Fellas, You Should Go And Love Yourself!

[CHARismatic110]

So I never really specify who my Takes are for, but they tend to be geared towards the ladies. Mostly because I relate more to them, you know since I am one. Today I've decided to talk directly to the men of GaG. Too often you guys get forgotten in these types of things. So this is one for you fellas! And don't worry, I'll keep it short! 😒

Being on this site has given me some insight on just how similar guys are when it comes to insecurities and putting on appearances. In reality, you guys deal with a lot more than you let us see. I see so many questions about height and muscles and even penis size questions. And it's like, wow, I never stop to think "guys have issues too". Women are more open to talking about theirs, which helps others to help them. Guys aren't really forthcoming about that type of stuff.

I just want to let you guys know that your height, the amount of muscles you have, what's in your bank account and your penis are not the things that define you. I can't speak for every girl, but I a lot of us don't care about that stuff. We just want to see you. We want you to show us who you are. Don't ever feel low because of the next man either. He may be dealing with his own battles. So focus on you and own who you are. Be confident. Take pride in yourself. It's ok to not be perfect. Just be you!

Keep your head up fellas!

[DooMguy]

Love myself? I don't know about that. I do kind of like touching my facial hair but that's as far as it goes. DooMguy's head is always up except when I'm asleep

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The only issue I got is with this one guy. . . who cannot shut his mouth. If he could just you know disapear I think things will be a lot better. At first I didn't mind him then I liked him but now the line has been croseed and there is no going back

[xHoneyxBeex]

I love this. I feel like men's body image issues often get overlooked. Everyone is so focused on women that some people forget that men can experience this as well. Men have insecurities just like women do so I think it's important to remember that. Great take :)

[CHARismatic110]

Thank you! We gotta show the guys some love and support too!

[xHoneyxBeex]

I agree! :)

[Jibaku]

Yea, this is true.

[Anonymous]

I take pride in my height to be honest. I like being short. Muscles I mostly want for me. I just want to look better to myself. Penis size is a two way street. There will be some girls who will turn away from me and some who will flock towards me because of it.

[CHARismatic110]

Good! You should. That's a part of owning who you are.

[Willy_Cee]

That was very kind and nice of you to write. I really appreciate it when a lady appreciates the difficulties with being a man.

There's a reason why we're more likely to commit suicide...

That was kind of dark, but I just wanted to say thanks.

[CHARismatic110]

You're very welcome!

[KDA20]

I had a feeling there were girls out there of this opinion but it is nice to have it confirmed - Thanks for taking the time to write the take

[CHARismatic110]

You're welcome! 😊

[Anonymous]

"I just want to let you guys know that your height, the amount of muscles you have, what's in your bank account and your penis are not the things that define you. I can't speak for every girl, but I a lot of us don't care about that stuff."

MOST women DO care when the guy's penis is smaller than the average. Most guys ARE average, but there are a few out there who weren't so lucky in the genetic lottery. We get treated like dirt by a lot of women.

[CHARismatic110]

a lot is not all tho.

[HookingSwan]

I take a bow in front of the master

Well done

Showing the fellas some love :D

Well done Miss

[CHARismatic110]

Thanks, love!

[thisGUYknows]

Ooooh child...
things are gonna get easier...
Ooooh child things will get brighter...

[CHARismatic110]

Love that song lol

[thisGUYknows]

Lol your mytake put it in my head when I was reading it.

[CHARismatic110]

Lmao well I'll take that as a good thing.

[aficionado]

Wow, this mYtake is so refreshing, and it cheered me up when I was feeling slightly low. Thanks! :)

[CHARismatic110]

No problem! Glad I could help!

[Anonymous]

The reason why guys don't like to be open about their issues is because they get hammered by everyone when they speak on them. People are more supportive and sensitive to women's issues than they are men's.

[CHARismatic110]

I agree. I hope that this gives them even an inkling of reassurance.

[pavlove]

Good work, maybe guys will heed this thing i've been saying to them over and over better coming from a woman

[CHARismatic110]

Thanks a lot.

[Scrambledagain]

Unfortunately "just being oneself" doesn't get a man laid or rich.

[CHARismatic110]

You'd be surprised.

[Scrambledagain]

Nope. Sorry. That's not how life works. If who you are doesn't get you laid, it doesn't get you laid. If you fat, nice guy, shy guy, white knight, or the rest of it... you not getting anything unless you change. It's simple and logical. At best a guy gets one long term partner that he settles for. That's the fate of many men.

[CHARismatic110]

Life is not all about getting laid tho...

[Scrambledagain]

Evolutionary scientists would disagree with you, but let's not go there and say yes, it's not about getting laid but it's still shit when what you are doesn't attract the girl you want and you end either: a) lonely or b) settling with someone who you don't like that much.

[DEEEE2]

I'm not really feeling much better, but I love myself four times a day and certainly feel better after that.

[CHARismatic110]

Whatever works for you.

[takumii]

I am taking your advice and making love to myself now aka masturbating.

[CHARismatic110]

Lmao, I would expect nothing less from you.

[smahala1991]

Great take! This is so true even for guys. We have issues too

[CHARismatic110]

You're welcome and thank you!

[YourFutureEx]

Awwww <3
Made my day ;_;

[CHARismatic110]

Lol yayyy!

[YourFutureEx]

Sorry forgot to <3

I must say you did a brilliant job because you made a lot of us smile in just two paragraphs. Mad skills!

[CHARismatic110]

Lol thanks bud.

[ted22]

Tryna make a thug cry :(

[CHARismatic110]

Lol go ahead and shed those thug tears!

[Ashely_Princess]

I'm not a fella, fella 😂😂

[CHARismatic110]

I would hope not.

[Ashely_Princess]

😝😝

[JustinX9]

Loving myself is all I need

[CHARismatic110]

Absolutely!

[IceEverest]

Thanks I am feeling better now...

[CHARismatic110]

No problem.

[skeptic007]

I like this lets hope they listen

[CHARismatic110]

Thank you!

[Anonymous]

You're such a sweetheart thank you

[CHARismatic110]

You're welcome!