Why Are Good Women Being Left For Hoes?

[Anonymous]

I use to ask myself this question all of the time when my ex left me. I wondered why he'd rather chase after ho** on social media than appreciate me, a good woman. Then I watched this video:

This man asnwer was that, "Good woman are being left for "ho** because they're more spontaneous and can ignite a mans fire". I imediatetly thought, BULL****. Good woman can be spontaneous, ignite a man's fire and still be left for a for ho** because hoes are less work. Ho** don't require loyalty, honesty, commitment, attention, or respect from their men because 1) they aren't themselves and 2) they have multiple men to fulfill their needs & desires. However, good women don't. We're loyal, honest, committed, etc.... and we want our men to be too. So, when some men aren't ready or willing to be those things for us they opt for ho** instead. Good women are work. We care, we give, we want, we feel, and need too much! At the same time, I think a lot of good women, such as myself, lack confidence and self-respect. It doesn't matter how good you are to a man if you don't respect yourself he isn't going to respect you. He'll take what he can get and move on to a women who requires less and respect hereself more.

Thoughts?

[Anonymous]

I agree with all of this. And I'll add that men mature more slowly emotionally than women. We always have, and we are typically not mature enough to see the value of being in a committed relationship as early as women are.

But the other side of that coin is that there is less motivation for men to settle down these days than there was in the past. That's a two-pronged issue. First, on average, women do not offer as much value in a committed relationship as they used to. Modern women are not women in the same sense they were in the past. Women are more like men today than the woman of 50 years ago. I'm not saying that's good or bad, but it's a fact that plays into this issue. The other "prong" here is that in the past sex was something that was hard for men to find outside of committed relationships. That's not nearly as true today, and it removes much of the motivation for younger men to stay in a committed relationship.

[BrittBratt2416]

I agree, they leave a good woman for a hoe cause they just want play around, just have fun, and not a committed relationship. A man who isn't ready to settle down with someone will go for the hoe cause he doesn't take the girl seriously and is only there for a short period time just for the sex. When he gets bored or the hoe starts wanting more, he'll leave her for a more respectable woman.

[GingerGuy]

"Good" women tend to be shy and don't approach or talk to guys. It's the same reason women are with "jerks", it's because it's the jerks that are outgoing and do the approaching and say all the right things women want to hear.

[Brooke_1713]

they just want to fuck around and living the moment, plus hoes usually could fullfill their sexual desire rather than a good girl. They want something just bad and hot af. Anyway, that's just my opinion XD

[ouzaki]

If a boy does that it's because deep inside he knows he isn't good enough for a good woman. If he's with a cheap girl he'll be able to feel superior.

[Anonymous]

cause these beta women seek alpha men who can't be faithful though. while beta men seek alpha women thus are getting cheated on etc. thats humanity for you.

[ChocEyes1]

Well, if "good women" are as bitter, moralist judgmental as you are, there you have your answer. It's the same as "nice guys" complaining how women always ignore them and go for bad boys.

[Maxemeister]

My question for you is what defines a "good girl" vs a "hoe."

[ProjectBaby1K]

You're going to listen to GED reject (former inmate #20354) for relationship advice? I'll be sure to stay away from you...

[John_Doesnt]

Because hoes don't judge based on anything, but money. Which is more honest than regular women.

[Anonymous]

Pretty much agree with you. Same thing is true in reverse as well.

[LivingLife94]

Another pink anon whining on the internet lol

[Igarcia339]

you must be part of the hoe gang... well your photo tells it all

[Anonymous]

Did it happen to you?

[Anonymous]

I'd like to see men's thoughts on this too

[Anonymous]

some like bitchy girls

[Anonymous]

They probably just don't want commitment.