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Sour Grapes: Men - No, BOYS - Who Hate Women Because They Can't Get Them (Page 3)
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i think this is a totally normal part for everybody that after a rejection you go through a phase of hate. you blame them for your feelings that hurt you now. it´s not easy to overcome it and realize that it´s not her fault, cause there´s just nobody to blame. our human brains can´t work with "nobody to blame".
Yes it's normal to be mad at the person who rejected you but to be mad at a entire gender because of it is not.
@99percentangel well if you get rejected a lot...
Still. It's completely ridiculous to be mad at another gender.
@99percentangel but sometimes you get bitter and lose hope. it´s a temporary state of mind, not the conviction, that the other gender is shit xD although i have seen that on gag too before.
@99percentangel biiiiiitch SAYS WHO?
@99percentangel bitch y'all do it all the time!
@Frustrated2016 um when did I say women didn't do this? I was talking about both genders. Never did I say one specific gender.
@99percentangel it says men/Boys in the Titel xD that's probably why.
@Frustrated2016 lol and it's so nice you refer to me as bitch 🙄
Girls even don't talk to me when I try to talk to them. In university, In the class, I was trying to talk to a girl, she just acted like I didn't exist. She didn't look at my face when I tried to talk to her. Us ugly guys can't even talk to girls because them girls don't want to.
She didn't even look at my face when I tried to talk to girls. This is the girls' attitude towards us ugly guys.
LMAO you have to consider that she's busy and doesn't want to get hit on by a guy right now?
@raspberry0416
No. It is because I am ugly for her. For this reason She wants me to get away from her.
that is ridiculous. these men should be wiped out from the gene pool. as the pussyslave studs should be wiped too. only the few rational males who genuinely choose to go mgtow because we have more important things to do with our lives should inherit the earth.
i have to agree with my experience but not every men is like that but when i refused to have sex with my previous crush he hated me and was making my life a living hell. He got laughed at for getting rejected and spread rumours, aproaching me sometimes with a group of guys who made fun of me and made me cry infront of them, i had the worst year of my life because of a butthurt guy
WTF that sounds ridiculous
@raspberry0416 but it's true!
I know I was sympathizing with you lol
@raspberry0416 oh my bad, thanks :)
Thankfully, I've ever met a few women haters, and they were really childish frat guys who would snicker at a girl for laughing and being happy while they talked about if the other had a "hot" date for some dance.
It's real easy to say all this crap when you probably don't even do anything. I wish I can simply stand somewhere and get approached by women but of course that never happens.
That's what I mean what work do women put in through the dating scene except makeup lol
@Mrwoo99 lol yeah that's hilarious man. I don't get how sprinkling some make up on your face is hard work, it's not like it's a requirement to do it.
Yeah women only put emphasis on their appearance because it's all they have to offer.
Don't worry, they will feel it when they get older lol
@Mysterio421 yeah when they turn 30 and their nipples begin pointing south with a big massive KFC bargain bucket between her legs from all bad boys and goodlooking players she's whored around with. I can't wait for women to hit the wall in their 30s
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Men age like wine... women age like milk. Feels good to be a man because as a guy I can offer society and civilisation much more than what a woman can offer except for her body and blow job skills. Lol
Women appoach men they think is hot. So yes, for some men they can't relate to not being approached
@somebodysaycheese Some approach and some don't due to nervousness and etc.
@somebodysaycheese more like most men. The only guys I see getting approached are guys that are really tall, have money, high status, and of course as you said good looking. How many men fit all these? Not a lot.
Most men who get approached are hot, have hot faces and nice bodies
@somebodysaycheese a lot of them have conceited personalities too so if that's your type of guy go for it.
Omfg. noones trying to get married but be with a hot guy and have good sex. Girls like arm candy too to show off to her friends
@somebodysaycheese show off to their friends? Are you looking for a partner or an object? I honestly cannot distinguish what your intentions are.
Depends on the woman. many women dont want relationship just like men
@somebodysaycheese So what are you personally looking for?
