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Guys are not capable of being friends with someone they find attractive (Page 2)

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  • Scrambled
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    Explorer Age: 43
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    Well I may be a rarity but I am friends with a lot of girls I find attractive. I know I can't get them so I accept that and get on with it.

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    • Nobodycares
      Nobodycares
      +1 y

      You must enjoy getting teased.

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    • Scrambled
      Scrambled
      +1 y

      I don't really enjoy it, but I accept it. Its like living next door to a much richer neighbor. I'm not- not going to be friends with the guy just because he is richer than me and I kinda like the neighborhood too;)

      Reply
  • Anonymous
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    It's been studied and Males do not have females around for "friends"
    we can't be ourselves around females. We have females around when we are interested in them or someone close to them. Period.

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  • Anonymous
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    I'm friends with a lot of girls who I've never considered dating. I do have female friends who I find attractive, and I've had a crush one one, but later decided that I liked our relationship how it was. Basically I disagree.
    Although I do have friends who seem to want to date any girl who's nice and attractive, without getting to know them properly or being friends.

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  • Jxpxtxr
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    Guru Age: 30
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    Well, I have a lot of close guy friends including my best friend and they all keep complimenting me a lot and we manage to do a lot of really fun things together but majority of them is gay so..^^;

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    • JulyAndrews
      JulyAndrews
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      All my male friends are either bisexual or gay.

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  • Anonymous
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    Never fully know what a guy is thinking. Hahaha. They like to be mysterious. In my opinion a guy who says he wants to be friends and is not emotional available to you. Basically is saying let's have sex without sounding like a douchebag.

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    • MrOracle
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      Exactly right.

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  • The_Technomancer
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    Xper 5 Age: 27
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    People can't be just friends with someone they are attracted to. Hence "attracted".

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  • Bards
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    407 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    I can actually. My guy friends all like me but not all of them constantly flirt with me. And if they do, its not that serious. They are pretty chill in general. Hell, one tries to hook me up with people often enough.

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  • KhaysunDei
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    If we're friends with an attractive girl, it would be extremely agonizing and cruel to know such girl AND know that you will never have her.

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  • Consultant
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    +1 y

    I'm friends with lots of girls. Reasons why I'm friends with a girl:
    1. They are hot
    2. They are funny, hilarious, or fun to be around
    3. Both

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  • Nobodycares
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    Xper 6 Age: 36
    +1 y

    "Oh... your winking. I see."

    "Yeah, now your doing the emoticon I'm doing, now we're talking."

    "I can do that too."

    "Yeah, wait, why... why, stop it. You don't get it?"

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    • Nobodycares
      Nobodycares
      +1 y

      "I thought we were having fun."

      "No, that's... not fun for me. I like doing other things for fun."

      "Then why're we doing it? What other things do you find fun, lets do those things."

      "I was just getting to it! I thought something was gonna happen."

      "You mean the thing we did with the emoticons? I thought you said that was fun, I'm confused now."

      "So am I."

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    • AmberDawnxo
      AmberDawnxo
      +1 y

      Lol (filler)

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    • Grace_Rdz
      Grace_Rdz
      +1 y

      Hahahaha! cx

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  • muspelhem_5
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    Explorer Age: 42
    +1 y

    I'm a bit confused as to why you try to be friends in the first place? It sounds like you want a long-term relationship, he wants no strings attached, so you settle for friendship?

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  • Ihav2fart
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    Master Age: 36
    +1 y

    That is not true! A girl I used to be infatuated is HOT! We liked each other at different times so it never worked out. In the end I decided to move on and she's my best female friend!

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    If I'm genuinely interrested in a friendship then I'll be a goo friend to her but If I like her, she doesn't like me she tries to friendzone me and make me her emotional tampon I'm gonna be out of there for good

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  • The_Empty
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    Xper 7 Age: 28
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    They can, the trick is going in intending to be friends and nothing more. One of my best female friends is absolutely stunning, but I have no intention of dating her.

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  • Anonymous
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    I am, but then my sex drive will come in the middle. Which will lead to rejection. Which will lead to hurt feelings. Which will lead to me avoiding you.

    So yes, I am incapable.

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    • Anonymous
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      +1 y

      Men are inferior to women in many ways and now science is proving that. Try and be tolerant. lol

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  • Watermelonoma
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    Yoda Age: 35
    +1 y

    Hah.. cute conversation. I've been there... not recently though. I'm more experienced with avoiding situations like that now

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  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    +1 y

    Don't have time to make new friends, looking for love. Time I spend on friends is time that I'm not spending on lovers. If you don't fit the goals, it's time to say goodbye.

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  • Noxifer626
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    Yoda Age: 26
    +1 y

    I find my best friend attractive. In a kitty kind of way.
    You know, the type you think it's cute but wouldn't fuck it.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    I can, I just try to suppress feelings and never let her know.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    I don't agree with that. I have a friend just like you and she got annoying real fast. Excuse me.. you're not the only human ik... since when is a friendship exclusive or whatever. Plus my bestfriend is a girl so what? Nothings going on

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