends, baking cakes and cookies, trying to cook new things, acrylic painting, chatting with friends, gardening, taking afternoon walks in my garden in winter and evening walks in summer, helping parents in their business (accounting, finance, stock of bikes. They have bike showroom across the state. I included it in hobbies as I love my job and it was my request to do it), bike rides with brothers (bikes are better than any expensive car ride), Hanging out (in school with friends or in hometown/village with cousins), researching about new things (urban legends more specifically) and analyzing deep and spiritual things.

Zodiac sign : Leo (I relate a lot with my zodiac sign)

Personality : Straight forward, logical, serious, responsible, down to earth, dumb sometimes, workaholic (I overwork myself sometimes and it is not good), poetic, teacher's pet (Piano Sir and English teachers more specifically), savage, childish, shy (if I don't text first doesn't means I don't like to talk with you. I am just not the person who makes first move), inquisitive, night owl and morning person both, helpful (you can take my help instead of going to psychiatrist :) )

(if you want to know more then you can pm me. I have given enough information to prove a point that I'm not catfisher as a catfisher won't keep so many details about their fictional person usually. This proves I'm real!)

Reasons people told me why they think me catfisher and explanations to the reasons

Good English

One of the fact is that I'm more comfortable with English over my native language Hindi (in writing and reading I'm more comfortable with English but I'm fluent in speaking both of them). I'm comfortable in writing English and speaking as well. I wasn't very good in English before. When I joined my new school at 4th grade (the school I'm currently studying in) then as it is a British Council school and this school have partners all over from Europe, America, Africa and Japan so it is extremely compulsory to talk in English even in dispersal time, lunch or with friends. In language classes only we were allowed to speak in other languages. Now the school duration is for whole 8 hrs. I have been talking in English every 5 days a week for 8 hrs since 3 years (grade 4,5 and 6. I didn't count 7 and 8 as it went in online classes). I love reading teenage novels like Dork Diaries and I have a habit of writing (remember writing is my passion?) too. All in English. So I'm pretty much used with English over these years. In India you are taught English Alphabets before any other alphabets normally. Few of my classmates are far better than me in English. If you are suspecting me as catfish then I don't know how you will react meeting kids of 14-15 years speaking British English fluently (my classmates). I'm not very good in pronunciation though as much good I'm in writing.

Maturity

As you know I'm a very inquisitive person (not to the point when it becomes dangerous of course) I like analyzing spiritual and deep things a lot. I'm very good in spiritual things due to that. My mom also teaches me these things so yeah of course she is mature as she is already of 37 years. My dad is my topmost idol and I follow his steps most of the time and he is very wise I can say. My looks went with mom but my personality with my dad so I got his mature attitude. When I am sitting empty I wonder about deep things like why do we take birth in earth, what are our duties as humans, etc and I reach to my answer myself (you can read my mytakes on some of the things I wonder about the most). Also I like to analyze about the things in front of me at the moment. Suppose I'm chilling under a tree in my garden while listening music then I will start analyzing the tree. I will think how the tree takes so much pain without showing any reaction, how it stand still strong, how it pretends to be dead even though it have a soul, how it is ignored so much and all.

Intelligence

As I have mentioned I like researching on new things (remember it is my hobby?) I have learnt a lot from that. Simple.

Too much mysterious

I'm not being too much mysterious at all. If I don't share my number or social media(which I don't even have) then doesn't means I'm a catfish. I don't want stalkers, cyberbullies, scammers or those people to stalk me. It is called privacy and online safety not too much mysterious. You can see my half face in my profile and I guess my info here and that profile are enough to say I'm not a catfish. I didn't even wanted to put a profile pic in first place but regular questions whether I'm catfish or not made me do it. The pic is also without any editing or even simple make up touch ups or something like that. It is my bare and true face clicked in my bad quality phone camera. And yes I have given my wattpad account ID (Apulu14) and my writing works in my profile so that also proves I'm not a catfish.

Important note: I'm not writing this mytake for the anger of getting suspected but to announce this officially so people will know the detailed info here itself instead of explaining the same thing in Pm every time. I'm sorry if this was offensive in any way.

Thanks!

At last thanks for having patience to read this boring mytake till end. This mytake covers 2 topics in all. It gives my detailed introduction (basically answers of questions I'm asked a lot in Pm) and also the reasons I'm not a catfish. Thank you!

Mature young teenager doesnt means old catfisher. Age has nothing to with maturity.
Mature young teenager doesn't means old catfisher. Age has nothing to with maturity.

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