And how do you know that she doesn't do anything? Have you met her? Some guys are just as bad, just thinking they can stand next to a women and do or say nothing. Is that meant to make her want him? You guys can't also claim that all women have to offer are their looks because of how much makeup they plaster on. They do that because of shallow men who judge people before take time and get to know them. What do you think guys that can't act on it have to offer? Their spectacular personalities. "Oh look at Bob, he's just so cute and charming. . . he is a genuinely nice guy with such a great sense of humour. But wait a minute. . . he can't even talk to women he's interested in. How do we know how great a guy is if he can't even meet us halfway and he can't even start a conversation and show us how great he is? Or do guys send their friends over to do their dirty work for them?
@somebodysaycheese Women want a relationship in their post wall 30s with the nice guy when all the bad boys, players and six pack pretty boys don't want them anymore you mean...
@Shorty1991 You want to know why a lot of guys are afraid to approach women? Because you're more shallow than us. Yeah we may put more of an emphasis on appearance but I swear women aren't far off, you want to know what a guy has to have? A job, make a lot of money, tall, muscular, high status (which can be anything), powerful, a sense of fashion etc etc. There's just too many things to worry about a lot of the times it just isn't worth it. Might as well stay single.
I don't think it's fear. I think it's just not worth the time. If you do the cost/analysis. Foreign women are better in my opinion
Me now? Relationship. Me a few years ago a good f*ck.
@Mrwoo99 lol. being that statistically most women dont want marriage anymore that's untrue. Being that most single older women date younger thats not true. more women date younger than older kn this day n age
@Mysterio421 For some guys though it is legitimate fear. Unfortunately they're are some guys out there who has faced very harsh treatment from woman for whatever reason. Although I do think there's more important things to worry about I can't say I blame them.
I would say that we were all shallow to a certain extent. Men and women aren't really all that different in that sense. Since I'm currently unemployed and searching for a job. I know how hard it is to find one. So jobs, high status and money doesn't matter to me. I would be really happy if guys would stop playing games with me and messing me around. I've been on dates with men that I wasn't even attracted to but gave them a chance because I still wanted to get to know them. If a guy has the balls to ask me out, I give him a chance. If he talks to me but is afraid to ask me out. I'll take it from there and ask him out. Tall and built like a brick might make him hot, but it doesn't tell me much about his personality. Other than he likes to hit the gym and I can only guess that he might also be very self absorbed. I like guys of different builds and heights. I would worry if he was any shorter than 5ft3 though, that's my height. Lmfao!
*tall and built like a brick shit house
@somebodysaycheese Interesting. So what made you decide you wanted a relationship did you just think it was time to drop the hookups and find somebody genuine?
I view it as a car. The perfect analogy. Everyone loves a new car. The brand new car smell, the odometer that says 000. It's great in the beginning, you are showing off the new car and enjoying it. Taking care of it. A few years pass by and it doesn't have the new smell anymore, 150k miles on the odometer, you hear squeaks and the car had rusty parts here and there, the engine needs servicing, etc. Most people start off with a used car as it's the best they can afford and as they make money down the line, they can afford a newer car. It's the same with women in my opinion. Just do a comparison.
What changed? I became a Christian as in a real christian who beleives in everything in the bible.
@Shorty1991 Guys in general get rejected more often in the dating world. You know how a lot of you women don't approach because you don't want to get rejected? Guys are the exact same, but unfortunately for most of us we have no choice but to approach, unless we want to stay single.
@somebodysaycheese So that means you're now abstaining from sex until marriage then?
Yes i am
Well I have been there done that got the t-shirt countless times, i deal with it and move on, so it happens equally to both genders. Dont make it one sided.
@somebodysaycheese I'm sure there's had to of been plenty of times where you wanted to fuck.
Lol. of course BUT i have self control.
@somebodysaycheese Oh. You think you're gonna last all the way until marriage huh? That could be a pretty long time from now.
Im pretty confident in my abilities
@somebodysaycheese Ohhh confident one I see. I can't wait to see this.
