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To be honest I'm a bit scared of men. I hate lying with a passion. It drives me crazy, and every man I've known so far always lied about something, whether important or just plain stupid. And they can do so much shit behind your back and you won't know for a while and end up looking stupid. Smh. I try not to have my guard up when people approach me but it's hard. I wish they would leave me alone sometimes.
As if that's a gendered trait.
I don't trust a lot of other women because they're compulsive liars who are sneaky backstabbing gossips. Does that mean I should be "a bit scared of women"?
@TiffyPuff I've never dealt with that personally from women so I gave no reason to feel that way towards them. I have however experienced this with every man, from my father to guys, and I just want them to stay away from me.
Anecdotal Evidence:
"You used a personal experience or an isolated example instead of a sound argument or compelling evidence."
https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/anecdotal
Because 90% of men are not afraid of women, just a lot of guys who are part of that 10% that are tend to use this website.
We actually agree
@BuchitaBuchys Must feel nice being right for once lol
I'm sure you feel good about that :)
Well, for one thing men who are afraid of women are more likely to be on GaG, as otherwise they would be occupied elsewhere.
But you also have to realize that it is probably 20% of the single male population who makes it seem like men are hitting on you all the time.
because there isn't just one type of man.
Some men are not use to women and afraid of rejection or aren't able to focus on the conversation enough not to act differently.
Other men just dont care and will hit on you if they feel like it or on a whim others talk normally and just happen to flirt as a by product ,
some (me ) are genuinely lost when there asking for directions.
Route planning can take more work than you think it dose some times so don't judge me.
First of all... Dave Ryan in the Morning show!!
Now that I've gotten that out of my system, I don't think it's limited to younger guys. From what I can tell, I'm older than you and I've always been on the shy side. I'm working on it, but I don't hit on women. I actually prefer to talk to women like an actual human being.
by the way, the only MGTOW I do is Maximum Gross Take Off Weight... I'm just plane nuts...
As per some of your comments in this take , many & a growing number of men do not even LOOK at women , let alone approach. Men are labelled as " perverted , predatory , creepy " etc just for being a normally wired male... this blog is food for thought... https://edumckaytion. com/blog/men-notice-women-anymore/
Of course not ALL men are afraid of women, but most I'd venture...
+ almost no man is afraid approaching a drunk girl, a simple girl (talking about her mind), a promiscuous girl --. because they think they've little to nothing to lose there.
I think hot women will always be hit on. But for the average chicks or slightly above ones guys aren't as willing to hit on as much and the average group experienced a decline. Also there's different stages because some guys are nervous about the first sentence they'll say others are confident with that and are nervous about asking out. I think the asking out has declined as well. It's just hanging out now and both genders do it so guys don't feel as forced to do it. So some wait it out compared to a decade ago where guys never were asked out as much.
I stopped making efforts with women because thye like attention and hide the fact that they have bfs i lost trust in women not im afraid
me too bro
In my case the guy thought I had boyfriend when really the other guy was being friendly/clingy/flirty as he knew I was shy but since then my crush wouldn't even look in my direction. I get so annoyed because guys always ignore me its like they are scared of me but they all talk about me behind my back there was only one guy in my life who would smile at me try to talk but in the end he lost trust as I took too long. I stopped even making efforts in my appearance.
We want your sex but none of the entitled feminist BS culture that is now the norm in America. American women are good for meaningless sex but have been poisioned by feminism and media, marketing vote beggin politicians, most not even realizing it or can admit it.
Get a woman from China or Phillipines for marrying or kids
Maybe you're in the "safe zone" ... attractive, but not TOO attractive?
You're approachable, not intimidating
It's just online, not real life. You already know there are tons of weirdos online.
Hey! Hey! Hey!
just Cause I'm a weirdo doesn't mean I don't have feelings😔😔😔
I don't know. More men hit on/flirt with me now that I'm older.
I knew a very pretty girl - she looked like a doll and she was 23 and never had a boyfriend. So I don't know what that says.
Of course they due (not being sarcastic)
*do
when are they gonna add an edit button to this.
Because you get hit on by douchbags with confidence. Girls like confidence so they go out with the douchbag.
Nerds try asking girls out but they always get rejected. So they stop asking girls out.
There's your answer.
Are you saying that if you have confidence then you're a douchbag by default? And that if you're a nerd, you lack confidence by default?
@Derpyy Not all the time. But 70 to 80% of the time.
Oh. You're not using absolutes. Okay then. I know two guys who are the opposite of what you said so I was raising my pitchfork screaming, "They do exist!"
Far too many guys make an automatic connection between "confidence" and "douchebag."
When in fact, a lot of it boils down to jealousy; i. e., "I can't be confident like that with girls... he must be a douchebag."
@Fathoms77 Exactly. That's why I commented in the first place.
@Fathoms77 Nope. Not jealous at all. Just always try and get rejected. So we give up. Douchbags don't care so they move onto the next girls. "Playing the odds."
But how does them not caring make them douchbags? They're just not letting the rejection defeat them.
Sorry, still sounds a LOT like jealousy to me. :P
I am 40 and its pretty damn rare that I've witnessed "hitting on" Also considering how many posts on her from girls that are super hot saying they never get hit on, I call bullshit on this post. that or you just look really easy.
It's funny i've maybe "seen" someone hit on a girl twice or so in my life... guys are so worried about crash and burn and someone to witness it but its not something you can notice unless you're really focused
A problem is also that some girls think a guy is hitting on them when in actual fact they are just testing.
that goes both ways
Testing?
@Imcmullan To see what she's like, how she responds, is she relationship "material", do we have things in common, what's attractive about her from a personality perspective etc.
Makes sense...
Only certain types of men are afraid of women. It's a growing minority but a minority.
The average guy who is not terrified of false rape claims still doesn't hit on women much.
A small group of men hit on women -constantly-
Being hit on is very much culturally affected too. In certain countries speaking to someone you don't know is verbatim.