there is nothing wrong with nerds and boring is subjective. what guys most bimbos find "boring" for me they can be great if they are intellectually stimulating.
yeah I know, it's just the assumption every nice guy is like that, followed by the generic advice, "go hit the gym, get a sense of fashion" that get's me.
I don't want to be expected to commit to someone who has a history of not committing, it's hypocritical. If you're looking for a traditional relationship that's different, but that's not what I want personally.
I was trying to respond without giving you my whole life story. I think honesty is important e. g. because so many people criticise nice guys for doing nice things but not being honest about what they want in return. Well my niceness does not extend beyond common courtesies and I am honest about what I want. But I go on internet and people are always like "if you finish last it's because you're a nice guy". In general no one gives a shit if you're bad at women you just have to accept your lot.
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there is nothing wrong with nerds and boring is subjective. what guys most bimbos find "boring" for me they can be great if they are intellectually stimulating.
yeah I know, it's just the assumption every nice guy is like that, followed by the generic advice, "go hit the gym, get a sense of fashion" that get's me.
What's wrong with wanting a long term commitment before sharing your body with someone? That's ultimate trust for some people.
which part are you referring to?
Number 4 : Some women have to be married first or in a long term commitment which is just, whatever.
I don't want to be expected to commit to someone who has a history of not committing, it's hypocritical. If you're looking for a traditional relationship that's different, but that's not what I want personally.
I just want to point out that a lot of nerds have girlfriends.
Like I said, I don't have anything against nerds personally.
You should stop being a nice guy and just buy a motorcycle, leather jacket and a gun.
I can't afford those things. Is it enough to just do MMA?
I had girls trying desperately to get me into bed. For years. Because of MY 'shit test'.
Just found this:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2293318-girl-asked-me-for-sex-how-do-i-turn-her-down-without-any-drama
What's your Shit Test?
@HarryJBenton I'm talking LOTS with people. And only a few girls can stand that. Also because of the things I talk about.
Getting used and treated as a "nice guy" seems to be the reason so many men are giving up.
It's good that you're pointing these things out
someone finally said it.
So what exactly makes you a "nice guy"?
I'm honest about what I want.
That makes you an honest guy, not a nice guy. I am honest too, but I am a dick
I was trying to respond without giving you my whole life story. I think honesty is important e. g. because so many people criticise nice guys for doing nice things but not being honest about what they want in return. Well my niceness does not extend beyond common courtesies and I am honest about what I want. But I go on internet and people are always like "if you finish last it's because you're a nice guy". In general no one gives a shit if you're bad at women you just have to accept your lot.
You are not a nice guy.
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