@Shorty1991 I wouldn't say equally but they're women who do get rejected a lot.
And another thing is that people who have crushes and never act on it tend to shift the blame to their crush because they didn't take them by the hand. Its not the crushes fault. Its their own fault. They also class that as rejection when their crush loses interest and moves on. When in fact its just loss of interest because they are taking to long to act on it. Technically you have to ask someone out or tell them how you feel about them before they can reject you. I dont know why people get those two mixed up.
Ikr and meanwhile women must sit and accept the fact that "they have preferences". It goes to show how this world is filled with double standards. The guys in the comment section would be quick to dismiss women because they can't satisfy their criteria of beauty and yet they are ranting because women are stating their opinions. Good take on this subject!
Urgh!! us guys are expected to do everything, i feel turned off completely by this. I don't need a women anymore, i'm focusing on my life from now on
Sally's Mytake is true to a large extent, there are some unsuccessful men who think the woman should fall into his lap and he feels entitled to this woman, I have two friends like this and until they change and start being more proactive and start putting their head above the parapet and risking rejection they'll always stay in this negative realm they have placed themselves in.
However I find the tone of this MyTake means that all of the valid points Sally has made will be lost on unsuccessful as men as they will immediately go on the defensive and refuse to acknowledge that they are contributing to their own failure in this aspect of their lives.
Sally's Mytake is also a little short-sighted as she assumes all unsuccessful men believe that women should fall into their lap and believe they are all nice guys. I am someone that has slipped underneath her radar as I am neither nice or laid back, if I see a woman I desire I will make a move.
#Centerino Thanks, i understand, i just wish would also come to understand that its hard for us too. If women see a guy they like, why don't they approach the guy?
I have approached women before and had good and bad experiences, but it almost feels like us guys to all the hard work.
Women don't approach guys in the main because they don't have to, guys have traditionally always courted the woman and this goes for most creatures in the animal kingdom. I don't mind asking women out, I don't mind arranging dates and putting in the effort. It's not that much effort in all honesty.
Some women do ask men out though, those women do exist. What annoys me about women like Sally is that she has no idea what it's like to be a man and yet here she is telling men how to be men. She raises valid points but I bet if the shoe was on the other foot and she was on the receiving end of a MyTake like this, she'd be pretty sore about it. Women shouldn't tell men how to be men any more than men should tell women how to be women.
#Centerino I guess so, well i'll keep trying to hopefully find that girl, thanks :)
I'll be rooting for you, pal. Take care.
#Centerino Thank you so much man, i really appreciate that. I am feeling confident after talking to you. :)
For me it's a totally different situation , I'm not in a position to even date as I'm a single dad , knew this from when I took main custody. Best tip for the guys is when you go out , just simply have fun , combined with a bit of an IDGAF attitude.
nonsense. I'm a single dad and I've met plenty of women. Granted, usually when I don't have the kids. I do recommend pof. com
I can get woman but still I can't understand them the way She wants me to. Now I know "She will die complaining rather than saying Ok you are doing good, I can't ask for more".
Sour Grapes: Women - No, Girls - Who Hate Men Because They Can't Get Them
This is a great perspective on this article.
I agree... but I don't know how guys take rejection so easily! I've been rejected occasionally and it's terrible.
That's bullshit.
There are men that simply don't have a chance with x girl, even before opening up their mouth.
Say whatever, approach her however, be whatever... You must disappear either way
How do you mean not have a chance with a certain girl? In what way
I think women are not smth to get still I'm a misogynist. Some men are just tired and are too old for this shitt in their souls.
But sometimes GIRLS make it impossible by overvaluing themselves or being bitches for no reason
What about hate women cause a lot of them are too easy
Sometimes it's hard to take a girl to dinner , while all she wants fuck
what about women saying a guy must be gay because he didn't notice her :p
You have a point here, can I use these things you mentioned on my list? (it's private book, not a MyTake or anything that I'd share)
UH OH, UH OHHHH
Can't wait to read the comments...
Yup agreed good mytake it's fucking dumb that people do that.