Overcoming Insecurities

[vekin]

We all have insecurities, which can make us worry a lot. Some can deal pretty good with their insecurities or are able to hide them.

The question is: How do we overcome these insecurities?

The Obstacles

Firstly we should know what are the obstacles to deal with our insecurities?

Obstacles can be:

1. Past criticisms.

2. A negative self-image.

3. Needing approval.

4. Lack of trust.

5. Images in social media & the media.

6. Not accepting things about ourselves.

The Road to Dealing with Insecurity

The obstacles are the path to overcome our insecurities. Embrace the obstacles and make them help you on your way.

1. Forgive

2. Accept all of yourself

3. Instead of longing of approval of other practice self-approval

4. Stop comparing yourself with others

5. Start to trust that everything will be fine

[Robin35d]

At 35 I'm struggling to work on these things. I pushed a wonderful man away from me because I have issues with myself, I realized if I don't want to settle or be alone for the rest of my life I need to work on my issues and be confident in myself. Fortunately, the man i spoke of came back in my life and I am more motivated than ever to keep him by fixing myself.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

you forgot the most important 1

#6: the art of not giving a fuck
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[LoveJones1]

I really like this topic. Because i deal with a lot of insecurities from why people dont like me or jus simply being offensive at times...

[Ariel1990]

Hello vekin, as always this is a great one. Keep on writing. A spot on.

[vekin]

Thank mermaid ;-)

[Spiorad_Aisce]

As always a good road map of points to think about on this topic.

[vekin]

thank you for reading